It's Papua.

In this column, I picked up what I think is a problem for all women, not just dad activities.
The theme is "Delicate zone" and "Pregnancy (contraception)".
Both are familiar issues, but I feel that there are still few women who know how to deal with them properly.

It's often said that men don't understand women's bodies enough.I think it's true and there are many misunderstandings, but you can say that it can't be helped because the gender is different.

The most troublesome thing is "against women".
Menstruation, pregnancy, and child-rearing vary from person to person, and from time to time, but there are many women who think that everything they have experienced and the times they have lived are everything, and give a fart-like preaching. is.

I thought she would have a deep understanding of menstrual symptoms because she is a female boss, but she replied, "It's impossible for you to come to work with menstrual pain. I'll come after the pain is gone. I've always done that." And.

This is a story I heard from a woman who is an online seminar a few days ago.

"I have always done so"?
Huh?
If you are in the same workplace, you should tell me how to do it (laughs)
It can be said that it is the worst possible response, not paying attention to the fact that there may be women with worse menstrual symptoms than me.

Women are oblivious to same-sex symptoms and experiences.
I don't really understand my own body.
I believe that this is one of the main reasons why women's social advancement in Japan has not progressed for a long time.

Finally, we also have a survey for women, so I would appreciate it if you could check it out.

*Men
This time (also this time?) there is no “Ahan ♡ Ufun ♡” content!Nothing!nothing!So please be careful.
However, since it can be said that it is useful information when dealing with women (in various ways), I would like you to read it if you do not mind.

I'm worried about the smell of the delicate zone

Female genitals originally have an odor, so wash them until they are completely odorless!It's kind of the opposite effect.Inflammation will result in the proliferation of bacteria.

Of course, "Even though I'm wearing clothes, I can smell it from underneath", "It smells like crayfish", "It smells like rotten eggs" are out of the question.It's not a healthy condition.

Gynecological diseases that are symptomatic of vaginal malodor include Trichomonas vaginitis, bacterial vaginosis, gonorrhea, and chlamydia.The latter two are sexually transmitted diseases that affect men.

Anyway, even if it's not at the sick level, at least it's etiquette to take care of the delicate zone before physical contact with the opposite sex.
I like the smell of healthy female genitals!There are quite a few men who say that, but there are no men who would happily touch or lick something that smells like rotten eggs (tears).

However, even if the delicate zone is healthy, what is worrisome is the "smell from menstruation to the end of menstruation".
Especially towards the end of the period, I don't know when to remove the napkin, and even though my menstrual blood has decreased considerably, I still have vaginal discharge with a strong odor.

In such a case, “Petit Shower Sepe” is recommended.
It is sold with the slogan "My period ends early".
I think any of the larger pharmacies sell it.

It's quicker to pull it from the official site than to explain it lazily.
Here's what the official site says:

“At the end of your period, when there are only 2-3 days left, there is only a small amount of residual blood that has adhered to your vagina. Washing the vagina with Petit Shower Sepe cleans up the residual blood. You can shorten your menstrual period by washing it away. ”
(From the official website of "Petit Shower Sepe")

Yes, the vagina has a self-cleaning effect (so it's too bad to wash with body soap inside the vagina), but the blood that comes out in the last two to three days of your period is "residual blood". .
That's why when you use "Sepe" to wash it away, that troublesome period will end refreshed.

The water inside is cold, so it is recommended to use it after warming it with a hot shower in winter.

It can be used not only at the end of menstruation, but also before and after sexual intercourse, when you are concerned about vaginal discharge, after swimming in the pool or at the beach, etc.

1 yen for 300 bottle, 6 yen for 1200 bottles (both are regular prices). I think that's enough.

worried about not getting pregnant

Speaking of worries associated with sexual activity, "pregnancy".

It is not well known, but the pill has a lower pregnancy rate than contraceptives (condoms).
The pregnancy rate when using condoms is 14%.
On the other hand, if you take the pill properly and do not forget to take it, the pregnancy rate is 0.1%.Even if you forget to take it, it boasts a low pregnancy rate of 5%, even among contraceptive methods.

This difference in pregnancy rate is probably due to the fact that condoms are a method of physically preventing sperm, while the pill is a method of stopping ovulation itself, which is a function of the female body.

To be frank, there are many men who try to have live sex without using contraceptives even in these dating clubs.In the question box, questions that express anger against such men are often posted.

Honestly, it's almost impossible to correct these men's thinking.If so, it would be faster for women to defend themselves, and that is the era.

So, if you want to buy pills, I highly recommend an app called "Smarna".
Low-dose pill 4000 yen, medium-dose pill 7000 yen, after-pill 12000 yen reference).
There are also regular flights.

Just to be clear, unlike the low-dose pill, the medium-dose pill has no contraceptive effect.
So what does this pill do?
On this day, I continued to take the drug until I absolutely did not want my period to come.
Please note that you cannot receive hair removal treatment while taking the medium-dose pill.

If the price of the pill were a little cheaper, the number of unwanted pregnancies would surely decrease, but it seems that there are various reasons why this does not happen.I won't write it here because it deviates from the purpose of the column and I don't want to write it simply (^ω^)

Some women may be worried that drug-related medical treatment is not face-to-face treatment.
However, "Smarna" is prescribed by an actual doctor online, so it is as reliable as face-to-face medical treatment.

I don't know about other areas such as Tokyo, so I can't say anything, but I live in Kanazawa, so it's very difficult to buy a pill at a face-to-face consultation.

The nearest gynecologist with a female doctor is always crowded, so even if you select the desired diagnosis date from the first to the third choice on the site and make a reservation

"Since all days are full with other patients, we would appreciate it if you could make another reservation for another day."

I will come. If you book 10 times, this is the 8th or 9th time (´ω｀)
If the first desired treatment date goes through, it will definitely change.Rotate the handle.
I haven't been there recently because I was wondering if you could show me an alternative date.

The second closest place is a gynecology department in a general hospital.
It is a rare character that is only open 3 times a week, and the teacher is a grandpa.
When I was HPV-positive, I was told, "You seem to be very popular...".
No, I'm fine, but I think some people will get angry, right? (^^;)

[Main topic] Request for cooperation in the questionnaire [* Female only]

In the end, this XNUMX is what I want to say the most.

Ladies reading this, please cooperate with the survey below.

Even if you are not a member of the Universe Club, any woman who is a member of a dating club or who is working as a dad can answer this question.

Since the question about the dating club is mandatory, women who have no experience as a dad unfortunately cannot answer.I'm sorry.

The theme is "Worries unique to women".
Click here for the URL.
https://form.run/@universeclubfemale-1596816321

Since the free description part is optional, basically, if you can quickly select what applies to you, it will take less than 5 minutes to complete the questionnaire.
(But I would be very happy if you could also write a free description!)

It is completely anonymous because it mainly collects needs as the first phase.
Please be assured that this questionnaire will not identify you personally.

Of course, we ask that men refrain from answering surveys pretending to be women.Nekama is the beginning of thieves.

https://form.run/@universeclubfemale-1596816321

It's important, so I pasted the URL twice (CV. Mino Monta)

Also, don't worry about taking this questionnaire because it is President Kida's endorsement.

I would like to touch on the answer results in a separate column article.
We are planning to conduct a questionnaire for women in general, not limited to women who live as dads, so I would like to be able to compare the results of those answers.

Thank you.