What if you don't like the girl you were introduced to by the dating club?How to deal with that time?

I've met many women in dating clubs. 

To put it bluntly, I liked 7% of the women I met. 

But what about the remaining 3%?If you ask me, I have a question. 

Of course, since we are human beings, it is an unavoidable fact that there is a part of compatibility. 

Is it related to the body?Many people ask. 

Was it zero?When asked, it was also true. 

However, the main problem is not there. 

What I'm talking about is the basic communication part, such as the exchange of conversations. 

Of course, there is also the financial aspect, and there are various problems such as the wishes of the other party. 

Negotiate and exchange directly with a woman who works as a dad = more than a few problems occur. 

It's a matter of course. 

This desire is not only for women but also for men. 

I think that communicating with each other to solve this problem together and successfully overcome it is also a pleasure to associate with a woman who works as a dad. 

However, there is always a problem that cannot be solved, or a wall is always created. 

It's a matter of course, but there is also a shortcut to get introduced at a dating club first and pay the woman a fee (about 5 to 1 yen) if you don't like it when you first meet. 

Just. 

I think this has a personality, but there are some people who can't cut it sharply from a man's point of view. 

The reason is that the women introduced by dating clubs are of a very high standard.
(Personal opinion, but most were types.) 

And the other is that all the girls when I first met them all have good personalities. 

When meeting for the first time, the reality is that you can't profile everything about the other person. 

I'm sure there are people who have become dads, but isn't there a child whose personality changes when you go out with him?Do I have a better solution this time?That's exactly what I'm having a problem with. 

If you don't like it because of the manners of women, it's quicker to consult a dating club. 

Males are older than females. 

In addition, there is also the feeling of men who do not want dating clubs to interfere with their private space with women. 

After that, if I consult a dating club, I will feel sorry for the women after that, and if I worry about it, there will be no end. 

It's important to have a sense of detachment. 

If you've been in a relationship with a woman for months. 

It's something that comes out of your mind. 

Surely there must be a man who became a dad. 

Here, as a last resort, I would like to introduce how to deal with it in advance, keeping in mind that I will consult with the dating club that was introduced and cut off the contract with the woman. 

I'll tell you in advance, but if you think it's troublesome from the beginning, it's a good idea to pay the woman only the fee at that point and give up. 

This is what a real man should look like in the beginning. 

I hope that people who can't do that can read it. 

Plus, it's easy to cut. 

A wonderful woman who was introduced from the dating club. 

Isn't it fun to make good use of it and finish it with a wonderful woman?I began to think otherwise. 

The first encounter, at worst, is good for this lady when it actually solves the problem. 

There were many things that made me think, so I would like to introduce it while including such topics. 

It's really easy for men to cut. 

In any relationship, if you cut it easily, there will be no growth here. 

This is common sense that can be said to men who have become dads, or it may be a moral part. 

A woman who is suddenly familiar with the first meeting 

Have you ever met a woman who was familiar with you for the first time?It's also familiarity that feels a little misunderstood. (In short, a woman with a lot of wrong returnee-like body language.) 

Also, I think that there is always one woman who has experienced it when she speaks in Tame. 

Honestly, don't you have trouble responding?Getting angry all of a sudden isn't very popular either. 

On the other hand, I don't think it's a good idea to have a plain sermon conversation, even though I'm treating you kindly for the first time. 

Here, ah, I can't do it, so I'll just give you the shoes and send them home. 

I think it's a man's true intentions. 

Actually, I felt that way too at first. 

Wow that's familiar. 

And is it Tamil? 

Don't be discouraged from paying your allowance every month. 

I thought. 

However, once I mustered up my courage, I tried to have a conversation with a woman with a slightly opposite idea. 

that? 〇〇-chan, have you been abroad somewhere?It's nice to have a way of communicating like an international person. 

I tried to praise him. 

The woman's reaction was completely different from what I had imagined. 

eh?No, it's not like that.I am pure Japanese. 

Normally, when I accepted with a smile and had a conversation, before I knew it, the conversation of the other party had turned into honorifics. 

Ah, if I deal with them like this, will they be able to coexist well?I felt like I learned something. 

When I asked the woman later, she told me that at first she thought that I was from overseas and could speak English, so I changed it to honorifics out of consideration. (I thought it was quite effective. By the way, I am purely Japanese.) 

Of course, there are women who do not go well with this response. (Maybe I should say a child who can't read the mood right away.) 

In that case, I came up with another idea on my own. 

That is to never get on the same table as the other woman. 

In other words, you shouldn't have a conversation with the same stance. 

I'm going to have a conversation with the same stance as a woman, so what's the man's side?she is a rude woman 

I feel very uncomfortable. 

And the frustration level is maxed out. 

However, although it is a bad way to put it, if you keep talking to the other woman in honorifics with a slightly higher gaze, the flow of the conversation will stop in a few minutes, and you will feel like you are in a very embarrassing position. 

The reason is that the older one continues to speak in honorifics. 

As expected, even a woman who can't read the atmosphere can't ignore this all the time. 

Then, from the middle, it always starts to become honorific. 

Of course, it is not limited to the first meeting. 

If you go out with a woman who works as a daddy, you may suddenly start to speak the same language. 

There must be a lot of women who suddenly become familiar with it. 

The coping method I taught can be honestly invoked at any time. 

Especially effective for young women. 

Why is it especially effective for young women?There is a good reason for that. 

There are many young women today who live their lives worrying about what others think about them, especially on social media. 

So, if the temperature is the same as I thought and there is no response from the other party, I sense something, cool down to a similar temperature difference, and try to have a conversation. (Especially easy to understand when communicating with characters such as lines.) 

Therefore, if we do the opposite, they will try to adapt. 

The place will make women more or less considerate. 

However, men are never doing bad things, so it's good, isn't it? 

Moreover, it can be taken positively in terms of coexisting with any woman, and these women often turn into very good women later in the relationship. 

That's why it's good for a man to prevent being left out.