Be careful if you are a man of few words.

When you're dating a young woman, don't you sometimes forget that you're a father?I think it's worth signing a contract with a woman who can make us happy, and I can feel that she's always bringing happiness to me.

However, the reality is that not all children say that.

There is definitely a point of compatibility between men and women.

On the female side, if there is a good fit, there are cases like mine where the contract is for a year, and there are cases where the contract does not last for a month because it is not a good fit at all.

It's a relationship between the opposite sex.

There's nothing you can do about this, and things won't always go perfectly.

However, I think being a dad is fun even with that in mind.

Being a peace nerd gets bored with everything.

Well, there's something I've been thinking about a lot lately.

Do you have any friends who are becoming fathers in the same way?I have a surprisingly large number of them.

So, what kind of relationships do you have with women?What kind of woman did you woo?And so on, guys talk to each other.

Suddenly, there is one man who always complains.

He is now a father to five women.

And it seems like there's a problem with two of the women.

Even if you say it's a problem, listening to him talk about it, it's at the level of backbiting.

For example, they may be lax with their schedules or have a high rate of schedule cancellations.

Of course, me and my friends have to listen to such stories, but what if we simply cancel the contract?Whenever I say this to him, he shows reluctance.

That's why, for some reason, I like those kids, and I wonder if that's why I'm complaining about them.We were listening to the story, but it doesn't seem like that is the case.

Then, since he started complaining quite often, I decided to ask him the truth.

Then, he said that he would like to cancel the contract if possible.

What do you mean?When I listened to him talk to him, I found out that he himself is quite shy.

Even when he's with women, he doesn't seem to speak much at all.

Or rather, he seems to be the type of person who can't really say what's on his mind.

It's true that men talk a lot when they're drinking together.

However, none of us have ever seen him with a woman, so what kind of treatment does he have towards women?It was a mystery.

So, as I listened to him talk, I somehow understood.

Maybe it's a relationship where women can't say what they want to say?So I accumulated stress and got to where I am now.

It seems like this.

So, I asked for advice, but he said, ``In the first place, you're paying the allowance to the woman, right? If that's the case, Mr. 〇〇 has the right to enjoy it too, so if you're stressing over it, why are you becoming a father? You don't understand.'' When I told him, he remained silent.

So what I said was that it takes some courage to face women.

Of course, there may also be memories with women there.

However, I would like to say that once a good adult makes a mistake in a relationship, don't give up, but this time it's about being a dad.

When it comes to daddy activities, the only thing that requires mutual understanding is the initial contract.

After that, a relationship is established to some extent, and the content is slightly different from a friendship relationship without a contract.

So, if the woman has any differences, including the contract, she should say it, and if she doesn't feel like she can discuss it, she should cancel the contract, even if it's unilaterally.she told me.

Then, my friends around me also had the same opinion.

However, from our standpoint, it's easy to give advice.

From his point of view, since he was in a position to actually say something, I thought it would be difficult, but I agreed to consult with him.

Then, a few days later, he apparently canceled his contract with the two men who were not a good fit.

I've only heard what he says, but it's true that it's really tough when you don't show up on time or when you set a schedule and it's broken.

If it were me, would I pay the full amount even though the allowance was just as promised?If you ask me, I might think about it.

I realized that if you have a personality that you can't express out loud to a woman, it would be quite difficult to cancel the contract.

If that includes the period of dating, and if your partner is a strong-willed woman, you may be at a disadvantage.

If you can't say it out loud, it might be a good idea to consult a dating club.

Women who are active fathers are quite greedy.

Many women who are active fathers rely on this to cover their living expenses.

Therefore, if the contract is terminated by the man, it is a matter of life and death.

Therefore, it may match your style.

However, not all humans can change their roots so easily.

The longer the relationship lasts, the more the woman will start to feel secure and have more opportunities.

When this happens, your true feelings will inevitably start to come out, and you may end up directing the conversation between women and your friends directly to the man.

It's fine if the content is comfortable.

That wasn't the case in my case.

In any case, if we were to use that child as an example, there was a lot of backbiting.

The content of the backbiting involves the body of speaking ill of others.

Honestly, I felt sick listening to it.

If I were younger, I might have gotten away with just a wry smile.

However, at this age, I couldn't ignore it and just blurted it out.

``You shouldn't say things like that too much, okay? I'm not in a position to say that because I like you.'' When I told her, the atmosphere in the room turned cold and she said, ``Why aren't you on board? ?” atmosphere.

To be honest, I felt the age difference there, so I thought I should just say no when something is wrong.That's what I thought.

After that day, I stopped hearing from her, and although we only communicated on line, I decided to cancel the contract.

Having said this, I felt that there was a certain compatibility between us.

If I had gotten into her story, I would have ended up as a person, and my other mistress would never bring up such a topic, so I thought it was good to be able to compare.