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    Please let me discuss the quality of the men you meet.
    Recently, dating clubs other than the Dad-katsu app and Universe...

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Question date: 2024/04/14 19:20

Nice to meet you.

Please let me discuss the quality of the men you meet.
Recently, I have been meeting men by registering with dating clubs other than the Dad-katsu app and Universe. (I am a former Universe member and know about this site.)

However, I often feel that the attitude of men is flagrant.

In particular,

Being late (suddenly being 30 minutes late on the day of the meeting/receiving a call saying "you'll be 15 minutes late" exactly at the meeting time),
Very arrogant attitude,
Some people are not able to take care of their bad breath.
Being too familiar with women when meeting them for the first time, or raising them too much (they don't treat women well),
Although he is bad at listening to what others have to say, his communication skills are a mystery, as he speaks quickly and seems only interested in what he is saying.

Etc.

I was surprised at the disparity as I had an image of an older, calm, mature and attractive man working here.
Even if the men I've met so far make a lot of money, I'm not sure if I can respect them as honest people...

You may say that's just me, but I get 8 offers from other clubs in a month, so it shouldn't be that bad. I've never been late or canceled at the last minute, and I recently met a man who is a regular.
By the way, I am registering to meet a wonderful man and improve myself.

The self-help and business books I read often tell me that people who have the above attitude are no good, so I don't think many successful people I meet actually follow this attitude. I feel confused.
I would like to hear everyone's opinions.
Thank you.

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Kazu

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Similarly, I have never been that late, nor have I ever been.

Since these topics are about self-development and before business, I think it's better to carefully consider the books you read.

By the way, I think people who say things like that about people, whether it's the quality of the men they've met or the quality of this year's new graduates, have an arrogant attitude.

Men will also look at the other person and make an offer.
I think it's a good idea to consider that if you're not getting offers from the people you want, there might be something wrong with you.

  • Answer date: 2024/04/14 20:29
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Seattle

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Neither I nor my regular commuter have ever been that late in three years.

There are many male members I have met, but I don't think there is anyone like that.

Maybe I'm just unlucky, or because I'm such a strange male member, I can't get regular memberships, I'm sure it's the latter.

Taking care of bad breath is important. Brushing your teeth alone is not enough. You should keep this in mind throughout the date. Many women don't care either.

  • Answer date: 2024/04/14 20:02
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Paper

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in general? If about 3% of women are popular, only about half or one-third of them are men, so I think there are many cases where it's unsatisfying or outrageous from a women's perspective.

Having said that, when it comes to being a dad, both parties are very considerate of each other when they first meet, so I don't think they will leave a bad impression.


It's not impossible to think that the other person is a mirror of yourself, so I think that thinking about finding the cause in yourself (even if the other person is the cause) will lead to good things happening.

  • Answer date: 2024/04/14 22:19
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Fuu

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I'm a little confused by the questioner's sentence.

The quality is poor at Universe Club, which also interviews men.
Or is it the quality of the dads on the lawless dad-hunting app where registration is completed at other dating clubs where it is unclear what kind of support they have or online places where there is no interview?
Which story are you talking about?

The delusion that rich people are good-natured people is
Let's throw it away
Half-hearted rich people are pushy and selfish.
Climb up and get rich by defeating other people
Some people are like that, and having money and having a good personality are
Not equal. Just being kind
You can't become rich.

If there are many offers
My dad refuses because he doesn't like it.
There seems to be no other way.
Even if the person asking the question complains that the quality is poor,
Because nothing changes...

  • Answer date: 2024/04/15 23:31

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