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Question date: 2024/03/22 23:43

I am a beginner member who is about to start my activities.

When you meet someone for the first time, you probably want to have a meal first, but what kind of restaurant would be good?
I think it's safe to have a course meal in a private room at a nice restaurant, but on the other hand, I wonder if there are some women who don't like course meals? I also think

However, if it's an a la carte restaurant, it will look like an izakaya, so what's wrong with that? and

It would be helpful if you could give me some advice on choosing a store for the first time.

By the way, the time is in Tokyo after the evening.

  • gender male
  • Age: 40s
  • Member: Universe male member
  • Member ID: 91368
  • Who should answer: Anyone

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Taro

Wouldn't it be nice to have a private room in a nicer restaurant and be able to choose whether or not to have a course on the day? So, it would be a good idea to decide while consulting with the woman on the day.

It's a restaurant with a nice atmosphere and delicious food, so if you only have a course, it's a good idea to make a reservation. So, on the day of the meal, it's a good idea to ask, ``Isn't it too much? Is it okay?'' and before you eat, say ``If it's too much, I'll take it.'' There are some women who say, "Okay," and share it with us. It's a small thing, but it really reduces the sense of distance. When you see sushi on a plate, it's fun to have a conversation like, ``You can take one,'' ``Well, let's take one,'' or ``Oh, anything other than uni (lol).''

If you're going to start dating in the future, you'll have to discuss many things before making decisions, so I think it's a good idea to use meals as an opportunity to create a relationship where you can discuss things properly. So, I was actually hesitant at first, but now I'm choosing the course (lol) In fact, it's easier to communicate if you say "It seems like a lot, but is it okay?" rather than "What would you like to do?" at a la carte. There may also be. It's hard for women to say what they like the first time.

Also, sometimes situations occur where a woman says it's OK, but when she actually eats it, she ends up with a lot of food, so if you casually check on her and notice that the chopsticks are moving slowly, say, ``If it's too much, it's okay to leave it behind.'' "I think it's important to say that." This happens not only for the first time, but also for women who have been dating for 2-3 years. The other day, there was an incident where I ordered a lot of duck nanban to finish the meal, so I saved the day. Also, if you feel like leaving some food behind, don't say, "I'll eat the rest." It's more serious than I expected, and I'm treated like a pervert.


Taro

  • Answer date: 2024/03/23 03:34
Male member

Seattle

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Ask if they would like a private room or a hotel buffet. A hotel buffet solves the problem of fullness.

If you want a private room, research your favorite genre and search with Ikkyu.
The rest is the same as Taro's, and I emphasize that it's okay to leave it behind.

  • Answer date: 2024/03/23 08:21
Male member

system engineer member

If you are a female member who is also registered with PATOLO, you can use PATOLO's message function to ask, "Is there a restaurant you would like to visit?"
I think it might be a good idea to ask.

  • Answer date: 2024/03/23 08:36
Male member

Fuu

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A private room is recommended for your first visit.
Discuss your allowance with other customers
I can't speak calmly in an environment where I'm being asked questions.
isn't it

Even if it's a la carte, it's not an izakaya.
Sushi restaurant, Yakiniku restaurant, French restaurant
You can find it, so please try looking for it.

As the system said
I check my likes and dislikes on Patro
We will contact you to make a reservation.


  • Answer date: 2024/03/25 01:22

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