30-year-old daddy What kind of daddy will you do and what kind of column will you write?

nice to meet you.My name is Pato@Papa Katsu Oniisan.
I usually post a thought column about dad life, mainly in note.
This time, we received an offer from Universe Club and decided to publish the article.
Thank you very much.

This time, I will introduce myself and deliver the following three points.

 

30-year-old Dad-live brother – What kind of person is Pato?

First, here is my brief profile.

● Age (at the time of article publication)
: 30 years old, born in 1991
　→ I may be young for a dad, but the age range of the women I met ranged from 19 to 32.
      By the way, I think that "Arasa girls" are the most attractive.

Marriage
: Married (with children)
　→ Basic sexless with my wife.Act once every few months.

Appearance
: Non-handsome, slender and middle-sized
　→ I try to maintain a minimum of cleanliness and not to be cut off.Nonetheless, I try to keep the distance with the person I talk to based on what I say and my personality, not on my appearance.
　→ Therefore, we believe that the know-how we have cultivated can be utilized by many people.

Occupation
: Company employee (IT)
　→ I am not a manager, so I cannot deduct the activity costs as expenses. (smile)

●Military funds
: 100-200 million yen per year
　→ As a dad, I have a low standard, so I focus on cost performance.

●Activity area
: Within the 23 wards of Tokyo

● Activity platform
: Matching app*1, SNS (Twitter, Clubhouse*2, etc.)

※ 1
I was using an app that looked like a dating club.

※ 2
Clubhouse is an invitation-only SNS where users can enjoy voice and communication in a room-like space called a room.

activity style
: healthy *3 main

※ 3
Healthy refers to non-intimate forms of activity (eating and so-called general dating).

By the way, when my wife returned home from her pregnancy, I thought that I could only do it now, and it came to me.
Currently, my wife, who is afraid of corona, is strictly monitored, so I am not meeting new people,
It is a situation where about 2 people are carefully selected and repeat secretly about once a month.

 

 

What kind of column do you want to write?

There are three columns that I would like to write on this site.

1.A healthy dad life experience via matching apps and SNS
2.A way of thinking that both the father side and the woman side can work comfortably
3.Tips for highly satisfying dad activities that incorporate women's real voices

A healthy dad life experience via matching apps and SNS

As I mentioned in my profile, I basically met daddy girls through matching apps and SNS.

The merits and demerits of searching for a dad active partner on matching apps and SNS,
in many ways,I've met women of a layer that I can't meet at the dating clubI am proud of that, so I would like to write about such experiences honestly.

Since it is also called a health-centered activity,healthy dad lifeI will also write about the charm of.

Also, since I am relatively young,Benefits of starting youngI would like to write also.

Today is the youngest day in my lifeSo, if you are wondering whether you will be active, please refer to it!

A way of thinking that both the father side and the woman side can work comfortably

Papa-katsu is a world where business and private life are intricately mixed because of the activity with pseudo-romance as a motif.

I tend to forget that I have a strong sense of privacy, but
As long as it is a business relationship based on compensation,There are manners such as how to keep an appropriate distance and knowledge for comfortable activities.I think.

Since it is a long-awaited activity, in order to maintain a good relationship with a good partner,
I'm going to introduce you to the mindset that I think I need.

 Tips for highly satisfying dad activities that incorporate women's real voices

As an advantage of being active on SNS, apart from the person I dated,
I became friends with women who had a lot of experience as dads.there is a point.

In addition to considering my own experience,Including the real voice of the female side
Tips for a highly satisfying dad lifeI would also like to introduce you.

That's it for Pato.
Thank you for reading.Thank you for your continued support.
Good luck with your daddy life!