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Why do dads care whether a woman has a boyfriend?

I am a female member in her twenties.

I often get asked if the guy I met at this club has a boyfriend.Is there any meaning?

Of course, if you are a woman who has a lot of offers, I think that there is a connection with a man, and I think that you will answer that you are not dating a man, so isn't the question meaningless?

If you really want a woman who doesn't have a boyfriend and doesn't have another dad, then you should choose a woman who doesn't seem to be popular.

For some reason, a married man who appeals to his love of wives and children is more concerned about the situation of his lover.

If you're a single man or a single dad, I can understand your feelings with a hundred steps.

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【Answer】

Thank you very much for your question.

In job hunting interviews, the question is often asked, "Is our company your first choice?"

It goes without saying, but companies are probably well aware that their company is not their first choice.Even so, companies ask the obvious question, "Is our company your first choice?"

So why would a company ask such a question?I think there are two main reasons for this.

The first reason is to drop people who can't lie.

I haven't seen it, but I'm sure that when interviewing tens of thousands of people, some of them will honestly answer, "No, your company is my third choice."Honesty may be a virtue, but at least I don't want to hire people who answer stupidly honestly in situations like this.I'm sure other interviewers think the same.

In other words, "Is our company your first choice?"

But more important than that is “responsibility”.

Every year, there is a problem with the interviewer who yells at a student who declines a job offer.

It's a kind of contract.

Of course, companies are fully aware that their company is not their first choice.However, it is not possible to make training plans for the following year without knowing whether or not they will decline.

Therefore, companies are fully aware that their company is not the first choice, but they are making it their first choice.

In short, the word“We are fully aware that you do not make our company your first choice, but even so, we will make plans for next year assuming that you are our first choice, so please do so as well. give meThat's what it means.

A kind of threat may be a threat, but it cannot be denied that there are parts that can not be helped because companies have their own circumstances.Of course, it's out of the question to verbally abuse someone who has declined a job offer, but even so, it's bad to convey feelings like, "Don't forget that we're making you our first choice." It would be too harsh to say otherwise.

A man who asks "Do you have a boyfriend?"

In fact, it doesn't matter if the questioner has a boyfriend or not.However, the question "Does she have a boyfriend?" is effective in terms of avoiding women who say, "I have a boyfriend," even though it is a place called daddy activity.

Also, regardless of whether or not you have a boyfriend, I think it is necessary to ask the question, "Do you have a boyfriend?"

It's easy to understand if you say, "I don't care if you have a boyfriend, but don't show signs of him in front of me."

You may think that such a dad is stupid.However, if there were no such idiots, the market for hair loss would be quickly destroyed by soap.