How do you all plan to spend your Obon holidays?

Every year, when working as a father, the Obon holidays are surprisingly hard to waste.

Do you know why? This is because there is a slight change in the number of women who become fathers during this period.

What does this mean? Please understand that this is just my opinion as a father of many years, so it may not be 100% correct.

I think there are many women who are working as dads and also have jobs in addition to being dads.

For example, some of them are office workers during the day, or even work in the manufacturing industry.

These girls are busy in their daily lives, so even though they are basically doing daddy activities, it is surprisingly difficult to arrange a schedule to meet with their daddy.

In fact, from my experience, some women are lucky if they can see each other twice in a month.

Regarding women who work separately during the day, it seems that some men who are fathers make strong requests (that they want to see each other more), but it usually doesn't come true, and I've never met a man who does. .

In my case, I don't think it's in accordance with the rules for father-hunting to force the woman who said that, so I don't make a request in the first place.

Therefore, depending on the woman, even if she likes a partner and signs a contract with him, the relationship often ends after two or three times because they don't get to see each other much.

In most cases, the woman says, ``I'm busy with my day job and would like to cancel the contract because it would cause trouble to my father.''

I'm sure men who have been dads for many years have experienced this many times.

Having said that, I find something attractive about women who work during the day.

How should I explain it? Is it fair to say that there are many children who are not dyed at night?

I really have the image of being ``too pure.''

In fact, about 8% of the women I met who were active fathers had a separate job during the day.

Also, since they mainly work during the day, I have the impression that there are many smart kids.

No, perhaps it would be more accurate to say that he is smart or serious.

This is just my impression after actually signing the contract.

I also remember that I was able to catch up with her more easily, including social issues, than with women who were too absorbed in the night.

So, personally, I don't have a bad impression of women who are active fathers and have a separate job during the day.

If I had to say it, even if I signed a contract, I wouldn't be able to see him much.

I guess this is it.

However, this Obon holiday is a little different.

During the Obon holiday, it is easier for women who are working as fathers to organize their schedules.

Of course, I have also heard stories of people returning to their parents' homes in rural areas for long periods of time.

However, this is not the case with the women I have met who are doing separate father activities.

This year's Obon holiday is especially long, including Saturdays and Sundays.

That's why many women go home for two days and then earn money by working as dads.

I wonder if my dad will miss this.

If it were me, I would take this as an opportunity and approach women about two months before the Obon holidays.

Do you go home for Obon? If I have a long vacation, can I meet you? Just like that.

Generally speaking, I have never been turned down by a female because of my schedule at this time of year.

That's why I call it ``an event where a definite change is occurring.''

After all, it's a period where you almost never get rejected because you're "busy." For example, if this is Christmas, there is a pattern of being refused quite a lot.

I'm sure she also has a boyfriend in her private life.

I've had the same experience several times.

However, this is not the case during the Obon holidays.

That said, long trips are a waste of time.

Many men choose to take domestic trips during the Obon holiday.

In my mind, I think it's a lot of nonsense.

The reason is that everywhere is crowded with traffic jams.

Moreover, women must also be tired from working during the day.

In such a situation, would you like to go out for a long vacation and still spend time in traffic jams? No matter how active you are as a father, you probably want to simply relax.

Also, during the Obon holiday, I was able to spend time with a woman who also had a rare daytime job.

If it were me, I would like to spend as much time as possible with you.

If you are in Tokyo, we recommend a nearby location.

I also mostly use trains during this period.

When I meet a woman, I usually choose an area that is about 20 to 30 minutes away by train (based on distance from each other).

First of all, the trains are on time and it's not crowded anywhere in the afternoon.

Also, it's easy to get to your destination, and it's easy to meet up with women.

From my point of view, during Obon, I make sure to choose a place nearby by train where I can be alone with my woman for as long as possible.

Being close to the station makes it easier to stay the night, and it also reduces the burden on women and leaves them with a good impression.

I think it's even better if you want to play an adult male.

My way of spending the first day of Obon is at a fireworks display.

If you live in Tokyo, no explanation is necessary.

In addition to Tokyo, it is held in Chiba Saitama and various other places in the Kanto region during this period.

Of course, it would be quite crowded when I went there, so I booked a hotel with a view of the place and had fun with the ladies.

Since Obon is still in full swing, I plan to continue enjoying it.

It's better to meet various women during Obon.

Some dads only see one woman.

I think that's very nice, but I'm planning to meet multiple women during this period.

This is especially true for children who we don't see often.

Honestly, there are some kids who might cancel their contracts once Obon is over.

However, there is a possibility that they will cancel the contract by meeting during Obon.

Anyway, I basically meet as many women as possible during this period and call it our annual communication period.

In fact, women are more convenient during this period.

Last year, two people had their contracts canceled during this period. (disappointing)

I hope I can start over this year without having to cancel my contract.

Why don't you all use this Obon period to focus on being a father?