Memories of a man who has become a father

How long has it been since you became a dad?I have been for several years. (When I say several years, it's a few years close to 10 years.)

So, how much do men spend on women each month?Do you have any other expenses?Papas don't really talk about other people's financial affairs.

I honestly don't have much to say.

Don't you hate it?eh?Are you using only that?It is also said that I am stingy.

That being said, I don't think there's any place to compete, and I think it's fine if the two of them are okay with that.That's my opinion. (I don't like being teased.)

even if you say so···.

 

If you say something bothers you, it bothers you.

Why are you bringing up this topic this time?Speaking of which, it has become a hot topic recently among people of the same age.

It all started when I recommended the dating club to people around me.

Already, several of my peers of the same generation have begun to take care of me at the dating club.

Originally, I had friends who used dating clubs, but recently there have been more people of the same generation.

Then, as a matter of course, at a drinking table, the topic of women who have individual contracts becomes a topic.

Honestly, it's a competition to be proud of.

I'm going out with such a cute girl, I've been to such places, my girlfriend taught me such things, and even sexual circumstances.

However, until now, the topic of money has not come up at all.

I wonder what it is.

You don't want to say that you've been dating because you've spent so much, do you?

Or is it not a competitive part like me, so why didn't everyone dare to bring it up?It's a mystery, though.

However, recently there has been a lot of talk about it.

Of course, if the other party exposes it, I am not in a situation where I can keep silent.

So, I thought it would be great if I could share that kind of information here as well.

In the first place, it depends on the number of women under contract.

All my friends take care of three women on average.

Of course, some people are alone.

But can't you be satisfied with being alone?The average was about three people.

When I asked the reason, it seems that every child is usually busy and there is no child who can meet every week.

That's why I can't get to the act of meeting women every week unless I turn around three people.

I generally agreed. (Currently, I only have a contract with one person, so I was wondering if there was such a thing.)

Well, if there are many people, isn't there a lot of money to fly every month?That's how I interpreted it, but in reality it wasn't.

The expenses were almost the same for me, who has only one contract, and they, who have three contracts.

To be more specific, there were more than me.

What kind of color do you have?I was curious.

In the first place, when I talk to them, even if I think about each month's contract, we meet about once or twice a month.

So, in a sense, it is said that cost performance is good.

For example, if you focus on one woman like I do, it won't go like you just met.

I also want to show off, so I try to go to various date spots, choose expensive restaurants, and often give presents.

No, rather than being careful, I should say that I'll do my best because I don't want to be bored.

Therefore, there are quite a few expenses other than the money given in the item called monthly allowance, which was decided at the time of contract.

However, in a way they are replacement replacements.

Because he's not that passionate about one woman, the hurdles at the time of the contract, so to speak, the conditions are quite low.

In my case, I want to meet at least twice a week.

Then, at the time of signing the contract, we will meet at least 8 times a month.

Then, the woman presents that she wants this much.

Even from my point of view, it will be quite restrictive to the other party, so I don't give discounts or anything like that, and I try to give the amount that they want. (Of course, some people may negotiate to lower the price.)

The reason why I don't give discounts at the time of signing a contract is a big problem with women's motivation.

What is the price reduction negotiation for money for a woman who is in trouble with money and is working as a dad?I think, and it would be a problem if you come with a low tension when you meet for the second time.

That's a big reason why I don't negotiate the price.

But my friends had a different idea.

On the other hand, when I talk to him, he says that the other woman doesn't set a high amount of money.

In addition, he says that he can save a lot of money because he doesn't see each and every one of them every month.

That's why there's no need to show off, and there's no need to buy presents.

Besides, it's a gift that costs a lot more.

This is also said that it is almost already separated by the time you buy it.

The so-called theory is that it's good to have fun with a variety of women when you think about your age, even if you don't last long with each person.

Of course, since he uses the dating club, there is a set-up fee each time, but he said that even after that, the cost performance is good.

Certainly, there was me who was convinced when I heard only the amount.

Everyone spends an average of 3 to 40 yen on mistresses. (three together)

Is there a way to play like that?I thought about it.

By the way, although I am mostly an only child, I have given about 40.

On top of that, I give them presents, although not every month.

which one is better to play?I think they are separate.

However, what I wanted to ask them was that they play differently than I do.

I'm the type of person who wants to build trusting relationships with women, so I thought it would be impossible for them to do things the way they did.

Considering my way of playing as a single woman, the cost performance is poor.

However, I'm getting a lot of healing more than money.

There was a time in my life when I dated several people at once.

But it didn't become a place for my heart.

That said, it's stimulating to hear familiar and real stories.

Since there is still room in terms of capacity, after listening to them, I wondered if I should sign a contract with another person.

Becoming a dad makes every day really fun.

Just one word.

If you haven't become a dad yet.

Please try being a dad once.

You will be filled with smiles every week.