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Question date: 2023/07/11 10:23

Currently, I am meeting with several regulars who were introduced to the club.All of them are married and in their 3s to 40s.
I haven't told Mr. Regular yet, but I have a boyfriend in his 1s who has been dating for a year.I got acquainted naturally with the introduction of an acquaintance, not a club.Of course it has nothing to do with money.I'm worried about the age difference between me and him, so I'd like to talk to you about romance.
So, I would like to ask regulars who are close in age to him for advice on romance.
Or would you be happy to be asked for love advice?
Also, do you expect your boyfriend to be in your 20s?
Right now, of course, he is the most important thing to me, and I value my relationship with him more than anything else, but I don't want to ruin my relationship with regulars.
The guy I'm currently dating is single and has a striking face and personality.

  • gender female
  • Age: 20s
  • Member: Universe Female Member
  • Member ID: 71414
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question answerAnswers: 6

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Kazu

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No matter what you think, what you think will depend on each person's daily relationship, the content of the consultation, and the way you talk.

Personally, when I hear about my boyfriend, I don't think anything about his existence, but it's just painful to hear a story that is not interesting or funny like this question.
Please imagine what you would think if your commuter called a consultation and told you about your daily life with your wife.

  • Answer date: 2023/07/11 11:16
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Fuu

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yes
If you're in your 20s, I think you can support me.
I feel jealous if I am the same generation
Or you can go out without any allowance
It is likely that there will be a misunderstanding with
as a personal opinion
better not to say
It is better to avoid consultation
I feel

  • Answer date: 2023/07/11 13:02

Joe Rubicon

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Well, it seems that it is basically NG.

It depends on the relationship, but it would be better to think that there are very few men who are broad-minded.This is just my personal opinion.

  • Answer date: 2023/07/11 22:15
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Paper

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If it's a boyfriend of the same age, those who hear it will be too shocked.that is,,,


However, well, the fact that she likes older people is not a bad factor, but...


It would be nice if we were dating in the past...


If possible, it's good to be the same age as the woman or close to it.

Or, when he showed me a picture, I was a little relieved that he wasn't good-looking... but, on the other hand, if I liked ugly men, I would be like that too, so I'm relieved that I'm not happy... It's complicated, isn't it? …

  • Answer date: 2023/07/11 16:25
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Akari


If you think about it normally, it will be unpleasant

Papas want to play a man who has a lot of leeway and understanding,
something like
There's no way it's good

Personally, I don't understand the nerve to give love advice to my dad.


At the very least, I think it's good etiquette in socializing not to say that you might not like it if you do it to yourself.



Akari

  • Answer date: 2023/07/12 04:52
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Yo-san

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First of all, I would like to tell you that the love of the questioner is yours alone.When the regulars find out that the questioner is in love with a man of the same age, they may feel jealous.However, the feelings are their own, and they in no way limit the questioner's right to pursue his or her own happiness.

If the questioner wants to give love consultations to regular people, that's no problem at all.However, their reaction may change depending on the content of the consultation and the way it is communicated.Please proceed with caution here.

Their own speculations and expectations may have a great influence on the age of their "boyfriend".Of course, on the surface they say they really want the questioner to be happy.However, it may not reflect all truths.But even with that in mind, I think the most important thing is that the questioner is happy with that person.

  • Answer date: 2023/07/12 08:45

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