Register with Flag Maker "Business Trip Host"

I registered more than half a year ago.

"What do you think the girls are doing with us after receiving an offer?"

It was the trigger that I suddenly felt doubts.

Even if I ask that question to the woman I'm dating, I don't think I'll get a true answer as long as I have an "allowance" between me.

Ask a woman you're close with, and if you get an answer, is it a truthful answer you can trust?Questions remain.

As I was thinking about this, an event crossed my mind.

From previously dating women,

“Did Mr. Flag Maker call you a ‘business trip host’?”

I was asked.
By the way, this probably happened more than once.

At that time, I didn't really know what kind of job a "business trip host" was, so I replied, "No, no, no, I can't do that (laughs)." What is it?

Simply put, a business trip host's job is to receive money and provide services requested by women (other than actual acts).

Of course, unlike dating clubs, you can't choose your partner.In that sense, I'm worried about what kind of woman will be my partner.There is no right of veto once a job is in.Because it's work.

However, I feel that there may be parts close to the anxiety and feelings of the girls who are active as dads.

I'm the type to act immediately when I'm interested.
Search for "business trip host" in Tokyo and pick up shops that can be registered even in your XNUMXs.
I immediately applied for an interview (laughs).

Actually, I thought it would be nice if I could write a column based on what I learned from my work, but I have never worked as a "business trip host".

There is no nomination in the first place because I am afraid of being exposed and I do not show my face.Well, I don't think there is no nomination even if I show my face (laughs)
I get contacts for freelance work without a name, but the number of requests is small in the first place.In addition, even if you suddenly receive a request saying, "I'm going to be in XX right after this, for XX hours," it's hard for a hard-working office worker and a married person to respond to that request. .

The reason why I write this column is because the lecture given by a veteran prostitute after the interview was a valuable experience.

What do women look for in men at the cost of paying them?
What kind of minimum response and manners are required there?

From the point of view of a male member of Universe, this is the complete opposite, but it may be helpful for male members who have the problem of not being able to maintain a relationship with a woman.Or rather, it's about me (laughs).

Reflecting on myself, I would like to write a column while remembering this experience.

From interview to practical training

I will go to the designated place for the interview and receive an explanation about various precautions and work contents from the male staff, but I can not write in detail here so I will omit it.

After the interview, we will schedule a practical training session. I think it was about a week later.Success or failure will be determined by the results of the practical training.

On the day, the staff will guide you to the designated love hotel, enter the room first and wait for the teacher in the room.

It's quite a tension that I haven't experienced in a long time even at work (laughs).

While my heart is pounding, I quietly wait in the room while imagining things like, “It would be nice if the instructor was cute.”

I hear from the staff that she is a veteran of the affiliated store and is quite popular.Therefore, it is very difficult to schedule the course.and.

"Quite Popular Prostitutes"

Expectations are heightened.

Ding-Dong♪

It seems that the teacher has finally arrived.

Let's calm down here for a moment.
I am a student taking a course.I am not a customer.
In addition, the staff warned me that I might fail the course as a result of this course.

The feeling of "expectation" is an unnecessary feeling here.

I am the one who takes the test called "course".
Courtesy and manners are mandatory.

I open the door and say, "Thank you for your time today!"

Lately, even when dealing with complaints, I haven't bowed so much (laughs).

Then, I raise my fearful face and discreetly confirm what kind of woman is the lecturer.Perhaps this kind of perspective will be noticed by the teacher of the lecturer.

It is rude to appear there, but it looks like a very ordinary prostitute.

(Are you really popular? Was I deceived?)

That thought pops into my head for a moment, but of course I can't show it on my face and attitude.It's a test.

Teacher: “Thank you very much. You must be ○○.”

I said, "Yes! I'm ○○! Nice to meet you!"

And then the lessons started.

Guidance outside of play

First of all, you will receive an explanation about the preliminary knowledge including the store system etc.

In the first place, not all women want to play.

I only want a partner for alcohol and a massage.It seems that there is such a request.First of all, you will receive guidance on precautions and correspondence in parts other than play.I'm going to write a bullet point about the instruction there.

- First and foremost, politeness and cleanliness are important.
・Don't be overly familiar all of a sudden.The desired sense of distance differs from person to person.
・Since the services required are different depending on the other party, while communicating with the other party, we will explore what kind of service they want.
・Be sure to check with the other person when touching or closing the distance.After getting permission, gently touch and close the distance.
・Make sure to look people in the eye, give a nod, and really listen to what they have to say.
・Take a note of the content of the conversation later, and bring it up as a topic casually the next time you meet.Such a response leads to continued nominations.
etc ...

I feel like I received a lot more guidance, but I wrote what I remembered.
The contents may be obvious, but when I actually receive the explanation, I think that I am not able to do this much on a regular basis.
And if you want to practice this, you may need a certain amount of attention and tension.

When you usually talk comfortably, you may be unconsciously showing your partner's companionship like this.

And the course will start when the service requested by the other party is play on the bed.It's finally here.

Guidance on how to prepare for play

First and foremost is time management.

It seems that the first conversation is unnecessarily long and the other party wants to play but can't say it.

Therefore, it is necessary to confirm whether the conversation will enter the play at some point.

Next, you will receive guidance while demonstrating the steps to play.The basic steps to play are as follows.

・Timer setting XNUMX minutes before the end time
・Prepare a toothbrush and mouthwash
・ Take off your clothes, if you wish, gently remove them
・Prepare bath mats and towels
・Hold hands and escort to the bath
・Take out the shower and check if the temperature of the hot water is appropriate.
・ Hold the shower with your hand so that it does not hit your face
・Lather the soap into your hands and gently wash your chest, arms, hands, waist, buttocks, and private areas.
・Give the soap to the other person's hands and ask them to wash the areas of concern themselves.
・Run the soap in the shower.Be careful not to cover the other person's face, etc.
・Prepare mouthwash and have the other person gargle
・Gargling with mouthwash while handing the other person a shower and letting them wash themselves
・Go out first, pick up a bath towel, and wipe the other person's back.do not scrub
・Give the towel to the other person and let them wipe it themselves.
・In the meantime, wipe your own body.
・Escort to bed

Teacher!...I can't remember! (smile)

Repeat in your head many times from the middle and recite the flow over and over again.After getting permission from the teacher, I took notes on my smartphone.There are too many things to remember, so I'm not confident that this is right.

My head is already completely over capacity (laughs)

no~. .Until now, I was only a receiver, but this kind of detailed arrangement is quite a difficult job. .In fact, there are many things that you can't understand unless you go to the "service side".

play instruction

Finally, we come to the actual play instruction.

As soon as I returned to bed, the teacher suddenly lay down on the bed,

Teacher: “Yes, please.”

eh! ?

Until now, I was given detailed instructions, but when I played, I immediately said, "Yes, please."

I have a lot to ask you.There is no order of where to blame, or anything! ?

... No, it's not.

This is a test.

Can you change your mind about this sudden development?
Depending on the other party, you have to serve even those who are reluctant to do so.

I instantly switched my feelings and started blaming, but where should I start blaming, is it okay to start with a kiss to the teacher?Is kissing unnecessary because it's a test?I don't know what the correct answer is.I don't know unless I listen to it.

I said, "Can we start with a kiss?"

Teacher: "Good."

I said, "Yes. Let's get started."

Under the premise that "this is a test", I start with a kiss in the usual flow, and from there, I go down from the chest to the cunnilingus and hand man.

The end declaration is made by the teacher when the hand man is done to some extent.

Teacher: “Yes.

I said, "Yes. Thank you very much!"

Teacher: “Mr. I will tell the staff that I have passed."

(Huh? Really? It was a normal and safe feeling, but is this okay?)

I said, "Yes. Thank you."

I'm honestly missing something.

Well, there's no point in me being here if I'm not getting any guidance on how to play.Unless you point out something wrong with me, I can't go home either.

I said, "I'm sorry. Teacher. I am very grateful for your kind words, but could you kindly point out my faults and things that bothered me? Please!"
*By the way, the teacher is a year younger than me.

Teacher: “No~ (laughs) Even if you say so..There really is nothing.

I said, "I'll manage that!!

Teacher: "Hmm.."

When I asked him to point out the bad points somehow, he finally pointed out,

"After your hands are sweating, the sweat cools and your hands feel a little cold, so wipe your sweat with a sheet so that the other person won't find out."

It was pointed out.I see.
Way to go teacher.Too specific (laughs).

Since there was no further indication, I asked various questions including confirmation.Below is what I have checked.

・Kiss is basically wait-and-see.Deep response depends on the opponent's tongue
・Don't touch it.About to caress it gently.Be especially gentle on the nipples and local areas.Anyway, be gentle and polite at first
・Hand man is also not hard.Never overdo it while watching the wetness
・When in doubt, start from the inside ○ Litrice stimulation is safe, but depending on the person, it may hurt if it is intense, so be gentle while watching the situation.
・People who want to orgasm should make an effort to make them orgasm, but that depends on the woman, so be careful while checking the degree of feeling and wetness with the other person.
etc ...

In general, the guidance for playing was to be "gentle and not overdo it".I thought that there was some kind of amazing technique or that kind of instruction, but it seems that it is not.I'm honestly blown away.

Rather than that, at first it is more important to play to relieve the tension of ``being treated kindly and cherished'', and after that it is okay if you respond to what the other party wants.

In fact, many customers were nervous at first because they were not used to this kind of thing.

End of course

The relief was short-lived.After this is a shower after playing.You will receive guidance on how to set things up like before.

I can't remember .

And the lesson is over.

Me: “Teacher! Thank you very much for today! I learned a lot!”

Teacher: “No, then I will contact the person in charge. Please do your best from now on.

I said, "Thank you very much!"

I bow politely again and send the teacher off.

Gachan

As soon as I confirmed that the teacher had left the room, I immediately opened the memo app on my smartphone and reorganized it while remembering the shower arrangements from earlier.

When I finished organizing everything, I sat down on the bed and finally took a breather.

Phew. . .

I was nervous for the first time in a while.After saying goodbye to my teacher, I was finally relieved of my tension.

Is that what a daddy girl, or rather a woman I'm dating, feels like right after she broke up with me? (smile)

Summary

What have I gained or lost from this experience?
I don't really understand that (laughs)

However, what a woman asks a man until she pays.As they get used to each other, they may come up with various requests such as sexual preferences, but first of all, what the male side should do is "play safe and gentle without overdoing it".

That or that?

My basics in the first place is "safe and gentle play", so maybe the woman I dated asked me, "Did you host a business trip?"I finally understand.

There is no such thing as a great technology, so why?I thought, but was that the first play of "business trip host"?agreement.

Maybe the first thing is to de-stress.I can't feel what I feel unless I start there.I can't enjoy what I enjoy.If you don't treat them with care, you can't build a relationship of trust.I wonder if it's like this.

I can't say that I gained confidence through this experience.I don't really understand it anymore.

If I were to ask whether the "safe play" that I'm good at is the correct answer, it would only be the first entrance, and if I were to ask whether it would be correct from there onwards, I don't think it would be the correct answer after all.

So what is the correct answer?

Regarding play for women, it may be "the correct answer is that there is no correct answer".

I'm not criticizing it at all, but women are affected by their mood, motivation, physical condition, and the timing and condition of their menstrual cycle.I think I am more susceptible to such physical and mental influences than men.

Read those subtleties and adapt them to your mood and condition at that time.In other words, the correct answer may change from time to time.

As long as the "allowance" is generated, women are trying not to show their unreasonableness to men.hidden from men.I feel like it's likely that the relationship will get worse without knowing it because the man can't read it.It's me too.

However, even if there is no correct answer regarding play, I felt that there is a certain amount of correct answer regarding "communication".Looking back, the teacher's guidance was rather centered on that.

So, is that the case with women?

However, it is quite difficult to read women's emotions and moods.

And it's difficult to read a woman's condition in an adult's act, or rather, it will no longer be a battle with one's own libido.

Suppress sexual desire and approach things with calm emotions.

That's it.

"I'm a super high performance sonar.It's a sonar that can catch even a single fish on the bottom of the sea. 』

Think so.

He concentrates on sensing a woman's emotions and bodily reactions, and never dislikes them.Never ignore a negative reaction.

In the end, it is difficult to go in inverse proportion to your own "sexual desire".

However, in my experience, the accumulation of such acts of caring for others and treating them with care can sometimes be rewarded later. (sometimes)

Relationships between people, relationships between emotions, relationships between bodies.If you have a normal relationship, there are some parts that are easy to understand, but if you put "allowance" in there, this will turn around and you will not understand.

In most cases, I think that the father is one or more years older than the father.Why don't we male members give a dream to pretty women who are more than one age younger than us?

"There's nothing wrong with getting an allowance"

Who will provide the companionship that such a woman seeks?

Is the boy registered with another dating club?

Not right.

That's us, "Universe Boys"!

It would be nice if we could share information and work hard together to become good dads.

And the quality of male members of the universe increases.In the end, it should also lead to raising the quality of female members.

The balance between improving the quality of the management side, male members, and female members should lead to overall service improvement.

We men are also members, but it is also one of the factors that can improve the quality of service.

As I wrote in my last column, I'm on a losing streak, so I can't say anything arrogant, but I tried to organize it while remembering it as a self-reflection.

I will also start training so that I can level up again from now on.

After all, what I want to say in this column is,

"The first play is kind."

That's what I mean!

Asta Luego!Adios!