• I'm not rich, so I can only do this much.I can't give you an allowance or buy you a present...


Question date: 2021/01/19 22:08

I'm not rich, so I can only do this much.I can't give you an allowance or buy you a present, so you don't need it. , cute because they don't want expensive things.Is there anyone who says something like that?
I think you're saying goodbye to me because I'm stingy, but I'm angry.It seems that you are looking down on me.Occupation is a person with social status.I can use money for entertainment with important people, but I can't use it.
I think I'm seen as a woman who can have fun without spending money.
Please tell me how to improve.

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This is Taro, a male member.

There are things that make you angry when you say it.The man's remarks are clearly erroneous.

However, if you think about it, you'll understand, but men don't look down on you.If there is a price for women, I think your price is much higher than the allowance I am giving you now.Otherwise I wouldn't say that.Originally, I should have conveyed my feelings first, but I ended up stroking my emotions because I was talking about money in a strange way.It's a clumsy man's blunder.

If the woman decides to settle the matter, let her know how you feel now. "I said that my allowance would be fine, but when I say that, it feels like I'm being treated like a cheap woman, and I feel bad."Please tell me straight as a story of your feelings, not a story of money.If you let the other person know that that is the point, you win.Your partner probably doesn't want to do that.I really love you, and I don't want people to hate me for being small-minded, so I'm just freaking out.So I hope to fix it soon.

Maybe you're annoyed and feel sorry if you don't get a raise, but hold it down.First of all, you should focus on dominating the game and winning one game.In the long game, the one who dominates the field as a strategist wins.This is the first important step.

  • Answer date: 2021/01/20 00:45
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Men are free to think so, but they shouldn't say it.

It would be nice to just shut up and say, "I value you, I appreciate you," in ways other than money, but when I hear it as a word, it's frustrating.

I don't think there's room for improvement anymore, and even if it's improved, I don't think it's good to continue dating while both of us are stressed.

Thinking that matching didn't go well, let's look for the next one♪( ´▽`)

  • Answer date: 2021/01/19 23:01
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This is Basil, a male member.

From the man's point of view, the questioner is probably a woman who is unattractive but can be cheap.
Such an existence is valuable in its own way, so it would be nice if men didn't say unnecessary things.
I'm sure you're misunderstanding that you can't leave yourself no matter what.
In this case, the relationship cannot be easily changed.
Why don't you beg for it, even if it's the end?

  • Answer date: 2021/01/20 08:59
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This is Kazu, a male member.

The company's money is used for entertainment, but ordinary men take out the money required for dating with their dating partners from their own wallets.The wallet is different, so I don't think what the man is saying is correct.

In order to avoid being stingy, you need to be a woman who clearly needs to spend money on a relationship.However, I can't really sense the intellect and character of the questioner from the question, so it seems that the road to increasing her own value is steep and long.

So, I think that one way to easily improve the situation is to take the stance that I will do anything as long as you give me some allowance.She makes men think that even women who are willing to do things that other women won't do if they just give them money are likely to cost money.

For example, I heard from a man with a string that his mother, who has a hobby of scatology, once told him, "If you eat my poop, I'll give you a wad of banknotes."I've heard similar stories from hosts.There are some rich people in the world who are willing to spend money to satisfy their desires, and have a tremendous propensity to do so.There are very few people who are willing to go out of their way to meet the desires of the rich, so if you meet them and meet their desires, you will be treated well and cherished.It's an old story, so it's old, but on his wrist, two Cartier love bracelets with diamonds were shining in different colors. If he wears jewelry that costs XNUMX million yen around his wrist, he won't look like a cheap woman anymore.

Good luck.

  • Answer date: 2021/01/19 22:56
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This is Sakura, a female member.

There is a difference between being rich and being able to spend money on yourself.After all, isn't the current relationship suitable for the man? It's true that people think of me as "a woman who can enjoy life without spending money", but in Taro's words, I think one strategy is to continue for a long time and get a big return as a result.Competitiveness and dating cannot be lumped together.

Maybe it's because the questioner doesn't seem to be in such financial trouble.I wonder if they're trying to distribute wealth optimally (to children who really can't eat).I don't understand how high-ranking people think.

  • Answer date: 2021/01/20 07:56
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This is Yume, the date of the male member.

> Please tell me how to improve.

it's simple.
You should end the relationship.

Just wait for an offer from a richer man.

  • Answer date: 2021/01/19 22:16
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Maezawa from the president's office will also answer.

thanks for your questions.

> Please tell me how to improve.

The first is the key.
I find it difficult to improve my relationship with my current partner.
The next time you meet a man, you can prevent it if you do the first response properly.

In other words,
Raise your hopes for benefits the first time.
Even if they negotiate, they won't respond, saying that they are getting more from other people.
Unfortunately, I will return if it is not possible.

Even if you don't want a present, sometimes talk casually.
I got a 〇〇 purse from another dad the other day, but I really wanted a 〇maru bag.
It feels like it's just talking about something else.

Then, the questioner will have the impression that she is a woman who costs money.
If a man thinks it is impossible, he will leave.

If you don't want to be left, or if you don't want to get bruised, then you can stay as you are now.
The brand is expensive, but it is established because there are people who understand the value.
The brand that is selling cheap is always in that position.

I think you should watch the entire drama "Survival Wedding".
The story of the brand comes out in this, so the story is quite useful.

For example,

Louis Vuitton has never had a sale in its 160-year history.

If you have clothes from old seasons, you will lose money because of inventory costs.That's why many brands sell out even if they lower the price if they don't sell.
However, in order not to reduce the value of Louis Vuitton, even if it means discarding the product, it does not sell it at a bargain price.
If it is Louis Vuitton, even if it sells cheaply at a sale, it should be a considerable profit.
But they don't.


  • Answer date: 2021/01/20 11:18
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Thank you very much for your question.My name is Love Hotel Staff Ueno.

I am very sorry, but I think that the person asking the question has made one big misunderstanding.
It seems that the person who asked the question thinks, "She is seen as a woman who can enjoy herself without spending money," but the other man probably doesn't think so.
The other man may be thinking, "I can't enjoy spending money, and I don't feel like spending money."
For example, there are 1 yen and 10 yen courses at beauty salons, and if the contents are exactly the same, no one will choose the 10 yen course.People pay more because they can receive better service by paying more.
In other words, from the perspective of the other man, the person asking the question may not think that spending more money will not make the date more fun.
Also, I have to say that the questioner is somewhat lacking in management sense.
The reason why men spend a ridiculous amount of money on entertainment is because the entertainment can bring out more profit than that amount.
Even if you spend 1 yen for one meal, there is no problem if you can conclude a contract that will result in a profit of 100 yen.
Please be assured that the questioner is not considered a "cheap woman" by the other man.
It's just that people think of you as "a woman who can't enjoy spending money" rather than "a woman who enjoys spending money".

  • Answer date: 2021/01/29 20:03
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This is a male member's paper airplane.

They don't mesh.

Think about why you are so dissatisfied.

  • Answer date: 2021/01/19 23:28

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