Papa Live Worries Counseling Room Report XNUMX “How to increase offers / How to continue with dad”

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When I started this "Papa Live Worries Counseling Room", I thought that the problems I assumed were the problems of dealing with dads, such as "I don't like this kind of dad", but in reality it was completely different.

most troubles.that is

"I want an offer"

It was stating.

So, this time, I tried to summarize in my own way in order to write useful information for female members who have XNUMX offers without registration.

I hope that the number of offers will increase, even if only a little, to alleviate my concerns.

I think some women find it difficult to talk to someone around them about dad activities.I feel like it's subtle for her to consult her dad.
There are some parts that I can't help but approach from a male's point of view, but I would appreciate it if you could refer to it in your future activities.

*I often see female members in the Kanto area, so there may be some differences depending on the region.Please forgive me for that.

Learn how to increase your offer

Let's first organize the points in which male members make offers.

Male members refer to the following items when making an offer.

① Class (Standard to Black)
②☆Evaluation (XNUMX levels)
③ Age, height, weight, breast cup
④ ★ Relationship type (A to E)
⑤☆Photos and videos taken by the club
⑥ Private photo
⑦ Registration area, date of enrollment, constellation, blood type, occupation, smoking, alcohol, area of ​​residence, conversational language, hobbies
⑧ Regarding offers (schedule, place, meals, alcohol, etc.)
⑨ Calendar
⑩ Comments from women
⑪☆Comment from the club
⑫ Answer to universe lover diagnosis

Only XNUMX items marked with * can be changed by female members after registration. Photos and videos marked with ☆ can be retaken once every six months.Club comments are often added at that time.

First, I want more offers!If you think that, the most effective one is "Reshoot in half a year".

This is because the things that male members refer to the most when making offers are photos, videos, and club comments.

If you failed during registration!If you have something to think about, it is effective to improve yourself in preparation for a reshoot in half a year, reshoot, and then tell the club (changes in attitude in dating, etc.).

Then, is there nothing you can do until half a year later?

It is different. ★ ④ Relationship type ⑥ Private photos ⑨ Calendar ⑩ Comments from women (perhaps)

First, let's think about whether we can increase the offer from the part that can be fixed by yourself.

However, there is no point in just blindly changing it.What layer will you target?How do you promote to that layer?It is also important to consider such strategies.

And follow through on the chosen strategy.
Sometimes a certain amount of perseverance is required.

First, think about what your target audience is.

By the way, are you watching here?
If you don't look here, you can't plan your strategy.
https://universe-club.jp/women/introduct/

As you can see, the statistical data of male members' occupations, occupations, ages, hobbies, heights, marriages, alcohol, and cigarettes are listed.

Here, let's put aside the story that the annual income declaration of male members is a lie, and first believe the data and think about it.I will explain in detail.

For example, let's say the following is the content that you are vaguely thinking, "I want to meet this kind of dad."

[Example of conditions for dad]
・A wealthy dad with an annual income of XNUMX million or more is preferred (XNUMX%)
・Dads of men in their XNUMXs are good (XNUMX%)
・Better height than XNUMXcm (XNUMX%)
・Preferably married (XNUMX%)
・People who don't smoke are better (XNUMX%)

If you ask for such a dad image, the probability of meeting will be reduced to XNUMX/XNUMX at the time of annual income.Then you may not be able to meet without XNUMX offers in the first place.Among them, if you narrow down to non-smokers, the probability of meeting further from there will be reduced to half.If so, it is a calculation that you can not meet the desired dad unless you receive XNUMX offers.

If you are vaguely thinking, "I want to meet a good dad and feel good, but I don't have any offers from male members like that."

Wealthy people with an annual income of XNUMX million or more, of course, are popular among female members.Maybe the women are desperate to catch such a dad.The encounter between a man and a woman, there is compatibility, so I can't say it unconditionally.However, it may be that only a limited number of women who have the three threats of appearance, style, and title are able to cut in there.

Besides, there must be some people who have a strict eye who don't dream and get fruits as well as wealthy people with money.

If you don't want to keep the annual income of XNUMX million units close, you should write down the desired target amount of XNUMX to XNUMX.If that happens, I might not be able to offer XNUMX million units because I'm scared (laughs).
However, whether or not wealthy people of over XNUMX million want such women is another story.

If you want to increase offers, target and approach this demographic with a high statistical denominator.
That's one way.

Let's see where the volume zone is.

[Target group (example)]
Annual income XNUMX million units (XNUMX%)
XNUMX-XNUMX years old (XNUMX%)
Height XNUMX cm or more (probably about XNUMX%)
　　　*Is the height data wrong?
Married Single (XNUMX%)

If you keep this in mind, you can target a relatively high percentage of male members.And given the approach aimed at this layer, the chances of getting an offer are relatively high.

Next, let's consider a concrete approach toward this.
Lots of my opinions here.The reason is that I belong to the volume zone with an annual income of XNUMX million units, XNUMXs, and a height of XNUMX cm or more.The only difference is that they are married.

First of all, regarding the desired allowance, XNUMX million units seems like a lot of money, but it's actually not that much (laughs).

The reason is that the standard of living goes up and costs money.On the other hand, it is an annual income zone where a lot of taxes are taken.
If you are single, you should have a high disposable income and some money to spend freely.So how much money can you spend on dating?Thinking about it inevitably creates a contradiction in a sense that people who are not flashy have money to spare.It's important to see that.

And if you're married, it's even worse.The spousal deduction is no longer applicable and the child allowance is reduced.You can't borrow interest-free scholarships for tuition.It is an annual income to which various taxes are added.
If you add a mortgage, etc., it's already miserable.

XNUMX million units rich?Non non non (laughs)

As a result of the needlessly high standard of living, clothes, cars, watches, etc. may be expensive.They may even take you to a nice shop.However, on the other hand, the reality is that there is not so much play money.

If you are aiming for this zone, you need a strategy for that.

First of all, the allowance you want.If you specify a high desired amount, it will be difficult to get an offer from this zone.
In other words, a relatively small target amount, leave it up to the other party, living expenses + α, it may be easier for such women to offer.

That's it.I never want to offer less.It's not a story (laughs)

Women can't choose their partner because they are the ones who receive the offer, but men can.It would be misleading to say that she can win, but she wants to choose a woman who will take care of her.She pays money to join the club, so it's only natural for her to think like this.

Remember, it's never okay to lie.However, if you don't get an offer, you can't stand in the arena of dating in the first place.Once you're in the ring, you can compete, and depending on the preparation and effort you've put in, you may end up in a long-term relationship.

If you are aiming for an annual income of XNUMX million units, it is easy to make an offer if you are a woman who seems modest about the allowance at the time of the offer.easy to click.It's a simple story.

First of all, let's think about what kind of dad you want an offer like this.

Next, let's think about how to change the answers to ⑩ comments from women ⑫ universe lover diagnosis for the decided target group.

The first keyword is "certainty".

For example, if you want to target this [target demographic (example)], a comment like this might be good.

"I want to have a long-term relationship with a reasonable allowance ♡ It would be nice if someone is taller than XNUMX cm ♡ I actually think that it would be nice if there was a normal good encounter, not as a dating club. ♡』

Many single men in this wide volume zone who saw this comment said, "Oh, this is about me! ’ may be.

In addition, the volume zone of occupation is company representative / executive (XNUMX%).
You can capture this zone by writing, "I would like to meet a wonderful man who is the company representative and executive, and I would like to hear about various things for self-fulfillment."

On the other hand, there is also a method to target a small number of layers.

Only XNUMX% are taller than XNUMX cm.If that's your target, then "I like taller people ♡ XNUMX cm or more is my type ♡"

Only XNUMX% do not drink alcohol.In that case, "I prefer not to drink alcohol ♡ I want to enjoy a delicious meal slowly ♡"

Minority people may feel embarrassed by that alone.It may be difficult to find a suitable woman.Definitely pick up that layer.That's one of the methods.

The above is just an example, but I think it would be effective if you think about "which layer you want to target" and write a comment for that.

However, on the other hand, there will be a need to take the attitudes and actions of the comments to some extent, so please take care of that balance yourself.

In addition, please do not copy and paste this sentence (laughs)

From a male member's point of view, even if you pay the club and make an offer, you don't know if it will be a good encounter.If you feel even a little bit of the element of "certainty" there, it will be easier to make an offer.

Male members choose offers from the data of many female members.It doesn't stand out if there is no decisive factor or "certainty".

After all, what I want to say is that a male member who saw your profile comment

"This is about me! If I make an offer, you will definitely be happy!"

If you think about it, the offer will come in!

The second keyword is "expectation".

I wonder if I can build such a relationship if I make an offer and meet?Let's have a sense of expectation.
Everyone has their own way of creating that sense of expectation, and if you create expectations, the hurdles will rise, so you may need to be prepared and work hard.

I will refrain from writing examples for this.
I think that there are already female members who are thinking and devising on their own and working hard.

I think that there are things that can be done and things that cannot be done.

I think there are individual differences, so if you would like to consult, please apply individually to the "Papa Life Worries Counseling Room".

In the end what I want to say is,

"If I go on a date with this girl, I'll be able to have the relationship I've been looking for!"

If you think about it, the offer will come in!

So far, what do you think?

Are your comments appropriately short?

In other words, don't you rely on the "photos, videos, and comments" taken by the club for the offer?

So if you don't get an offer, let's do what we can.

In fact, most of the female members do not write their own comments.As a result, many male members do not refer to "comments from women" much, and I think that there are many people who are in a state of skimming.

If you write a solid comment in it, it will stand out a little.However, it may be uneasy to write various things by yourself.I understand how you feel.
However, it is similar to "Entry sheet with weak motivation".Then you can't join a big company (laughs).

Let's be clear here.

"Offer to enter with strategy and effort"

There is.

Let's take a look at what we can do first.

And what I see is a case where "club comments" and ⑩ comments from women and ⑫ universe lover diagnosis answers are "contradictory".

Club comments are not bad.I like the content and it looks good.Just looking at his comments gives me a different impression.That's why I often think "Is that wrong?"

I can't say anything here unless I can actually confirm it, so if you are interested, please apply for the "Papa Life Worries Counseling Room".While adhering to the rules of the club, I will give advice as much as I can.

Finally, the most effective way to increase your offer.
It's like writing a column like this and giving up on your own,

It may be "consultation with the club staff" (laughs)

If you talk to the club staff, they may recommend it to male members on a regular basis, or put it in the pick-up list on the homepage.It is recommended that you consult with us with a humble attitude.

For B-type women with few offers

The reason why I want to join the dating club and be active as a dad is because I can choose a partner who will proceed to an adult relationship.Not just anyone.

That's why I set the relationship type to B.

It's a matter of course.

However, as a result, you are a type B person who thinks, "Huh? There are fewer offers than I thought?"

Didn't you worry in front of the staff when choosing a relationship type during the club interview?

It's possible that your club staff has written comments such as "Maybe B is better than A" or "I want to choose my partner properly".

Male members of the club may have money.
You may have a great position in your company.
You may even be proud of your subordinates.

However, there must be some people who are timid (chicken) towards women.

Your profile may have broken the nose of such a male member, and the clicking finger of the offer (laughs)

If you can imagine yourself being hurt by being rejected, it's hard to make an offer.
I don't want anyone to get hurt needlessly.

If you can think of it, it is better to add such a kind comment for male members in your own comment.

"At first I was nervous, but now I've gotten used to it and if it's a gentle man with good manners, I'm able to move forward after about the second time♡".

Women can't know for themselves, but your profile.Maybe you're giving the impression that "a woman with a high level of difficulty"?

how to continue with daddy

Ultimately, it's easy.

For example, if I provide an allowance for a woman's wishes and have a relationship according to the other person's wishes, the probability of continuing the relationship will increase.

Conversely, if you are satisfied with your dad's desired allowance and accept your dad's desired relationship, the probability of continuing will increase.

No, no, that's hell! (smile)

You may think.
I understand.But that is not the case.
I want you to find the middle point there.

It's easy to understand if it's a male member with ulterior motives, but some male members don't say ``what kind of relationship they want''.
I just look at the response of the woman and judge without permission that "this is what I want and this is not."If it suits your wishes, you may say something, but if it doesn't suit your wishes, I think there are many cases where you leave silently.

Of course, I think there are various conditions on the women's side.
However, I would like to see more discussion in order to balance both men and women.A lot of useless parting means more useless encounters.It's a waste.

I think it would be good if we both weakened our pride a little and searched for a compromise.I feel that there are many useless breakups due to drawing too many "determined lines" for both men and women.Wouldn't it be nice if both male and female members could approach each other more flexibly?

And what I want women who are worried about not continuing the relationship to think about once is, to put it simply, "You (the woman) always have the right to choose whether to continue the relationship."

There may be tough parts.
However, I think that there are things that can be seen from there.

My dad, who didn't meet the conditions, was persistent and refused to continue the relationship.
I like that pattern.

On the other hand, it should have been relatively good compatibility, but for some reason the relationship ended due to having read it several times, and it disappeared naturally.

Have you ever experienced such a pattern?

There may have been a gap in the relationship somewhere, but you (the female side) may not have noticed it.

I should have thought that he would accept your conditions and have a fun relationship, but in fact it didn't match the conditions on the man's side. "You don't meet the conditions." If you use rude expressions, it's a pattern that men thought was "not worth it."

Or, the pattern that the allowance amount presented by the man himself was actually the man's side.Or is that me? (laughs)

Some male and female members of the Universe Club say, 'Let those without money go! I think there are also people who think.

However, according to the data, XNUMX million units is the volume zone, and it is also true that there are some male members who are stingy about spending money on dating.

While the Universe Club has grown in size, it's leaning towards the popular, folksy dating clubs. (Sorry to all the staff)

The image may still be a ``rich mistress club'', but the men and women who are fighting there are semi-professionals, no, it may be that there are more and more amateur amateurs.

However, while there is a sense of tension in reading and bargaining between professionals and smart battles like that, it's also pretty good to have a battle between amateurs that throws punches without any bargaining (laughs).

I am a little worried that it will destroy the dreams of our female members, but it is also a reality.If you accept that reality, you will be able to get around a little better in this ring.

There are rich dads out there, but it's up to you if you're one of them.If you want to meet a rich dad for sure, you will need to enter "the salon".

If you think you can't meet a rich dad, please calmly look at the data again.are you OK.It is also part of the Universe Club.

There are many different types of dads here.You can't see what you can see if you measure it with your pride, values, and rules.

If you are fighting against a professional dad, that is, a smart dad who can afford it, there will be a gap.And your papa katsu skill won't go up at all after all.

First of all, let's start by making the papa in front of you happy and satisfied and rolling it on the palm of your hand.If you capture Daddy's heart, the relationship should continue.

There are also male members who simply prioritize their satisfaction and compatibility in bed.Even just improving your technique in bed will increase the continuation rate of the relationship.

So what I really want to say is,

Continuation depends on effort

There are many things that can be done with effort!

About Papa Life Counseling Room

I will write about it in the next column, but since there are a lot of things going on, I'm running out of time to receive consultations, so I'm going to wrap up the "Papa's Worries Counseling Room" in a hurry.

I plan to close this column in about a month, so if there is someone you would like to consult with, please apply as soon as possible.

In addition, this is a line that a suspicious person says,

"I am not a suspicious person"

If you have troubles such as "few offers" or "can't continue with daddy", please feel free to contact us from the following.Free tarot readings are also available.

【Application method】
・Please send an e-mail containing the contents of ① to ⑤ to the following e-mail address.

[　onayami@aol.com　]

①Universe club membership number and club name
② Number of offers so far
(XNUMX) Overview of consultation content
④ Desired consultation method (non-face-to-face or face-to-face)
　*In the case of an interview, whether or not a female member wishes to be present
⑤ Do you wish to have a tarot reading?