Are dinner dates a waste of time?

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2018-02-07

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The other day, I had the opportunity to meet a 20-year-old woman outside of Universe.

It was a precious time, so I was looking forward to it, but...

I made a column because I experienced the same feeling as the men who are registered in the dating club.

Contents

1 bad attitude
2 Daddy life?everyone is doing
3 What is normal?
4 spend your time meaningfully
5 What should I do?

bad attitude

Arrived later than the scheduled time, no apology, arrogant attitude.

To be honest, my first impression was the worst.

Completely deny this comment.
Conversation is not fun and a waste of time.
It was honestly the worst time.

At the time of the interview, I dealt with many women like this, but when it comes to situations like this outside the company, I can't be strong-minded, so I was careful while talking.

Daddy life?everyone is doing

My friends around me say that they are working as dads.

I don't know why, but he says he doesn't do it.There is one.

Ask more about your friends

"I'm not asking for a dinner date!"

"Everyone says they don't care about food, they want to go to the hotel right away!"

"It's normal for women these days!"

I was cut off.
"If the allowance is the same, the shorter the time, the better. Meals are a waste of time."

When.

eh? ? ?

Is that so? ? ?

"That's normal"

What is normal?

Am I the only one who thinks this is out of the ordinary? ? ?

Even if you say so, it doesn't mean that your thinking is normal.
Are your friends the only ones who judge everything?

What a small world you are.
poor. . .

Maybe I was like that when I was 20.
I have a narrow view and think that what I know is all there is,
He is easily swayed by the opinions of those around him, and believes in them absolutely.
That's what it is.

Even if

Would you like to meet such a woman?

do you want to date?

take your time?

I wouldn't recommend it! !

spend your time meaningfully

Men who are registered in dating clubs
You will probably feel a gap in these areas.

A woman with a bad evaluation in feedback after a date
It may be that you have the same thoughts as this woman, or have similar feelings, and have a narrow perspective.

I am not aware that I am being rude.
I have a strange pride that I am what I am.

To be honest, I am a nasty woman.

Even so, if the looks are reasonable, it's even more so.

After a date with a man
"It was a waste of time."
Sometimes it is said.

I felt the same way.

If you work, you can get money, and if you make an effort, it will be a plus.

Time is equal to everyone, how to spend the decided time...

I want to spend as meaningfully as possible.

But these dates are honestly a waste of time.

Then why not date?

What should I do?

Please ask for more staff!

Dating clubs provide a place for people to meet.

Don't rely on the system, talk on the phone instead of email, and have a meeting

If you meet and talk and understand each other, it will be easier to recommend women, you may be able to introduce your favorite women with pinpoint accuracy, and you may be able to prevent mismatching.

We can do things that computers cannot.

If you are a Black member, you can nominate a concierge, and you can meet and have a meeting.

It seems that many people are not using the service effectively.

Take advantage of our concierge service to save time!

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11 thoughts on “Are dinner dates a waste of time?”

A Than:

2018-02-07 10: 25 PM

There are quite a few women who say, "I want to make money at a hotel as soon as possible."
I am filled with the feeling that I want to shorten the hard working hours as much as possible.
It's just that I can't hide it because I'm young, but it's more or less a common feeling for women.
I'm not so proud of myself here.
That's what it is.

That's why children who don't care about time and who get attached to them are cute.

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- A Than:
  
  2018-02-07 11: 31 PM
  
  I would like to add that there is a big difference in the level of satisfaction between "a child who talks quickly and is quick" and "a child who shortens working hours" even for children who work with the same sense of hourly wages.
  The former is often appreciated by men, but the latter is a source of anger.
  
  It can be said that the child who wrote in the column is just saying, "Isn't it okay to save time and effort for each other's meals?"
  Surprisingly, the customer service may be solid.
  
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  - Yui Nanase Than:
    
    2018-02-09 6: 45 PM
    
    Mr. A
    thank you for your comment.
    "I want to earn money at a hotel quickly" is somewhat like a customs.
    Certainly, even with the same feeling, "child who wants to save time" feels a little bad.
    I agree that "a child who talks quickly and is quick to get started" is good.
    If it's OK for both of us to save time and effort during meals, there's no problem.
    If you have a smooth date, you will be more satisfied and your evaluation will be better.
    The club is setting a meal date, so what about "no meal"?As soon as I thought.
    Thank you for your valuable opinion.
    
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  - A Than:
    
    2018-02-09 9: 29 PM
    
    It can't be helped that it feels like a custom.
    Because most of them are prostitutes.
    
    Not only is it time-consuming, but if you can cut your meal costs, you can also afford your allowance, so it's not a bad thing for both parties.
    If both parties are okay with it, there is no problem.
    
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Mac Than:

2018-02-07 11: 14 PM

I completely agree with A. A 20-year-old child thinks that a two-hour course meal with an uncle we met for the first time is more painful than sex.
For sex, you can close your eyes and imagine your boyfriend's face, but you can't close your eyes while eating.
The taste is different, isn't it?The era where omelet rice and hamburgers are still delicious.Some children go on diets.
However, after having sex with a child like this stray cat, it's cute when you get close to him.After that, I will accompany you on whatever you like, whether it's just shopping or eating.If you leave it to the person himself, it's fun to understand the ecology of a 20-year-old.The other day, I was told that there was a bag that I really wanted, and when I followed it, it was 8 yen from Jill Stuart (^^).
I think it's completely possible to say, ``Eating with an uncle after having sex, getting paid, and becoming friends!''I think so even if I'm a girl (laughs).

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Mac Than:

2018-02-07 11: 50 PM

It's been over a year since I joined UNIVA, but the big lesson I learned for myself is that I shouldn't rely on the staff (concierge).
The reason is that when I remove it, I feel negative emotions towards that staff member (laughs).Even at this age, I still lack human training.
So it's better not to "recommend".Instead, when a male member asks, "What about Mr. ○○?" keep it to a minimum.
When I watch videos of interviews with women, I sometimes think that I am not trying to grasp the true nature of women because I am so concerned about the words of interviews with women and myself.I'm worried.To put it in harsh words, it seems that the staff themselves aren't really interested in that woman.
I felt something similar to Nanase's article this time.Isn't it "a small world" to say "I don't recommend" a 20-year-old who is different from your "normal"?
When I talk to Nanase-san, I feel like she's just pushing me for a girl that Nanase-san likes (laughs).

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- A Than:
  
  2018-02-08 5: 12 PM
  
  Excuse me from the side.
  
  I think that interviews by female staff will have many positive aspects.
  I think that Mr. Nanase's interview comments were often memorable.
  However, as Mr. Mack said, we still consider the female bias when it comes to recommendations.
  The "good girl" that men want to play with is usually more like a bad girl.
  Mr. Nanase, isn't there a woman close to you who feels angry, saying, "Why is a man deceived by such a shit woman?"
  I want you to introduce me to such a woman (sometimes).
  There is a charm of a black-hearted woman.
  I have a lot of fun memories (although it's sad when it's over).
  
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  - Yui Nanase Than:
    
    2018-02-09 6: 59 PM
    
    Mr. A
    Thank you for reading my interview comments.
    Even Nanase didn't realize the charm of a black-hearted woman.
    I am surprised that there is such a selection.
    The good thing about dating clubs is that you can enjoy various things from time to time.
    We look forward to working with you in the future.
    
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  - A Than:
    
    2018-02-09 9: 32 PM
    
    Black-hearted women often have strength, so their ability to respond to various situations can be evaluated.
    Lions also depend on how they use their bait and whip.
    
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    - Yui Nanase Than:
      
      2018-02-16 12: 06 PM
      
      Mr. A
      How to use bait and whip.
      I'm curious about how you use it, but I'm sure Mr. A is good at it.
      It's wonderful to be able to enjoy various dates.
      
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- Yui Nanase Than:
  
  2018-02-09 6: 56 PM
  
  Mr. Mac
  thank you for your comment.
  As Mr. Mac said, there must be some women who find it painful to eat with a man who is older than them for two hours.
  I have received such opinions from women in feedback.
  As for the free love part, it's up to the two of you, so if you can enjoy each other after meeting, I think that freestyle is fine.
  
  As Mr. Mac said, if a staff member recommends something that you don't like, I can understand why you would feel negative feelings towards that staff member.
  Certainly, I will recommend it subjectively, so it may or may not suit you.
  As Mr. Mac said, Nanase's world may have been narrow.
  Thank you for your comment, Mac.
  I am glad that you are watching the interview video with the woman in detail.
  I am looking forward to continuing our good relationship.
  
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