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Question date: 2024/02/24 15:04

I'm a beginner. I wanted to find a lover, so I tried dating sites, etc., but it didn't work out, so I decided to try being a dad, even though money might be involved.
However, as I move forward with my activities, I'm worried that I might become jealous and find it difficult to find out that my partner has a father other than mine. I understand that you shouldn't get too involved in your life as a father, but don't you all feel that way?
This may be a naive question, but I would like to hear from experienced seniors about how you organize your feelings.

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Kazu

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I'm not jealous.
As long as he is thinking about sorting out his feelings, I think he is clinging to the position of being his only relationship partner.

I believe that if you want to be in the position of being your only partner, you need to at least get married and promise to take care of your partner for the rest of your life.
The minimum is because even if a man and a woman are married, they may have relationships with people of the opposite sex other than their marriage partner.

In order for people to expect that minimum, men must not die before women, or at least men must be the same age or younger than women.

Also, when it comes to meeting someone at a dating club, you start out with very low expectations that they won't cheat on you or get divorced.
I also believe that you must be attractive enough to overcome this and enter into a relationship with enough sincerity and behavior to earn his trust.

In short, I believe that in order to be jealous that your partner is dating someone else, you need the qualifications to be jealous.
If you're looking for a mutual partner who won't make you jealous, it's a mistake to use dating sites or dating clubs, and I think it's better to go to a marriage consultation agency.

  • Answer date: 2024/02/24 15:20
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It's My

Something that hasn't even happened yet
Worried or anxious
It's a waste of time and emotion.

Let's try it out for now.
Improve depending on the results
Try to make it even better.

“I don’t mind if money intervenes.”
Let's update that way of thinking.

Even if the other person is your wife or girlfriend
The man pays for the date
Will you give me money too?

And not “lover”
"An important companion"

It would be better if you thought like that
It's a good experience
I don't feel any jealousy

It's My

  • Answer date: 2024/02/24 15:28
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Paper

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There are many men and women who naturally fall in love with each other even though they are trying to become fathers.

If you want to do the activities you want, not only women but also fathers will usually be popular people.

Even through money, the generosity and the way the feelings are conveyed can be more important than the size of the amount. In terms of relationships, it's even bigger.

As I read the article, I think it's possible to have a relationship without feeling anxious about it.

  • Answer date: 2024/02/24 16:00
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Die

I don't think jealousy will arise if you are confident that you are the other person's best.

It's not that difficult to be the best among dads who have a lot of women.

There are many fathers who are self-destructing.

Behave like a gentleman, don't do things that the other person doesn't like, and give them a fair allowance, these are enough to get you into the top ranks.

Also, don't have the feelings of wanting a lover.

If the person asking the question is wealthy, please meet him/her many times a month.

If you give the allowance properly, the other woman may start to like you.

In the world of dad-hunting, it's fine if a woman likes you and they start a romantic relationship, but it's a disgusting and out-of-place idea for a man to want her to be his girlfriend.

By the way, in my case, I don't really want a lover.

To avoid getting closer than necessary, I try to have a relationship with one woman at most once a month.

Even when we parted ways, it was refreshing.

  • Answer date: 2024/02/24 16:07

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