Hello. I'm Nike, a housewife in her 40s.

This time, I would like to talk in detail about a day when I am a normal housewife except for the part of daddy activities.

As a stay-at-home mom with a child, I can't think of any natural reason to go out alone on weekends or at night.

So basically, activities are only for a few hours during the day on weekdays.

Even so, we met normally, and now I meet with my favorite regular 2-3 times a month.

If you're wondering, "Can housewives really do daddy activities?", please refer to it.

5:40 a.m. Wake up, make lunch

I wake up at this time almost every weekday.

Make a bento box for my husband and children, fill the water bottle with tea, and when I'm finished, drink coffee or cocoa and spend some time alone.

However, on days when I have a dad activity, I start by washing my face without drinking coffee and adjusting the condition of my face.

After all, I want my skin to be in the best possible condition when I meet with regulars, so I spend a little time on my morning skin care.

My husband and kids wake up around 6:XNUMX, prepare breakfast, clean up afterward, and then run the washing machine.

After my husband leaves for work at 7:XNUMX, I start changing clothes and doing hair and makeup.

In front of her husband, she wears her usual duvet and no makeup, and the trick to her secret papa activities is to not let her change even one millimeter.

AM 9:00 See off the garden bus and head straight to the station

By this time, I have finished preparing dinner and washing (washing and drying) to some extent.

After I see off the school bus, I often go straight to the station.

As for my belongings, I changed my wallet to a mini wallet (100 Yen yen store) that my dad uses (lol), enough cash to take a taxi home in case the train stops, and a credit card that I don't use for everyday shopping ( My husband can't see the history) is included just in case.

However, cash and credit cards are really insurance for emergencies, so they are not used in the first place.

Also, hair clips, lip balm, hand cream, handkerchiefs, tissues, beverages to keep your hair from falling off when you get in the commuter's car.

Also, I will definitely wear the watch and ring I got from the regular.

When you meet someone wearing a present from Papa, you will be more than happy.

Even if Papa's taste is not quite right, pj-san, please do try it (maybe it will lead to an increase in your allowance...).

AM 10:00 Meet up with regular

My meeting with regulars is always at 10:XNUMX.

Anyway, my free time is limited, so if I can go early, I sometimes meet before 10 o'clock.

However, most restaurants open for lunch at 11:XNUMX, so I often have a cup of tea and wait until then.

If it's a hotel lunch, we'll go to the tea room on the first floor.

Recently, I often talk about my asset formation during tea time lol

I have my NISA reserve fund transferred to my regular monthly account, so would you like to increase that monthly amount?Or how much of the electronic money sent from the fixed period should be transferred to the account?And.

Also, since I am an amateur about stocks, there are times when I will study a little.

Just like that, an hour goes by in the blink of an eye.

AM 11:00 Lunch at a restaurant

I don't have any likes or dislikes, so I eat a variety of Japanese, Western, and Chinese dishes.

There are also social conditions, but it's daytime and I don't drink alcohol.

At the time of the photo, it was Chinese at the hotel.

One of the good things about lunch time is that all the courses have been delivered, and when I am enjoying the afterglow of the meal, it is time for me to go home.

And one of the things is that you can enjoy your meal in a relatively casual atmosphere even at a high-end restaurant.

I have only experienced dinners where table manners are required, except for friends' wedding receptions.

When it comes to clothes, there are times when regulars wear casual styles instead of suits, but I often wear a knit with a long skirt or wide pants.

Even if you don't wear Snidel or FRAY ID, you can still be a dad lol

PM 13:30 dissolution, going home

This is the last line that I can get on the train and get home in time for my child to come home.

Occasionally, I have a regular driver drop me off near my house while driving.

As expected, it's impossible to drop off in front of my house, so I'll ask you to drop me off at about the halfway point between the station and my house.

When I got home, the first thing I did was send a thank-you email... Instead, I put away my daddy bag, took off my wristwatch and ring, grabbed my laundry, and dashed to the school bus stop!

As you may have noticed by now, there is almost no hand-to-hand allowance exchange between me and regulars.

Remittance by electronic money, direct transfer to the account, or Amazon gift code transmission are performed irregularly without any particular timing.

Even if I have a large amount of cash on hand, I can't use it so much because I'm working to avoid my husband's finding out, so it's very convenient for me to be able to save it in a bank account or money app.

However, all methods require you to provide Dad with some personal information to a greater or lesser degree.

In particular, it is natural that daddy's side will be very careful about bank transfer.

It is recommended to transfer the allowance to the bank account after slowly building a relationship of trust with each other and having a certain amount of cash transaction results (I don't know if that expression is correct).

PM 14:40 Children go home

About this time the kindergarten bus arrives and the children come home.

While waiting for the bus, I often send regular thank you messages for today.

Even if you have a stable and regular relationship where you meet once or twice a month, thank you for that day.

I think this is a very simple, but the trick to maintaining a long and peaceful relationship with your dad.

I'm sure there are pj's who have several regular dads, but it's the same for dads.

In order to become a special person who wants to add an allowance to dads, it may be the shortest way to show courtesy as a member of society after all.

Papa activities can be done in 4 hours in the daytime! (summary)

Housewives in their 40s with children are given only 4 hours of free time during the day.

But I dressed up in my own way, went out on the town, had a delicious lunch, and had a trivial chat with regulars...

Four hours is enough time to spend a fulfilling day.

If you're hesitant about being a dad because you don't have time, don't worry!

I hope you all have wonderful encounters and a fun daddy life.