Profit and loss account that you must consider at least once

When you become a father, various things happen between you and your woman.

And when it comes to men who have been fathers for a long time, can we call it trouble? Should I call it a thought? It becomes an increasing amount.

However, by overcoming such events together with women, you can gain something from them that you cannot understand on the outside.

I think all men who have become fathers feel the same way.

That said, men are also normal human beings.

No matter how gentlemanly he behaves and how he treats women, he will only end up at a disadvantage, and even if he signs a contract with a woman, there will be no benefit.

That's why being a dad is boring.

Have you ever experienced this feeling? To put it simply, it's a problem that can't be solved just by being pretty.

Of course, a big part of daddy activities is helping women.

However, not every man can become a father with a volunteer spirit.

When you sign a contract with a woman, you probably do it because you think it will be beneficial for you.

Maybe it's sex, or maybe he wants a woman to fill the void in his heart, or because he's gotten older and no longer has contact with younger women, and wants to connect with him through daddy activities.

Is it really okay to say that there are various types of "desires"?

I think most men say, ``I'm signing a contract'' because they think, ``If I sign a contract with this woman, I can make it come true.''

It's obvious, but I feel the same way.

Especially when I first became a father, I had a lot of desires and wanted to make them come true.

However, I remember that there were many things that could only be achieved by young women. (Currently, I have achieved all of them.)

Daddy activities are also a place where men's desires are exposed.

I'm sure most men don't want to lose out on being a dad.

Of course, I think there are various implications of losing out on being a dad.

You can take what I say here in a really general sense.

Only someone just gives to someone without giving anything back.

If I were to explain what it means, this is it.

When I first became a father, there were many times when I thought, ``What? I guess it's all about women's demands...''

I should have understood the meaning of being a dad when I started, but when I actually started, things turned out to be a little different than I had expected.

Is it okay to say that I experienced the feeling of ``there is absolutely no benefit to me''?

However, the longer I've been a father, the more I feel like I've acquired something that money can't buy.

Once I experienced that feeling, I thought, ``Honestly, I can't quit my position as a father.''

Now, how can I enjoy being a father with the woman I mentioned this time without feeling like I'm losing out? I would like to introduce my own method here.

Anyway, write down your desires in a notebook and check it with the woman.

That's what I actually did.

Writing down your desires in a notebook may seem a bit harsh.

However, this was a very important step for me.

When I meet a woman for the first time after being introduced to her through a dating club, I often find myself getting carried away by the woman's pace.

First of all, one of the reasons is the age of the other woman.

There are more women in dad-hunting who are much younger than men.

Because of this, men who are much older tend to use their ki needlessly.

It's good to be kind to women, but I think it's easier to understand if you just start a conversation while letting the other person hold the reins.

Is it okay to say that men usually forget what they really want to talk about or what their original purpose is, and end up excluding things that would benefit them when signing a contract?

Normally, when you sign a contract with a woman, if you both meet these conditions, you can move on to the next step.

I think this is probably the most beautiful state of the Papakatsu contract.

However, men who are new to fatherhood, especially, listen only to the woman's requests, make a decision, sign a contract on the spot, and end up losing out later. (No, that's what I'm starting to think, but I might be right.)

I'm sure this is true for men when it comes to being a dad.

I couldn't say what I really wanted to say.

And since I didn't say it at the beginning, it's hard to tell the woman now after the contract is signed.

As the days passed, I started to think, ``Why am I signing a contract with this woman?'' ``Isn't this just a waste of money?'' All I could think was ``I'm losing money.'' I think you can understand if I say that it is easy to get into a state where it disappears.

This is actually my experience.

When humans start to think that they are at a loss, they start to dislike everything, or rather, they become less able to think positively.

However, in advance, what would you like to do with a young woman at that time? It's also good when you're having a drink alone.

When I actually wrote it down, I unexpectedly realized that there were quite a few patterns that were far from the ``desires I had'' that could be fulfilled by the woman I was contracting with at the time.

For this reason, I write down my ``desires at that moment'' on a notepad in advance, and then I actually meet the woman I was introduced to at a dating club.

Then, compare what he wrote with the woman he met at that time.

Is it possible to fulfill the so-called desire that you want to fulfill at that time? is not it.

Of course, there are cases where you can refuse because it's impossible, but the important thing here is not to let the other person hold all the reins.

Another big advantage of this is that you can negotiate your requests with the other party while looking at the notes you have carefully written.

Then, since you have communicated your desires to the other party before signing a contract, you are less likely to feel like you lost out after signing a contract with a woman, and this method has significantly improved my negative feelings.

I would like all new dads to try it out.

If you sign a contract with a woman without thinking clearly, you may regret it after signing the contract.

However, this method allows you to calmly discuss your terms and conditions, which can help you avoid problems after the contract is signed.