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Question date: 2024/04/13 21:14

This is my first time receiving a letter date, but I am having trouble with the frequency and content of our exchanges...

The first few messages I received from them were informative, but since then I've only received one-word responses, which I receive back within minutes of sending them.

I personally feel like I'm paying to receive an offer, so I try to change the subject or think about various things before replying, but to be honest, it's tiring for these kinds of exchanges to go on for so long before a date.

In such a case, is it better to tell the other person honestly?
We have arranged a date, but I am worried about meeting up.

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Kazu

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It's not like you received the money.
Rather than saying it directly, I think it would be a good idea to wait a while before replying.

  • Answer date: 2024/04/13 21:24
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Seattle

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When it comes to letter dates, it's normal to ask someone out on a date and give them an allowance after the third letter.

Invite him/her to take you out on a date.
If you're an idiot who only sends you letters, point them out and then block them. And I quickly gave feedback to the management that this male member was an idiot.

  • Answer date: 2024/04/13 22:07
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Paper

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If the other person only replies with one word


I think it's okay to not respond until the day before the date.


If you have a date set, you don't have to reply unless you want to continue, as long as you mark it as read after the other person replies.


As long as the reply from the woman is marked as read, it is okay for the man to not receive a reply for days or weeks. (When I think about it, it seems to come back in seconds...)


Men may respond accordingly if they receive a lot of LINE messages from women, so I think it's okay to respond 100/1 or 1 times less than women. (I don't use LINE unless I'm working, but if I'm a girl in a club and the first date is over and the night gets exciting, I might receive over 100 LINE calls. I'm impressed by the amazing expressiveness of women...)


The man may just reply right away so the woman doesn't have to take the trouble of looking at it again.
If it's just one word, they may not want to communicate.


  • Answer date: 2024/04/13 22:26
Male member

Die

Currently, in principle, only black members can go on letter dates.

Considering that, if I were a woman, I think I would first arrange our plans to meet in real life.

When it comes to meeting good men, it is better to realize that this is not a place where women are superior.

There may be some black men who have problems, but...

  • Answer date: 2024/04/14 09:37
Male member

sun moon new

Letter dating is simply a matter of coordinating dates between the individuals themselves, rather than the club.
It is not intended for long conversations or making e-mail friends without meeting each other.

What's more, at the stage of the exchange before we met, I didn't give the woman a single yen.
Even so, it is insane for the man to continue the exchange.

Also, with letter dates, the club has no control over whether or not the two will actually be a match.

If you still want to meet in person, even after considering our past interactions, I suggest that we meet on a date and have a leisurely conversation.
If the man agrees to this, I will try to meet him.
If they don't respond, cancel, block, or ignore them in the future.

If you don't feel like seeing them again, simply cancel, block them, or ignore them in the future. How about this response?

  • Answer date: 2024/04/14 05:56
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system engineer member

Why not try slowing down the response speed on LINE a little or asking the person asking the question to arrange a date?
If you don't agree with the letter date, I think you can reject it by telling the staff even halfway through.

If you block the guy before you meet him, he'll probably give you negative feedback first, so that's a concern.

Postscript
I'm sorry, but I didn't mean to disable the settings already set in Letter Date, but I wrote this with the intention of preventing you from receiving Letter Date in the future.

  • Answer date: 2024/04/14 08:55
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Fuu

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If you're worried, say no.
I will refuse letter dates from now on.
I think that's fine.

  • Answer date: 2024/04/16 17:48

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