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- Among the men I met at the dating club,
I accept the allowance because I think it will be easier for men to continue.
The ratio is 6:2...
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Question date: 2023/06/14 01:49
Among the men I met at the dating club,
I accept the allowance because I think it will be easier for men to continue.
The ratio is 6, 2, 2 in a 3:4:5 ratio
I don't want to say too much because I don't want it to end in one shot.
Both are presentations from the male side, so the relationship continues
Looking at other people's questions, some people say that even 5 is cheap, but am I selling too cheaply?
However, I am very painful for a long time,
3 will be restrained for a long time with the allowance as it is only for the allowance p
For example, 2 to 3 hours one way + hotel
Date from noon to noon the next day,
Dates from 12:0 noon to midnight
I have endured until now
Think I'm just being exploited,
When you propose to stay overnight, can I have 2 for 6 days?I didn't think about it when I suggested it.
I think the relationship ended because of this.
I have the impression that long-term restraint is common among elderly people who have too much time on their hands.
I'm old, but I can't pay much,
I am looking forward to a relationship
I don't think my allowance should increase
Travel destinations and hotels you want to visit
If you want to go even if you pay yourself
I think you don't have to increase your allowance for that.
Is it my fault that I can't grow up?
I think it's better to endure and be restrained for a long time with the allowance of 3, in the sense that it increases the possibility of becoming fat as a result.
Every time my self-affirmation matches, it will be scraped
Even just going to the hotel with an allowance of 3
It's a short time, so I think I'll go,
I think it's a gentlemanly and common sense person who will release you in about 3 hour even if it's the same 1, and a maximum of 4 hours including meals.
Don't let me negotiate allowance for long time restraint
There are people who drive stakes in advance,
Is it worth the price of 3 or more
Luxurious meals (1 yen) and sweets (within the absolute budget, never buy branded items)
Don't ask me to negotiate allowances by saying that there is no one who will let me eat like this
I feel completely exploited
I myself am not worthy of being appraised by a former gravure
However, in my experience, I don't know how daddy's financial situation is, and if I say too high hopes, I think it will be disadvantageous in the long run if I don't get repeats.
The number of people who give 4 or 5 is also small, but
I had the impression that they were all good people.
However, I'm sure it's popular with women, and I've met a lot of people other than myself, so it feels unstable.
3 is by far the most common
Even though I'm the same 3, the man who goes on a date in a gentlemanly way is really nice.
I'm in trouble with men who are tied up for a long time and don't add any allowance (because they pay for meals)
It would be nice to cut it off, but from the man's side, I don't want to miss the pj who has finally been restrained for a long time.
I think you can easily leave if you negotiate your allowance.
Every time we meet for about a year, there is a person with a 1-hour restraint allowance of 12, and even if I say that I want him to at least go back to 3 hours, he doesn't like it.
Well then, even if you give me an allowance, I'll still receive luxurious meals and sweets, so it's hard to say...
Other than that, I'm a very nice person.
Also, I have never been asked to buy a branded product.
It can't be helped because I myself don't fall in love and have a relationship like a friend
I'm sorry even if it's my birthday
It's about giving me sweets as a gift (things that can be dropped at expenses)
Is it like that?
I am giving a gift of tens of thousands of yen.
I haven't experienced anything like the dream of being a dad...
It's just a luxurious meal that you can afford
Is it okay not to ask?
To be honest, I have a main business, so I can buy it independently to some extent, so that may not be the case...
I have only met people who are called thin daddy in the world.
For black members, 5 each time 1-2 per month
3 each time, about 1 a month...
Even if you give me a present of 5 to 10 yen
ran away before my birthday lol
You said you don't want any presents from me
I think it's because I'm not in love, but...
Is it true that girls in the world are bubbly?
I doubt too much...
- gender female
- Age: 20s
- Member: Universe Female Member
- Member ID: 45757
- Who should answer: Anyone
iine
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question answerAnswers: 2
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Male member
Taro
At that rate, you'll keep losing, not just in dating clubs, but in any world. . .
It is better to discuss the terms and conditions.Doing what the other person says is one strategy, but don't forget that it's your own choice.It is absurd to continue to give up everything from yourself and then blame the other party for being “exploited”.
Even if you say that you should insist on what you insist on, your negotiation skills seem to be hopelessly low. . .
First of all, the 6:2:2 composition of the allowance means that there are 5 men in a relationship, right?Let's cut those who are in a condition that can't be endured soon.As far as I can see from what you wrote, there are still some people left.That's the first step.
Next, let's do our best to acquire new. It's not bad that I got offers from more than 5 people, so if I do my best, I can still go.So, if you start a relationship with a new person, at least one thing you want to say.It is a good idea to think about the conditions that the other party is likely to swallow out of your wishes and present them. You can do it if you have the power of observation to notice the opponent's tactics, such as "I don't want you to say this."It's good to read Yu Sato's "Negotiation Technique".
By the way, I don't think the frequency of meeting once a month doesn't stick to the other person.I think it's unavoidable because I have a strong impression of being divisive, but if there is a man you enjoy meeting normally, you may be able to keep the frequency of meeting high if you actively try to build a good relationship.If it sticks too much, it will move away, or it will come and go at first, but this is also an experience, so please try it.Skills are developed through experience.
It's true that if the allowance is low, the power to continue will work even if something happens, so I don't think it's bad to face a good-looking man with a asking price strategy.I've been with a woman with an allowance of XNUMX for XNUMX years.I don't exploit.The woman is Yamauchi, who has a "Kamaitachi" personality, and if she complains, she will complain, so she won't be in a relationship that exploits her.As an aside, when I talk about this, I'm told that I'm a woman like the comedian "Yasuko", but I don't look alike, so I look like Yuki Koyanagi.I'm sorry, I didn't hear you.She just wanted a joke, hi!
Taro
- Answer date: 2023/06/14 02:50
iine
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Male member
Paper
Aren't you sensitive to sex?
I think men are less satisfied.
From the male side, I've become a partner who doesn't care when I break up.
As long as we don't get better physically, we'll have no choice but to keep doing that with a number of dads without increasing the number of times we see each other.
Unless you make fundamental improvements, you will continue to be dissatisfied with your own time and allowance, while the other party's satisfaction will continue to be low.
- Answer date: 2023/06/14 03:18
iine
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