The coldness of Tokyo always responds according to age.

If I was alone and had no hobbies or pleasures...

I shudder when I think about it.

At our age, we can increase our hobbies as much as we want, such as golf, drinking, and partying in the city, but after all, when we get together at a similar age, the content of our conversations will be appropriate for our age.

Of course, it's not that bad.

The so-called youth, or rather, the information of the new world does not come in.

Especially when it comes to our age, the source of information is television.

However, it seems that TV is now mainly about the Unification Church and politics, and the number of information programs full of variety like the old days has decreased considerably.

That's why I honestly don't get much out of talking to people of similar age.

Then you will age naturally. (It's a matter of course)

Talking to young women, however, is a different story.

To be honest, there are many young women who are insane, can't use greetings properly, can't use honorifics, and don't know about society and other information in newspapers and TV.

Maybe it's the trend of the times?

I hear that many young people today don't read newspapers in the first place.

I often hear that all information is done online.

Of course, our generation is fundamentally different.

However, from my point of view, I don't ask young women for common sense or social information.

The reason is that it is fundamentally different from our age, and on the contrary, I think that we have to change our minds and keep up with the current era.

It's not good to always look down on young people. (A certain story in our age)

What do I want from a young woman?

It is exactly the information that is happening in the immediate vicinity of the present. (For example, trendy items, etc.)

All this is not broadcast on TV, and there are a lot of things you can't understand unless you actually go out with a young woman.

For example, even if you call a videophone on line, you can easily talk on TV as if it were a matter of course.

But if this is also our age, how do you use it in the first place and how do you get it?I don't even know.

It's a simple story, a low level story that can't keep up with the times.

However, since it is a realistic story, it cannot be avoided.

However, in my case, by becoming a father and making a contract with a young woman, the younger one naturally learns how to use LINE and such kinds of apps, including how to use them easily.

So, there are times when I usually teach people how to use it to people of a similar age.

I'm sure if I hadn't become a dad, I wouldn't have learned this yet, and now it's possible that I would normally send greetings on LINE or send notifications with postcards.

In that sense, becoming a dad has a lot of significance for me.

In the midst of this, I have recently had more opportunities to drink with friends who are also registered in the dating club.

Of course, the content of the talk is about the woman who has a contract.

Therefore, we exchange various information, but sometimes it becomes a topic like this.

What kind of relationship do you have with your contracted women?

How much do you want from a so-called woman?That's what it means.

My friend says it's a bad way to put it, but now he's almost ageless and his body is the main thing. (youthful and enviable)

At first, dating was the main thing, but he said that he became captivated by the other person's charm and proceeded to the next step.

So, is that the story you hear from him at that age?It's about the content of "the love story that young people always have" itself.

Even I, the man listening, blushed a little.

I thought he had become younger recently, but I wonder if the contracted woman had a big influence on him?That's what I'm thinking.

However, different men have different expectations of women.

However, there is no rule that you can ask for up to this point, but you can't go any further.I often talk with my friends.

From here on, it's going to be a sensory story for me, so I'm not going to say that everything is correct.

Don't get me wrong about that.

I think that the line that is good for women is to the extent that women are not bothered?I think

For example, there must be some women who find it difficult to be asked for their bodies by men every time.

That's why some women find it hard to meet every week.

It doesn't matter how much money they pay.

In other words, different women have different lines that make them feel uncomfortable.

I think that the line drawing that I think is right there

To put it simply, it is the man's role to listen carefully to the contract or several dates, and is it a line draw?I came to the decision.

What I'm trying to say is that just because this woman was okay with being treated this way doesn't mean it's okay to treat another woman the same way.

This part is very naive.

To be honest, it would be difficult for the men to ask "Is it okay if I have sex?" from the beginning.

It would be so.

It's hard for me to ask such an easy-to-understand question to a young woman.

However, if sex is the only purpose, you should be able to find out about similar nuances if you meet about three times.

This is also one of the pleasures of us men.

It's just, honestly, some women have difficulty drawing that line.

For example, when you get a call from a really good bean asking for your pocket money, but the line you feel uncomfortable with is quite high. (High place means that the guard is too hard)

That's why, even though we meet several times a month and give him some pocket money, we can't bring him into sex.

Of course, what kind of relationship does the man want with the woman?It depends, but in this case, if sex is the purpose, cancellation of the contract will be unavoidable.

Honestly, it's a waste of money, and from the men's point of view, it's just a volunteer.

Of course, there is also a temperature difference between women and men.

In my case, it doesn't feel like the contracted woman's main body, so the feeling will change again.

However, no matter how high the women's line is, if I go in my case and I can't meet Beans, I think I will definitely cancel the contract.

It's a conversation between me and my colleagues, but as a result, the line that is good for women is that "the purpose I think" and "the line that women can ask for" are the same.

This led me to my final answer.

So it's important to ask women in advance at an early stage.

However, if it is suitable and does not fit, immediately ask another woman to be introduced at the dating club.

I have come to the conclusion that this is the most important thing.

For me, it's Universe Club.

By the way, there was a story that surprised me among my friends.

Does that mean that you are helping the contracted woman in its own way?But he didn't even hold her hand.There was also a story.

If it were me, I would have canceled the contract, and I already have a contract, but isn't it meaningless?I think so.

However, there may be various reasons on the women's side, and I can't assert anything.

I have no such experience so far.

By all means, men who have become dads once, what is the limit of this woman's line drawing?please think about it.

Surprisingly, it's fun.

And if you are going to make a new contract with a woman, if you can control this well, you will be able to deal with women longer than before, including the treatment of women.I think. (That includes me, too.)

Enjoy being a dad.