Have you ever wondered how much to set when you meet?

When I was first asked, "How about the conditions?"

If you show me that you're greedy, the other person might pull back.And

If you set it too high, you may not even have a chance to meet.

Have you ever been troubled with price setting?

I was one of them at first.

I read the blogs of various people who have experience as a dad and researched the market price.

However, the price they offer varies.

It's been two years since I started working as a dad, but I feel like the market is going down.

I calculated it with a calculator, about 4%. It was down by 4%.

Is this also due to the yen's depreciation?笑

I often feel that "honestly, the allowance is not worth it".

And I never compromise.smile

If you were asked about the conditions before the meeting

First of all, when asked about the conditions for adults before meeting, I tell them "○ yen to ⬜︎ yen".

◯ Yen is tatemae, ⬜︎ Yen is real intention.

Recently, the number of people who offer the amount of ◯ yen has increased.

If a woman presents a high amount from the beginning, there will be no chance to meet.

Let's present it well by mixing tatemae and real intentions ♡

By the way, I never do adults suddenly.

First of all, I will definitely meet you for a meal or tea.

Also, we will ask you to pay for the transportation expenses for the face-to-face meeting.

It's better to promise this before meeting properly.

Recently, there are really many people who say "meetings are free of travel expenses".

If there is no transportation fee after meeting, it will be a waste of time.

I always ask for transportation expenses before we meet, so I've never had a case where I couldn't get it after meeting.

Before we meet, we ask for transportation expenses, and we only meet with those who agree.

In the first place, I don't feel attracted to men who are reluctant to do so.smile

I'm sorry for the future.smile

And suddenly it's really scary, to be in a closed room with a stranger...

It doesn't feel that way from the beginning.smile

No matter how nice or handsome you are, at first you only have a meal or a cup of tea!

If possible, I would prefer to meet with you several times and discuss the conditions during the meeting, but there are quite a few people who ask me about the conditions before I meet them.

Even if they think it's okay for both of them to have an adult relationship, if there is a difference between the acceptable range of men and the amount of money that women want, they think it's meaningless and a waste of time.

All of a sudden it's okay!Do not worry!Even if you say, please do your crisis management properly.

Always take your valuables with you to the bathroom and take a shower.

If it's just a meal, it's fine because people will see you in a public place, but it's better to get the transportation expenses for adults in advance rather than after the event.

I often hear that more and more women run away without paying while they are taking a shower, so please be really careful.

Negotiation of terms after meeting

If you want to spend the same amount of time, I think everyone's true intention is to ask for as much money as possible.

Me too.笑

In addition to the transportation fee for each time, there is also a way to negotiate the transportation fee on a monthly basis.

However, I would not recommend the monthly payment.

Because you will definitely pay later or pay in advance.

Men are the ones who pay, and almost no one offers a risky prepayment.

Even if we offer a monthly fee, not many people will accept the risky upfront payment.

If you say, "I'll think about it for a moment," you might miss your chance.

Deferred payment is risky for the woman who receives it.

I don't want to do my best for a month and cry and fall asleep.

So, if you really want to pay monthly,

“At first, I would like to try it on a case-by-case basis, and after about three to six months after building a relationship of trust, I would like to make it a monthly fee.”

Let's sayAt that time, please pay in advance.

If you can build a relationship of trust to some extent, they may understand our requests and circumstances.

The reason should be something like "Because the rent and credit card payment is at the beginning of the month" for your own convenience.

Please don't ever say, "I'd rather pay in advance because I'm worried about paying later."

If you think that you are not trusted, you may lose your relationship.

If you are told that you can't pay in advance here, it's better to keep it "once" rather than compromise and pay later.

It's more attractive to get organized, but it's risky, so let's definitely stop it.If being a dad is stressful, you shouldn't do it!

The monthly price is set by taking statistics on how long it took to meet in a month and multiplying the number of times in a month by the price.

Feeling plus alpha is preferable.

If you get too greedy here, you may end up here.

Summary

When setting conditions before meeting

1. In order not to ruin the chance to meet, let's present "○ yen to ⬜︎ yen" so that it does not seem expensive.

2. Let's ask and confirm transportation expenses before meeting, even if it's a meeting meal or tea.

When deciding conditions after meeting

XNUMX. If you want to negotiate a monthly fee, start from “every time” instead of suddenly

XNUMX. Then ask for "change to monthly fee after several months of building trust". (Prepaid, not postpaid)