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Question date: 2024/04/13 07:30

Up until now, I have dated young women in their 20s and 30s, but there were times when we didn't get along well, their language and manners were bad, and they canceled on short notice without contacting me. .

Since we have an age difference in our relationship, I've tolerated it to some extent, thinking that it can't be helped because I'm young, but my wife passed away a few years ago, and I've also passed my 50th birthday, so from now on, I'm thinking of having someone around the same age as me. If you are in your 60s or a nice person, you would like to have dinner with and date a woman in your XNUMXs.

I tried contacting some dating clubs for middle-aged and older people, but I was reluctant because they felt like it was like a matchmaking club looking for a new partner. By the way, I have no intention of getting married.

Is it possible to make an offer to women in their 50s and 60s among the female members of Universe?

  • gender male
  • Age: 60s
  • Member: Universe male member
  • Member ID: 79241
  • Who should answer: Anyone

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question answerAnswers: 6

Male member

Seattle

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Of course it's possible, and if you search, you'll probably find some, right?
I wonder if it's really a male member.

  • Answer date: 2024/04/13 07:37
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Kazu

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I have met over 100 women in their 20s and 30s a total of hundreds of times, but I have only had 2 or 3 cases of sudden cancellations with women who lasted for more than a year.
I have never experienced a cancellation without notification.
Regardless of the fact that we don't get along, if your language or manners are bad, or if you suddenly cancel without contacting us, it's not because the person asking the question chose the wrong person or the person asking the question has a bad attitude. Is it?
I doubt whether simply changing the age of the other party will solve the problem.

Aside from that, as Mr. Seattle answered, it is possible to make offers to women in their 50s and 60s.
If you are a male member, you probably know this, but are you really a male member?
The person asking the question may be being treated poorly by women because he is always asking things that are obvious.
Instead of always blaming the other person, it might be better to look at yourself.

  • Answer date: 2024/04/13 07:57
Male member

Paper

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The problem is that the person asking the question is the one who suddenly cancels without contacting us.

No one would do that to someone in need.


In your situation, I think you can have as much fun as you want with a young woman...

In order to do that, it is essential that the other woman enjoys being with the person asking the question and the time passes quickly.


Women in their 50s and 60s may be judged more harshly because they have more life experience...

  • Answer date: 2024/04/13 08:25
Male member

sun moon new

This offer can also be made to people over 50.
When searching, it would be a good idea to select 40 years or older when specifying the age.

As you get older, it's best not to date someone who hurts your self-esteem.
I think some people over 50 probably have a certain level of common sense. I have never actually made an offer to anyone in that age group.

The purpose is probably to be a relationship between adults rather than an "adult" relationship, so why not keep that purpose in mind when your profile is examined and an offer is made?
I pray the good fight.

  • Answer date: 2024/04/13 10:13
Female member

Meg

Oh...I see there are male members like that too.
This is a great question that gives hope to people in their 50s.

If you'd like, please send an offer to Meg, the answerer.♡

  • Answer date: 2024/04/14 09:28
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Fuu

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Older = better manners
If
The world of the elderly is like heaven
It will be a world where only people with good personalities exist.

I wish that happened lol
world peace

By all means
Make offers to more and more women over 40.
Please be a god to older women.

Elderly association events, neighborhood association gateball, etc.
It won't cost you anything if you look for it.
I think you can go around the age you aim for.

  • Answer date: 2024/04/15 23:54