For future dads

Recently, the temperature in Tokyo has risen very much, making it easy for us uncles to spend time.

Meanwhile, my hobby is to drink alcohol on a daily basis, but the other day, a certain man consulted me at a drinking table.

It is about the raw reality of a single man.

"I'm bored every day since my wife passed away. I want a young woman to talk to every week. However, the people around me are all the same age and I don't find conversation stimulating. Is there a better way?" I was consulted.

And when he sees me in him, he seems to look quite young.

where are you youngWhen I asked him, he said, "The content of the conversation and the ingredients he eats are all different from mine."

Maybe it's because I hang out with young women every week?

Perhaps one of the differences is that I don't hang out with friends of a similar age.

Yes, I told him on the spot,

And is there any way?And how do I meet young women while drinking goes on?talked about

Then he became very interested.

"Is that a place to make a mistress? Will someone my age accept me?"

Of course, there's no way I can't accept him, who is almost the same generation as me.

And he grew up in an environment similar to mine, and has a decent amount of money saved up.

Originally, there is a past that started with the relationship between the top of each company.

That's why, in terms of status, isn't it enough to be popular in the dating club?I was convinced in a way.

However, the person himself is a man who is completely unrelated to such women's play.

That's exactly why when I invited him to a club in Ginza in the past, he refused, saying, "I don't like that kind of thing."

However, at that time, my wife was still alive, so I think that was the reason.

However, the current situation is quite different from the past.

She doesn't have the same smile she used to, and she seems to be somewhat lonely.

Will this make me sick?I cared about them.

That's what I can say, but it's the same with age, and the line "Illness starts with mind", the inner power is the vitality for humans to live.

I have an image that if it is missing, I will die prematurely.

Somehow, I want to regain my old vitality.

So I explained to him the story of a young woman who works as a dad.

Wouldn't something change if you had some kind of connection with a young woman?I thought it would have some kind of impact on him, at least in terms of stimulation. (Some people just want to enjoy themselves)

However, I got the impression that the woman who works as a papa is wrongly positioned as a custom in him.

First of all, I felt that I was misunderstanding the part of money exchange.

he said to me

“I understand that you can meet a woman by paying money.

In my mind, I thought, "It's a little different."

I was going to explain it in great detail.

So I changed the description a little.

"It's an image of having a daughter and loving it."

But he also said

“Do you love me as an adult?

This is because each man who becomes a father has a different way of using the dating club.

So I explained how to use it in my own way.

“Of course, there must be a lot of men who have a relationship with them. It's a position close to Tanimachi, where women live.I think you should keep this in mind.However, you can meet a pretty woman who matches it, and if you are satisfied with it, you can sign a contract.That's it."

He explained:

What does he mean by creating such a woman?Isn't he a waste of money?Will he be deceived?And so on, I've heard quite a bit.

So, I told him the unvarnished story that had happened in the past.

Then, he asked me again, "I want to play in that kind of place, and I'm very interested in it. It feels like I'm making a daughter. I hope it will be a good stimulus for me." rice field.

There was something I noticed while explaining to him on the spot, "Yes?"

That is the view of a woman who works as a father.

After thinking about it, I explained to my friend, "This is how a woman works as a dad."

However, there were quite a few things that people didn't understand unless I explained them in great detail.It was very interesting for me.

Certainly, there may be some people who take Papa-katsu as a prostitute.

That's what I thought.

I have a long history of being a dad.

That's why, probably because he understands, he can explain it to the people around him in a normal way.

Isn't this a very important thing to protect women who are dads?That's what I felt.

I simply thought that it would be pitiful if a man registered with a dating club with a wrong perception and made a woman who works as a dad feel very sad.

I think there is a need to correct this as an opinion on the male side.

I would be surprised if a man is introduced from a dating club with a wrong perception and asked for a relationship on the spot with money as a bait when meeting a woman for the first time.

"Huh? If you pay me, you can cuddle me, right?"

If you say so, you should go to the sex industry.

I think that papa katsu is just a place to take care of women.

There, I actually see with my own eyes a woman who is doing her father's activities with various thoughts.

That's why I don't like the act of using a dating club just for the sake of cuddling with money without love.

Of course, I am aware that some people are like that, and I actually know them.

However, I have also seen men who, even though they had that initial entrance, gradually changed the way they interacted with women.

As my wish, I would like you to stop only the view that papa katsu = prostitute.

This is also my wish as a man.

A woman who is working as a dad is really trying to live her life.

Meanwhile, they made a contract with us and spread their kindness.

When you see such a situation up close, you can't call yourself a prostitute.

By all means, if there is a man who is reading this and is about to become a dad from now on, I would like him to use the dating club after reconfirming his recognition.