Conditions for a man not to slip from the first date at a dating club

There was a safe way to meet amateur women.

Meal

It's been almost three years since I entered the world of unfamiliar dating clubs where I don't know right or left.A secret relationship that no one can tell.
There are still many questions about this deep world, but I would like to share what I have come to understand little by little.

There seems to be an infinite number of encounters, but I think there are a few tricks to starting to build a relationship after meeting.The difference between those who succeed on the first date and those who do notI would be happy if you could refer to it.

 offer timing

The woman you are aiming for should be contacted as soon as it is uploaded to the membership site.
Can you adjust your schedule?Can you say hello properly?Can I say thank you?how is the response?check the minimum points!
Some of the photos have been edited, and some women have taken selfies and processed them, so be sure toPoints to identify people who can feel the impression of talking in the video.
This is also the time when there are many rivals for new member registration, so the chance may be when the offers are a little calmer.
Also, let's consider that general women can't take time immediately after uploading.
The most important thing is the timing of my schedule, but when women get used to dating a little and the men who match me are soft, it may be the best timing, neither too early nor too late.

Understanding a woman's backbone

There are many members who have trouble meeting dates.Please avoid crowds and meet in a calm hotel lounge or restaurant.
As for how to choose a place, I don't really recommend walking around the city from the beginning after gathering at the meeting place.
What should I do if my school friends, company colleagues, friends, etc. see me? .The psychology to say is strong.
Is it natural to reserve a restaurant with a private room? !The power of the place is also essential to create an atmosphere that makes it easy to talk.

First of all, you may not know what to talk about, but let's understand that women are basically coming to register with anxiety.
Be brave enough to register, be photographed, be filmed, be questioned by the person in charge of root digging, and be displayed on sites that may or may not be safe.
The anxiety that comes after interview registration is also great. .A date in a place you are not usually familiar with.Anxiety about what kind of man will come, if you come with a dream, a man with a status you don't usually meet, come with various worries and dreams.

Let's understand that men take time to improve themselves and women to prepare for dates.
In conversation, casually talk about why you joined and toast to the miracle of meeting each other, whatever the encounter.
However, this story is the beginning and the end.
When there is still regret,Women are sensitive to the eyes around them in order to live in societyDon't forget to say yes.
"How many dates have you had?"
"Are there other guys out there?" can be offensive, whether true or false. 

Consideration of tight time

"The date was too long.It is no exaggeration to say that it is the number one complaint from women after a date.
On the first date, when you like it and get excited, it's important to end it!the date isStrictly adhere to the meal 2-3 hours!Adult manners seem to tend to drag on.
I don't show the leeway of an adult man who behaves like a refreshing gentleman, but it's also important to round up before I get rags.
If you want to see me next time, even more so!Smartness is also required in terms of time.
Women are also desperately looking for men to meet for the long term, but let's also consider that women are pressed for time rather than Christmas cake.they don't have time.

taboo

A saga of a man who wants to make it his own once he goes on a date.
I want you to quit the club immediately after dating is against the rules.
It's up to the women themselves to decide.Please understand.
It's a time when there are many cases where the relationship with the staff is still closer, and at the same time it's nice to hear that, it's also possible that your anxiety will increase!
It may be very difficult, but it may be a determination, but it may be necessary to date various people and make an effort to make a man's vessel bigger so that he can be chosen. . .

The timing of the most important story

A good girl is a good listenerI feel like that.
It's a bad idea to take advantage of it and talk lazily about your views on love, boasting about your work career, or just talking about your sexuality. .
I was laughing with a smile, so the story was exciting, but after that, the message became normal. .The story is a daily occurrence.
I understand that they try to hide their nervousness and liven up the conversation, but this is the pattern that most men should not fall into.
Also, the comments written by the staff are only a small part of her.
Just like reading a travel guidebook doesn't make you a travel expert, I think it's the job of a good man to bring out the true nature of a person.

Let's get into the main topic when we know each other's identities to some extent.
what she wants mostis about.
It may be hidden in the motivation to join, or it may be hidden in the staff comments, but the proof of a good woman is to hide such behavior at all and not make you feel bad.
The woman smiles and waits for a word from the man at the same time as ordering the second drink.Don't miss this timing! ?Let me show you the most courageous word here.
For thatthe power to change the airIs necessary.Negotiation is the most important part, which is a long-cherished desire, because it is difficult for women to bring it up.
What kind of relationship does the other person want in building a relationship in the future?Does it match your needs?Efforts to walk each other are required.
"You're about right for your age."
"That's about the same as other girls' prices."
"I want to build a romantic relationship. I'm looking for a marriage partner."
I can't say that men who have high-handed demands led by men soon after meeting are gentlemen who are portrayed by women.

Two patterns for women who demand high pricesI think there is
One was when I used to be a hostess, I had a dad.I'm still working as a dad and there are many candidate men.She's that type of woman.
Impression that you wear your own value highly and have a certain amount of pride.Their belongings are high-end brands and their lifestyles are flashy.

The other is the type who has experience working at night, such as in the bar business, and who has some resistance to customs, but is interested in dad activities.
Without knowledge of the market price, I judge that the price = my value. .I think it's because I say hope out of ignorance, not because I'm too proud to erase it.I hope that experienced men will be able to lead well.

Exhausting personnel and confirming the feeling

Are you doing everything to your liking?
would you like to support?
Or are you likely to be healed too?
Let's warm the emotions that slowly rise in the conversation.
It is also difficult for women to express their joy honestly.
Rather than being unreadable and mysteriousHonesty, friendly relationshipI think it's the best medicine to give you peace of mind.

Is the transportation fee XNUMX yen without question?

I would appreciate it if you could give the travel expenses to the lady as a thank you for her time.
make me think there's a next timeTransportation fee is 5000 yenI don't think so. . .There are many men who disappoint good women by being stingy here!
The impression of the date is decided on the way home.I don't think it's an exaggeration to say that.
Transportation costs have unspoken power. .

How about giving more instead?
Unless you really like it and can afford it. .
Isn't it your ego that you think you can't do much?and may need to keep calm!
Keep in mind that you may not be able to contact them quickly. .
The shock is too big.I think it's going to be a bitter experience that can't be started even if you hate it.
Also, when you go to the bar after eating, be careful not to get drunk and forget to give the last thank you.

Is it enough to contact you to decide the schedule of the date?

Let's exchange contact information first.Even if you start dating with a club name, eventually you will call each other by your real name.
As a gentleman's procedureWhen you hand over your business card, the high sensitivity rises at once! !At this time, women feel respect for their partner.It's the moment when the guard of the heart can be solved a little.
How do you communicate with each other on a daily basis?Email people, LINE people, SMS people, what you want to be careful about at this time is to suddenly try to apply for friends on SNS such as Facebook. .I would like you to try to have a sincere relationship before you become a person who can never meet again by searching without permission.

After the first date is over, it is important to find out how close you are to the other person.
No matter how exciting the date is, it's nonsense to keep in touch about it over and over again. .There is nothing that cools down more easily than a love that rises at once. .
Maybe I need a hidden part to want to meet again?I feel that the excitement will last longer if you imagine an ideal image of an adult that is not in the same generation.
Please understand that no matter how much you become a mistress-like relationship on a monthly basis, the next time you meet is very easy to break the relationship.
A relationship where each other can meet when it is convenient for them.Interaction between more than divisible and less than lovers is the best!I think the secret to a long-lasting relationship is to gradually warm it up.

This time I want to date general women as targets

I have introduced some points to create a special girlfriend who is not a model, a talent, or a prostitute.
The bad type is a man who tries to make money.He skimps on dates, introductions to clubs, time constraints, and travel expenses.vulgar behavior.Those who cannot control themselves are not suitable for this game.
This time it may be a bit strong content for women! !Please forgive the biased view of Mamiya, who is looking down from above.
Not here!I would like to exchange opinions, etc., and continue to learn from my insatiable research on the image of the ideal gentleman.

Universe Club Enma Mamiya

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