• From the club's point of view, do you have any tips for finding good women?I feel like my batting average is going down lately...


Question date: 2018/05/29 13:05

From the club's point of view, do you have any tips for finding good women?I feel like my batting average is going down lately...

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Kida (President)

Kida will answer first,

Since I may not be able to answer the real feeling of the site, I am also asking the staff of each branch.

First of all, my opinion is a little harsh and unpleasant, but please forgive me.

Tips for finding a good woman
I feel like my batting average is going down
It is 0 points at the time of saying.
Please go to the love class again or buy an information product called "How to Win a Date" and study it.

Businessmen and strategists say, "Think from the other person's point of view."

"I met a good girl this time."
"This time I hit a useless child."
"The batting average is that bad"

When you are dating a woman thinking that

"I met a good man this time."
"I met a bad man this time."
"The batting average is that bad"

This time, there is no need to judge whether it is a hit or a miss, like hitting a watermelon.

Trying to guess a good woman without training is too good
(When you think you've met a good woman, will the other person feel the same way?)

I don't know how to choose a good woman, so I'm trying to cover it up with mental theory, but anyway, I think that kind of attitude is necessary.

Are men who always go on dates good at choosing women?
I think that's not all.Maybe you are thinking from the other person's point of view?

In this place where men and women can see, there is already no consideration for calling women like a hit or miss, and it is because of anonymity that humanity comes out.

Please read the book written by Mr. Kosuke Nozaki, who passed away the other day, "Don Juan of Kishu"
・If you intentionally fall in front of a beautiful woman, ask her to help you up.
・A strategy to pass a business card containing 1 yen to the CA,
Full of techniques that are casual and difficult to refuse without making the other person feel uncomfortable

  • Answer date: 2018/05/29 15:22
Female member


● Female member D
Thank you
On the contrary, I was relieved to know that the male members were just as anxious as we were, or rather, they were kind of nervous.
However, after meeting for a long time from the first time, there were some men who started to meet frequently, and no matter how many men I met, I remember them all like a private person,

●Ms. E, a female member
It's all about mutual feelings, so I try not to betray their expectations, but on the contrary, if I make too much, I'll be choking myself, so it's really no different from meeting in private.
Believe it or not, it's possible that the man I introduced you to three years ago started a company together and now meets his father without me.It can happen in real life.Maybe it's because we have a relationship of trust! ! !

Since the establishment of the company, I have never had a physical relationship with a man, but I have a relationship like a lifelong friend.
I don't get too involved in private matters, but when I think of someone as an acquaintance, I naturally talk about myself.
can't believe it lol

Because we have a relationship of trust, I guess we can step into private places even if we both shoulder risks! ! !
I have learned many things from men.
I think I was rude in the beginning.

  • Answer date: 2018/05/30 16:17
Female member


●Ms. F, a female member
I never thought that the value of one item would drop,

●Mr. G, a female member
Am I popular?

●Mr. H, a female member
I don't think the value will go down.
I would like to deal properly with each and every person who made an offer.
In the first place, I think it's very rude to think that the value will drop even though you made the effort to make an offer!

● Female Member I
of course!Never!We care about each and every one of them, and we know each person's hobbies, favorite things, and favorite foods.I'll give you a present on your birthday

  • Answer date: 2018/05/30 16:17
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This is Kitamura from the Tokyo branch.
Just in case, I interviewed female members who have many offers as follows.
"When you receive offers from many men, do you change the weight of one or compare men?"
We received responses from 10 women.

● Female member A
(The value of one item) will not fall!I won't drop it!

● Female member B
No such thing!
On the contrary, the more offers you get, the more confident you are in yourself, and when you meet a man, you can improve yourself by dressing up so that you don't disappoint him if he doesn't look like the one in the picture!

● Female member C
In my personal opinion,
In conclusion, the value of each offer does not decrease.
Because everyone's style is different.
There are members who want to meet women in various styles.
I think there is one woman, or a different woman every time, and you don't know until you meet.
And each person is important because you can learn a different view of life from each person.

  • Answer date: 2018/05/30 16:16
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Kida (President)

Kaoru Kitamura from Tokyo branch will answer

Is it correct to interpret that a good woman is a woman who suits your taste?

There is a limit to what we can tell you on the site, so I think you should ask the staff to dig deeper.
The service will differ depending on the membership class, but if you do not recommend it at the time of the interview, after registration, and honestly,
We will do our best to inform you as soon as possible.

Her looks and her dating type are perfect, but she's actually a bit of a jerk and has a bad personality.
From a woman's point of view, you don't seem to be a good match, so I don't think you'll be a good match.
There are times when I will tell you while being presumptuous.

  • Answer date: 2018/05/29 17:47
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Kida (President)

Toritani from the Kyoto branch will answer.

Thank you for your question.
The trick to finding a good woman is to be honest, depending on the person.
However, as a minimum method,
1, there is a point that I am attracted to
2, the concept of dating type
3. Dealing with clubs
4, female response
I think it would be a good idea to refer to
First of all, it is a major premise here because I do not feel like dating unless I am attracted to the minimum woman.
Regarding 2, I think it would be better if you could ask the club staff about the reaction and atmosphere when you asked the woman at the time of the interview.
Similarly, regarding 3 and 4, I think it would be better to ask the club staff as well as 2.
As for the reason, if you can at least protect the courtesy and manners of the club staff, I think that I can introduce people who can keep the minimum manners as a person even during a date.
Also, if you can't protect it too much, we may not be able to recommend it as a club, so in some cases, it may not be a fun date.
Of course, there are times when the club staff are knotholes, but...

Just asking the club staff is useless!If you are thinking about it, I think it is better to decide your own line at the very least.
·body weight
・Dating type
I feel that there is a possibility that I will meet a woman who I think is good if I do not make an offer if this does not apply.
What do you think?
We hope for your reference.
Thank you in advance.

  • Answer date: 2018/05/29 15:25
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Kida (President)

Matsuda from the Nagoya branch will answer

I'm sorry that I haven't been able to meet a nice woman recently, and I can't provide a solid match between men and women.
I think it's easy to understand the bad aspects of replying late, being late, and having a bad attitude, but I think that a good woman is a woman who has a good feeling, so I think it's quite difficult to define.

If you don't mind, I would appreciate it if you could give me some time to discuss the men's wishes with the staff in charge.
I wish I could talk to you about your wishes and what the staff felt directly.

  • Answer date: 2018/05/29 19:52
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Kida (President)

Yoshida from the Chiba branch will answer

The trick to finding a good woman is a difficult problem.
If there is such a thing, it will be full of 10% hitters.

However, I think there is a way to prevent mismatches in advance.
In the first place, the standard of a good woman is different for each person, and it may change depending on the person who sees it.

Above all, I think it's a good way to follow first impressions.
It seems difficult to overturn the first impression in a short time.

I would like you to take a look at the photos, videos, and profile, and cherish the first impression you felt.
Of course, we would like you to refer to the first impressions of the staff who were in charge of the interview from beginning to end, so please do not hesitate to contact us.

  • Answer date: 2018/05/29 19:54
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Kida (President)

Takahashi from the Yokohama branch will answer

I think that there are various ways of thinking about what a good woman is, depending on the member.

There is also a relationship with the service content of the registered class,
Wouldn't it be best to contact the staff by phone, etc.?
may answer.

Of course, there are some things that we cannot respond to, but we would like to say [I want you to be satisfied] [I am glad you listened, thank you].
I will do my best to introduce you so that you can think about it.

After that, if the purpose is to increase [batting average] and number rate,
It will be a story at the time of the actual offer,
Tell the woman the ideal date (content) in advance with a jab,
So, after the woman understands, "I definitely want to meet you" and if it's OK, GO!Do you feel like that?

Thank you for your confirmation.

  • Answer date: 2018/05/29 19:56
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Kida (President)

Nishijima from the Hiroshima branch will answer

It is a trick to meet a good woman,
As with other staff, I think the first thing to do is to ask the club staff any questions you may have.
The reason for this has already been expressed in the same way, so I will omit it.

Other than the above
Don't have too many stereotypes or unreasonable expectations about women just by looking at their profile.
I think that you shouldn't judge a woman you just met on the basis of 0 or 1.

There is a lot of information about women in your profile,
With that alone, I decided that "This child is my ideal!"
If you meet someone in person and they are even a little different from what you imagined, you will feel cold at once.
Sometimes it leads to the worst ending that no one pleases.

People have flaws that cannot be seen from words or pictures.
Women are also very happy to be looking forward to a date,
I think it's hard for women to be asked for something more than they expected from someone they meet for the first time.

I think that the woman's appearance is already liked and offered, so
After that, even if you find a woman's unpleasant inner side when you actually go on a date,
As you get to know each other, it may go away, or it may not even bother you.

I would appreciate it if you could help me with a little bit.
Thank you in advance.

  • Answer date: 2018/05/29 19:55
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Ishii from the Sapporo branch will answer

Thank you very much for your question.

There may not be an honest story about how to choose a woman who is 100% correct.
However, we have staff to improve the matching rate.

There are several ways.
・If you have a concierge in charge, please let us know the type in advance.
・If you have any questions at the time of the offer, please fill in the other fields.
・Choose together from your favorite
And so on.

However, I think dating is not just for the first time.
More than half of our customers want a long-term partner.
It is the second and subsequent dates that are important.
I think it's important to make women feel at ease in the second time.

So, for the first time, I think it's important to know how the date content will lead to the next one.
For example
・Do not force yourself to invite
・ How much can you get into a woman's pocket in the estimated time of 2 hours?
・Break out the excitement so that you want to see me next time
・Let women talk without talking about themselves
-doesn't express own opinion
I think that women will be able to feel at ease if they can have the awareness of connecting to the next one.

If you are still unsuccessful with these items, please let the staff at the branch know.
The staff is little by little, but we are studying about our members every day.

Thank you for your reference.

  • Answer date: 2018/05/30 17:48
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Fukuda from the Omiya branch will answer

First of all, why don't you take care of various women without being bound by your favorite preconceptions?

Of course, appearance preference is also important because it is the first impression, but if it is a long-term match, a woman who suits you and your life work will be a good woman. A woman can also be a good woman.

At the time of the offer, "I want to build a relationship with this idea, so if it doesn't suit you, please decline."
I will tell the woman if you give me the condition.

Also, I want to meet a woman with this condition!Or avoid!If you would like to
If you contact us by phone or email, we will pick up some people and introduce them.
It is also possible to confirm what kind of woman it was to the staff who was in charge of the interview.

Of course, there are women who are lax on time, or who are out of character and can't help it,
It's up to the man himself to become a good woman or a bad woman. . .and.

Thank you in advance.

  • Answer date: 2018/05/30 16:56

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