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    I recently registered for a club and have one date scheduled for the week after next.
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Question date: 2023/11/16 22:25

Regarding allowance negotiations for relationship type B2.
I recently registered for a club and have one date scheduled for the week after next.
I thought I would be nervous going straight to the hotel with someone I was meeting for the first time, so I decided to change my relationship type to B2.

While reading the question box, I came across several posts about people who ended up going on long dates for a lower allowance than they had hoped for.

This is my first time registering on a site like this, so this may be a silly question.
For relationship type B2, it was explained to me that ``the first time is for dinner, and if it seems impossible to have an adult relationship the next time, I will decline the second time.'' In this case, it is best to negotiate allowances during the first meeting. Is it the best?

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Harupiko

I agree.Basically, when we meet for the first time, we think that you should also discuss future conditions.Of course, if you can't decide yet, I think you should let him know.I also think it's best to be as detailed as possible.How much for a meal, how much for a meal plus an adult, etc.

In the case of B2, even if you don't think there will be a next time, you can just decide on the conditions and not make plans for the next time.I think it takes courage to refuse someone face-to-face, so I think the polite thing to do is to pretend you like them.
The advantage of this dating club is that you can both choose your partner freely, so I think you should take full advantage of it without worrying too much.

  • Answer date: 2023/11/17 00:14
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flag maker

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If the man asks about the conditions when we meet, I'll talk about it on the spot.If you haven't done so, please check on line later.

① I really want to date Takao ② That's why I want to know the conditions.The order is better.This is because there are a certain number of men who shrink back if they hear the conditions first.

If you think it's impossible to start dating, I think it's better to go out on a line for a while and then suddenly see someone unread about XNUMX weeks later. ``I can't date you'' will hurt, and a lie like ``I've quit being a dad after all'' will hurt even more.

Most old men are troublesome and delicate creatures that wither and get hurt quickly, so treat them with care and wrap them in your arms.

  • Answer date: 2023/11/17 07:43
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Nana Ayase

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It's a dating club.

For relationship type B2, it was explained to me that ``the first time is for dinner, and if it seems impossible to have an adult relationship the next time, I will decline the second time.'' In this case, it is best to negotiate allowances during the first meeting. Is it the best?
☆If you don't like B or C, please decline.
But... if you think you can improve him even a little, then arrange to meet him a second time, and if you use LINE a few times before the next meeting, you should be able to discern the man.
There will be a lot of offers at first, but there is a high possibility that you won't receive any offers after that, so if you think you can grow your business, make sure to take advantage of each offer one by one.

  • Answer date: 2023/11/17 07:03
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date ◎ dream

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It's good to do it for the first time.
Dating at a dating club is a contracted relationship, so I think it's a good idea to decide on the terms carefully before dating.
If you have been dating for a long time, you may want to reconsider your original contract, but at that time, you should be flexible in your decision since you are already getting along well with each other.

However,
It's a good idea to think about various things and negotiate and set the terms so that it doesn't end with just the initial inspection.

  • Answer date: 2023/11/16 22:34
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Die

If you're going on your first date the week after next, I'm sorry to say that I don't think she's that popular.

In that case, it is best to avoid negotiating allowances from the woman's side.

Unless the man treats you extremely badly, the first thing to do is to consider continuing.

If you are dissatisfied with the amount of time you are required to work or the amount of your allowance, we recommend that you wait until you have received offers from several people and then renegotiate, being prepared to cut the deal or part ways.

  • Answer date: 2023/11/17 20:43
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Paper

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I think it's best for both men and women to speak in their own style to avoid mismatches.

The timing will change depending on whether you place emphasis on the allowance or the relationship.

From the text of your question, it seems like you are the type of person who puts emphasis on allowances, so I think it would be best if you spoke clearly from the first day.

I think this will help prevent mismatches between men and women.


In my case, we never talked about allowances until we reached adulthood, and when our children have been together for many years, we never talk about allowances or decide on the amount even after they become adults.

I think you can see the compatibility with each other by the timing and the way you speak.



  • Answer date: 2023/11/17 14:00
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Joe Rubicon

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When Mr. Flag Maker pointed out that many old men have sensitive nerves that are like glass, I was struck hard.However, my opinion is that you don't have to take off your pants under any circumstances unless you agree with the person asking the question.
 Personally, I think the club's classification of relationship types is extremely dangerous.This is because in some cases, it strongly suggests managed prostitution or prostitution brokering.
Perhaps under the guidance of a legal advisor?It seems to be carefully managed.However, for example, in the explanation of "B2", I think that "Please refuse if you don't want to do it a second time" means "Please take off your pants the second time."My interpretation, as an amateur when it comes to the law, is that this falls under solicitation of prostitution.
I've written a lot of things, but I'll give top priority to the wishes of the person asking the question!

 I'm going to write this here, but if you take off your pants and receive an allowance, you won't be caught because there are no penalties, even if the other person is unspecified.But is there a clear definition of managed prostitution or prostitution recruitment?I would like to point out that there are penalty provisions.
Many girls were arrested in Okubo Park not for engaging in prostitution with an unspecified number of people, but for soliciting touts in public places.
So let's talk about allowances in a low voice.

  • Answer date: 2023/11/18 09:17

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