Which one comes first when you enter the store?

【question】

Which do you enter first when you enter a restaurant?

The other day, a woman at the club gave me a rather harsh warning.

According to her, being forced to enter the store first becomes pressure and stressful.She also told me that you were the only other man to do such a rude thing.

In terms of ladies first, I open the door and let the women enter first, and I've always done that.

I don't know what to do in the future because I think it's annoying to check which one is ahead every time I enter the store.

How are you guys doing?

What are you happy about, ladies?

I would especially like to hear the opinions of women.

Will it put pressure on you if you let it in first?

Conversely, if a man enters the store first, do you think, "Don't you know about ladies first?"

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【Answer】

Women go first when it comes to expensive stores

If it's a cheap store, men come first

Sometimes people say that, but then it becomes a question of "how much is more expensive than a store?"And the problem of sense is a trivial problem.

If it was a serious problem that everyone cares about, the manners would have been more clearly defined and the person asking the question would not have had to worry about it.It is precisely because many people think it doesn't matter that there is no clear etiquette.

Of course, just because many people don't care about it doesn't mean she's bad at caring about it.Each person has one or two obsessions that no one understands, and for her, it's "Which one enters the store first?"

However, even if the obsession is not bad, I have to say that her response after that is too terrible.

Regarding your question this time, there is no fault with the person who asked the question.If I had to say it, I would say that choosing such a woman is your only and biggest fault.

 

The reason why it is pressure to enter first is dangerous

I will probably never meet her, and she will never see this answer.

So I have no intention of asking her to improve.

Therefore, it is not for her, but for the questioner, that I will verbalize the problem of her behavior from now on.

First of all, the point that I think is the most problematic is the reason she said.

As she says, "It's pressure to get in first." There are two possibilities.

(XNUMX) She is not good at entering first, and she thinks that "it is normal that she is not good at entering first"

(XNUMX) She is not good at entering first, and she thinks that "it is special that she is not good at entering first"

In other words, do you think your senses are normal, or do you think they are not normal?

First, let's consider the case where she thought her senses were normal.

In this case she would be the worst.Because if she thinks so, she must be thinking, "She puts pressure on her opponent to enter first."

In other words, in this case, she can be said to be pissed, "You don't want to go in first, but I don't want to go in either, so you go in first."

I'm a sexist, so I think men should do jobs they don't like, but I have no intention of defending women like this.Since she is in a position to take over a job she doesn't like, you could even say that she should bow her head.

Now let's consider the second case where she thought her senses were unusual.

In this case, she would still be the worst.Because if she knows her feelings are not normal, she should be thinking, ``How can I know that it's pressure to come first?''

In other words, in this case, it can be said that Mr. Shinjiro Koizumi, who says, "You can't understand it, but it's bad that you don't understand it," has a surprising logical structure.

In any case, I must say that the reasons she gave are difficult to defend and rather terrible.
 

It doesn't matter, so cut it.The only exception is love hotels

It seems that the questioner is very concerned about this, but there is no point in worrying about this time.

I can assure you, if the questioner had a face like Mr. Ryo Yoshizawa's, she would turn her palm back and say, "It was really ladies first!"It may be a painful story for the questioner, but I think it's not that the woman didn't like the way she entered the store, but that she didn't like the questioner. .

However, even if there is such a reason, the behavior of this woman cannot be defended at all.Judging from her question, she is quite problematic and she should distance herself now.She doesn't even have to do that and she may keep her distance, but then you're in luck.

It really doesn't matter which one comes first.Of course, if the other woman says, "I'm sorry ... I'm not good at entering first ...", please feel free to enter first.

However, it is useless just to get along with people who just get angry without saying anything.If it's related to work, I can't think of a single reason why I would choose a woman who doesn't understand why as a daddy.

Well, I'm a love hotel staff.From that point of view, I would like to say one thing.

Only when entering a love hotel is it better for men to walk in front.I think it's relatively common for women to feel that they don't want to enter on their own because they want to have sex.

And above all, we love hotels are not "expensive shops".

We are looking forward to your visit.