About brother life

What is brother life?

Dating club = Papa activity
It's been a long time since the keyword

Recently, it seems that a new keyword called "big brother life" is appearing little by little.

What is brother life?

Of course, there is no clear definition, and it is a slang term, but I think that this is a keyword that will gradually permeate in the future.

Brother life seems to be like the following when written.

Among the women who have experienced and experienced papa-katsu, as a result of actually dating men, they were reluctant to get along with men who were close in age to their fathers.
But serious dating with people of the same generation is also unsatisfactory.
Being too old is physiologically tough.
As an interim plan, enjoy dating with an older man within a year's age difference.
But it's different from a boyfriend who is in a serious relationship.
I don't want a high allowance, I only get pocket money for transportation expenses for each date

It seems that it is like this.
 

Daddy activity = Casualization of dating activities

I think there are various factors that cause this, but I think the biggest reason is that "papa activity = casualization of dating activities".

Not only the children who work hard as mistresses, but also many light-hearted women come knocking on the door, and it seems to be a by-product of the diversification of needs.

As I wrote in my previous column, the male side and the younger ones are now registered in dating clubs.

It's an era when I see men in their XNUMXs, not to mention men in their XNUMXs, around me.

It can be said that it is a proof that the threshold has been lowered as a place for men and women to meet, rather than a special affair or mistress mediation function.

Recently, men in their mid-twenties are sometimes said to be herbivorous.

In a sense, this is more than saying that you are not interested in love or women.

・Not interested in serious love affairs
・Not yet interested in a serious relationship that will lead to marriage

This is not to say that there is no interest in women in all ages and countries.

Therefore, there are definitely men in their XNUMXs and XNUMXs who want to have a casual relationship with multiple women without being blamed.

Although it lacks the astringency, maturity, and economic power of an older dad, it still has the advantages of young people, such as the looks of being able to walk side by side and the sense of cleanliness.
 

Something like popular car sharing

Interestingly, many men who are bro-katsu oriented don't care if the woman they're dating has a boyfriend or how many dads they have.
(Put away worrying about illness lol)

I think of this as something like car sharing, which is a trend these days.
 

Even if you don't own a car for yourself,
You can ride when you want,
You don't have to share the space with other people and monopolize the space,
It doesn't have to be the interior of your liking,
want to reduce the cost of ownership
You don't have to put up a sense of superiority or show off to others that you have a private car...

Even if you replace it with a woman and think about it, it makes sense.

Reasonable and practical.

Of course, people's values ​​are diverse, so there are ten different things, but it seems to be true that more and more young people are becoming more tolerant of the opposite sex.

I tried to summarize this as "older brother activity", but in the future, the number of young people may increase and the power may expand.

There is a possibility that the environment around the dating club will change, so I would like to see the trends.

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