If you only have a meal date, what will you do with your allowance?Record your struggles.Actual record!Dad activity real diary

　Hello paparazzi.This time, I would like to report on what kind of ending it was after the "Girl's Day" problem occurred, which only women can understand, not men.

the opponent this time

• Name: Hatsuko (pseudonym)
• Class: Platinum
• Relationship type: C
• Occupation: Office worker
• Age: Late 20s

History of dating

An accident occurred the day before the promise!what will you do?

　Hatsuko's fourth date. Since the first date in February, it has already been four times today.The pace is once a month.She says it herself, but she's the nicest woman I've ever met. It's a cute girl who gives.In the past 4 times, we had a relationship with adults even after eating, and there was no doubt that it would be like that this time, but this time there was an incident that I had never experienced before. . .

　The incident occurred on LINE the day before.Until now, one of them returned LINE once every 1-2 days, and although the frequency was moderate, they were definitely communicating.Meanwhile, the contents of LINE that came the day before

"I'm really sorry! For some reason, the girl's day has come all of a sudden. I still want to see you, but what do you think?"

Hmm.I'm honestly in trouble!smile
The shock of not having an adult relationship is the best, and honestly I'm not young enough to forcefully say "I don't care", so I gave up on the next day's adult.The place is

"It's okay. That's not the only purpose!"

It's all I can do to be cool.
When I asked about it, I was told that my physical condition was not so bad that I could move, so I decided to go on a sports date the next day as planned.

　"It's not the only purpose" is not a lie.Hatsuko is fun to be with, and above all, I don't think it's bad that she's childish in a good way, or that she shows pure (?) affection.I think that we have built a good relationship with the feeling that we can joke with each other like a so-called "ba couple".However, at this point, Minka's remorse from the last time passes through.

"If it's only food, what will happen to the allowance?"

as my honest opinion

　Even if it's a healthy date with food only, it's true that the female side is also restrained for 3 to 4 hours.I understand.I understand.However, my honest feeling is that her allowance is still "adult relationship".It's certainly fun to be with a young and cute woman, and it's a valuable experience that makes you feel rejuvenated. do not have.There are plenty of people to eat with, and to be honest, there shouldn't be many people who want to pay money to eat together.On the contrary, I feel like I am being restrained. . . .I guess I shouldn't really think so, but after all there are limits to having a conversation with a young girl, and it's quite difficult to talk to each other. (Maybe the other way too)

To be honest, I was a little worried...

　I said we would meet tomorrow, but I was quite worried about what to do about my allowance. I thought it would be better for her to talk about the premise on LINE, but my biggest concern is whether I can convey it on LINE.It was her concern that it might end the relationship with her.She may be a Showa idea, but I think it would be better to meet and talk about money.So, as my own conclusion, I think it would be better to meet and meet if there is a request from the other side.
But, since it was Hatsuko, I had a wishful thinking that she would come just because she wanted to see me.
Now that I think about it, the world isn't that sweet. . .

what was the date

　After meeting in the afternoon, enjoy a sports date.After all, it's fun to see beautiful women laughing and having fun.So, sports dating is really recommended.smile
After exercising for about an hour, I was originally planning to disappear into the hotel district of Dogenzaka, but given the circumstances, I decided to look for him at a cafe as well.She decided that it would be difficult to find a store while wearing a bra because it was raining a lot that day.When she thought about joining a family restaurant in the building next door, she found Shumai Izakaya.Somehow the wavelength matched each other, so I decided to try it out.The taste wasn't bad as it was, and above all, it was empty, so we had a little less than 1 hours of silly talk while drinking a little alcohol.The time passed happily while chatting without love.

And the time has come to say goodbye

　She seems to have another plan, and today I also have to go to the next time because of this "girl's day" turmoil, so I will disperse.The next moment after finishing the checkout at the store and saying "See you later..."

"May I have some?"

I received a bill from her.Certainly, of course, of course.She said she wanted to meet me and charged me. . .That's what I feel, but above all, it's her fault that she didn't talk about it in advance.and hand over 1 yen.Then she said, "I had a good time today, so I'm fine with this."Apparently you have to pay more.

　What was a little shocking was that I thought Hatsuko's relationship was pretty good.If you get along a little better, even if you don't have an allowance?What I thought was sweet.It was a result that once again reminded me of the toughness of Papa Active Girls.

Reflection and countermeasures at the moment

　As expected, honestly, I don't feel the value if I just have a meal together.If it's just to talk while eating, it's definitely more fun to work with fellow managers, and you'll learn a lot, so if you're going to take the time anyway, I'd probably choose that.If you think it's worthless and you'll get a allowance, you won't have that option.

　Therefore, at this stage, I decided to clearly tell in advance that there is no "allowance" for meals only.I don't think it's good for both of us if I'm not enthusiastic about it, and the other side feels like "time is constrained".Of course, the first meal with a B-type woman is an exception because it means "getting to know".

　I headed to Shinjuku, where the next woman was waiting, while holding something that was not refreshing.

This store

• BAGUS Dogenzaka store
• 2-29-5 Dogenzaka, Shibuya-ku, Tokyo The Prime 3F
• URL:https://www.bagus-99.com/shops/b_dougenzaka/

　The best access environment where you can go from Shibuya Station almost underground without getting wet.
You can enjoy table tennis and golf as well as darts, so it is recommended for active dates!