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Question date: 2024/03/18 19:48

What is the intention of a man who writes in his profile section, ``I'll never be a fat dad'' or ``I don't think I'm a good match for someone who expects me to receive a large amount of money''?
Do you mean that you literally want to have fun on the cheap, or do you just want to avoid women who are willing to spend all their money on you, and if you meet someone you like, you'll just give it out?
In fact, the fact that I go to the trouble of writing about this kind of thing makes me feel stingy and I don't want to meet him anymore, but what do you ladies think?

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Male member

Die

I think whatever the intention is, it's still the same.

I didn't understand that they wanted to play cheap.

I don't think it would be a problem if we had too many expectations.

It's okay even if the person asking the question doesn't meet you.

Isn't it good for both of us because it prevents mismatches when someone like the person asking the question declines the request?

  • Answer date: 2024/03/18 20:16
Male member

Fuu

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Just write it on your profile
It saves you from wasting time
I guess it depends on the person asking the question and the woman.
I think.
It's a waste of time if you hide your stinginess and meet me.
If female members don't like this text,
The offer will be declined
On the other hand, I'm glad that he was a man who wrote honestly.

I'm sure they will accept the offer with this wording.
Women are rare
I think he's an idiot dad.

  • Answer date: 2024/03/18 20:40
Female member

Taro

You're asking for answers from women, but it seems like all the answers are from men, so I'll be Taroko from Nekama and give you the answer. By the way, I was hesitant about choosing the character, Kenichi Mikawa, but I decided to choose Mrs. Devi.

First of all, I think the person who asked the question is correct. This is because these men are writing to avoid women with high allowances. However, when it comes to allowances, after we actually meet and get to know each other, we may decide, for example, that for a woman, the allowance is usually 10, but for this person, 5 is fine. But these men are throwing away that possibility. What you get is an introduction fee, transportation expenses, and meal expenses if the conditions do not match. That's all.

If a woman who normally has a score of 10 thinks it's okay to have a score of 5, that means she has feelings for men. The man doesn't want that kind of feeling. Or maybe he wants it but doesn't think it's possible. Because he thinks he's not attractive. The former is out of the question, but the latter probably won't either. I'm sure the person asking the question agrees, but I'm not attracted to men who lack self-confidence.

But wouldn't it be fine if you just don't worry too much and just be dignified? If you live long enough, people will make a lot of mistakes. If an offer comes to me, I will definitely accept it. Become the chosen woman. It's my book. The Kindle version costs 770 yen.


Looks similar lol

I apologize for the inconvenience. I am regretting this from the bottom of my heart, and I should have chosen Fuwa-chan as my character.


Taroko

  • Answer date: 2024/03/19 01:13
Male member

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I judge all things based on (1) past performance and current intentions + (2) future possibilities and expectations.

Many people tend to make judgments based solely on ①. In this case, the judgment would be that he is a ``stingy dad''.

However, you can't rely on people's thoughts and they change all the time. Change often occurs, especially in limited situations, and it is possible to make people change their minds.

However, regarding ②, it is impossible to judge unless you actually try dating someone patiently.

In this case, the person who declares that he doesn't want to be a fat daddy, but after dating for a while, offers to be a fat daddy for reasons that suit him.

I think this is what makes humans so interesting, so I'd like to see the possibilities and meet them at least once.

Lastly, I would like to say out loud that women choose men too much based on their current specifications. Some women who are willing to bet on their future and persevere in a relationship end up having good feelings. I think someone said that you should buy stocks when the stock price is relatively low compared to its future potential.

  • Answer date: 2024/03/19 07:30
Female member

Ryo

There are certainly men who write about it,
Will that person make an offer to me?
Another thing.

I think you should think about it after you receive the offer.

In my experience, compared to people who write such things,
When we actually met, I was told that I was a cheapskate, so was it okay to treat me like this? It was even more difficult for me to be told such a low price.

When I get an offer, I have to accept it and meet you.
Because I don't know what kind of person he is,
I don't think that's what I'm concerned about.

  • Answer date: 2024/03/19 14:57

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