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Question date: 2023/04/06 22:46

It's not this club, but there's a papa I met four days ago for the first time.We had a meal, but we got along well and had a lively conversation.

Papa's birthday was a week after we met, and he said he didn't have any plans, so I told him on the spot, "If you don't mind, why don't we go out for dinner again? Please let me celebrate."

However, the day after we met, I received a message saying, "I'm thinking about ending the relationship because you're attractive enough to fall in love with me."

I really liked him, so I told him that I would be sad to say goodbye like this, and promised to go to dinner with him on his birthday.

Then, this time, he replied, "It's a little bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit.

Is it better to say, "I don't need any help because it's my dad's birthday!"?
I want to continue my relationship with Papa, so that's fine, but I wonder if I want to cut the relationship for some reason, such as being disappointing.I think.

How should I respond to Daddy?
Sorry for the long post, but thank you for reading, I look forward to your reply.

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Female member

Akari


You look like a pretty mean man. .

I don't need any allowance from you!want to see
I just want to draw out the words

If you really fall in love,
I will do my best to support you and not let you go.


Akari

  • Answer date: 2023/04/07 12:31
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Aya

"It's a little bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of

But if you like him, why don't you meet him on his birthday without any allowance?

I think that we should think about future relationships depending on how dad comes out next.

  • Answer date: 2023/04/07 00:06
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Maezawa (Staff)

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>He was a person who liked it quite a bit

I think it's better to judge whether you want to meet even if you don't get money.

the other man is already
"I'm debating whether to end the relationship because she's so attractive that I might fall in love with her."
So, I've been telling you that I want a relationship without money.

This line means that if you don't have money, you want to go out with him, but if you have money, you won't see him.

And it seems that the questioner did not understand that this was the only thing, so furthermore
"It's a little bit like paying an allowance to meet on your birthday..."
And again, I'm saying that I want to go out without paying money.
This time I'm telling you a little more clearly than the first time.

It doesn't matter if it's your birthday
If you want to use it without any allowance in the future, if you want money, look for someone else.
is what it means.

So is it still okay?
The answer changes there.

If you were looking for Daddy, you should give up and look for someone else.
If you want to date without paying
I think it would be nice to go out with you without paying

It's free love, so it's up to you to decide.

  • Answer date: 2023/04/07 00:29
Male member

Fullerene

Fullerene!


Well, first of all, is that birthday real?
Looking at it from a different perspective, it might be someone whose birthday always comes a week after the first meeting.
(And aim for a relationship without allowance without breaking it...)

If I were the questioner
"Well, at least on my birthday, I want to meet someone really important to me. I don't mind before or after that!"
I will throw a slightly twisted reply and see the reaction.

Even though it only happened once, I feel that both the man and the person asking the question were too excited...

Next time you go out without an allowance,
There's about a XNUMX% chance that you'll be forced into it.


In that respect, women in the universe are safe because there is no birthday fraud!smile

  • Answer date: 2023/04/07 02:22
Female member

Misato

The purpose of joining the dating club is with allowance
If you are in a relationship
"Sorry, I'm in a paid relationship.
I hope to
I think it's good to say.

"favorite"
"like very much"
"Compatible"
And so on, while saying a lot, I'm a dad
There are men who try to date without any allowance.

It was especially common in apps, but unfortunately
I am also in the dating club.
For such a person, a relationship with a proper allowance
Tell what you want and start dating from there
If you think about it, you won't be deceived, right?



  • Answer date: 2023/04/07 04:56
Male member

adventure merchant

The questioner probably liked the other man, but to be honest, I think the other man didn't really like it.

I think he felt guilty about turning down a man when a woman was interested in him and said something like, "You're attractive enough to fall in love with me...".

And if you really like women,
Seeing you on your birthday and congratulating you on your birthday is in itself a wonderful gift for a man, so you may even want to give him a bigger allowance than usual in return.

Since it's my birthday, I don't want to pay...
It's like being told, "I don't like you."

By the way, my birthday is my partner's birthday, so I feel like we celebrate each other (I also give my allowance)

Also, when I asked my boyfriend, "What do you want for a Christmas present?"
I was happy when he told me, "I don't need any allowance, but I want you to meet me one more time this month. The time we meet is the best Christmas present for me."

  • Answer date: 2023/04/07 14:30
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Mac

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"Severity" Scale
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(XNUMX) I am provoking the respondent because I want them to pay attention to me, (XNUMX) I have no malice, but I want to chat because I am free, (XNUMX) I want you to quickly tell me because I am too lazy to do my own research or contact the branch office, (XNUMX) Simple questions, (XNUMX) Serious and really worried (severity increases in the order of ① → ⑤)
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⑤.

I wrote "Papa-san", but saying "I don't think it's a good idea to pay for your birthday to meet..." on the second date is not Papa-san.
If you get paid, you are "Papa".
I'm not saying the man is a bad person.I'm sure there's an age difference, but normally men and women dating shouldn't need to exchange money in the first place.Talk about doing it with a matching app like Tinder.
Thinking about the opposite, what would you think if there was a girl trying to use Tinder to get money from a man as a daddy?Or imagine a guy trying to pick up a hooker on a dating app.Can you say marriage fraud?
That's why the man is a dad scammer who is not a marriage scam.He's a bad guy after all.

> "I'm thinking about ending the relationship because she's attractive enough to make me fall in love with her."
With this in mind, I wonder if there are girls who continue to do so, and they aren't attractive or attractive.I'm an absolute liar.
But women are happy and believe in such blatant phrases.I use it sometimes too.
Or, the man doesn't like the questioner that much, and when he declines an arranged marriage meeting, it's the same thing as saying, "It's a wasteful story for us." It may be a similar story to "It's a little bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of a bit of". It may be that they only like me to the extent that it's okay to meet them if it's free.

  • Answer date: 2023/04/06 23:51
Male member

Taro

If you can accept it, I think "I don't need an allowance because it's my birthday" is good.

I don't think men want to cut the relationship because it's not what they expected.There is a lot of interest, no doubt about it.If you think about it further on that premise, there are two possibilities. I think it's the latter at 3:7.Well, both of them are troubled people (laughs)

If you can build a good relationship, it's the latter, but in order to have a good relationship with the latter, there are two steps: (1) ascertain that you are the latter, and (2) train yourself to pay an allowance even if you like it. will become necessary. I think that (2) can be understood naturally if you meet, but you need to talk properly about (1). Even if you don't say "I like you," it's important to tell them that you really like them, but you also need money. If you can bring it to "Can't you help a woman who likes you as a man?", you win.

Depending on the man's situation, it may take quite a while.It can sometimes feel like an argument.But if you're both serious enough to quarrel, you'll definitely have a long and good relationship.And the fact that we met without any allowance, whether it was because it was my birthday or not, is powerful and drives a big wedge into a man's heart.The man's anxiety is "Even if you say you like it, it's still money after all." (1) and (2) are not separate, and a man who cannot say yes to (2) is synonymous with (1), the former.I think it's a game where you keep applying that pressure to make them swallow (2), or rather, convince them (that's why I used the expression "discipline").So, if you can afford it, you should cut the card.

If we met 4 days ago and a week later, it would be around 4/9 (Sunday).Isn't it already 2,3-XNUMX days later?Even so, there is a lot of pulse in each other at the point that we talk about it without filling up our schedule (laughs).That's why I want you to push forward.If it doesn't work out, I'm writing with the feeling that I'll buy Jojoen full course with Mr. Flag.I don't know (laughs)


Taro

  • Answer date: 2023/04/07 00:55
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flag maker

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If it doesn't turn out as expected, you can blame me.

If it is a property that can be rented, the deposit key money is obvious.If it's a good property, think of it as a security deposit and key money without any allowance.

Now is the time to push.So, you should withdraw after the other person likes you more.Now is not the time to pull.


...if it doesn't turn out as you expected, just yell "shit flag maker! die!"

  • Answer date: 2023/04/06 23:35
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Kazu

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② I don't think that what is good is something that other people have an opinion about.
For those who can't think or judge for themselves, it would be too much fun to have an allowance dating.

Addendum.
When I explained why I thought this was number XNUMX, it seemed like the usual trick of getting respondents to criticize men.In that case, it is XNUMX.

  • Answer date: 2023/04/06 23:43
Male member

date ◎ dream

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Don't be swayed by words alone!

It would be good if you can achieve the purpose according to the registration motivation.

that is,
You don't have to pay!
Then
That's fine.

  • Answer date: 2023/04/07 08:12
Female member

Nana Ayase

Birthday in a week... I think it's the man's usual line

do you believe that?

Even though we only met once?I trust you too much

That's right, even though we've only met once...
Spend your birthday with the person who matters most to you

I look forward to hearing from you when I have time
Please LINE
The questioner's value goes down.

  • Answer date: 2023/04/07 15:22
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Paper

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Did you just not like it?

I feel like the person who asked the question only liked one of them.


Probably, the man was shocked (disappointed) at the moment they met, and since it was from the beginning, there was no change in the situation, so I think the woman just didn't notice.

From a man's point of view, I think it's positioned below keep and hold.

Maybe I wanted to go home the moment I met you. (However, I changed it as a place to practice, and I tried to spend time in a lively mood without showing my facial expressions. Then, even though I was planning to do it that day, the woman got excited like in the question and said that it was a good match. When I receive a message that looks happy, I sometimes think, "Huh?" Surprisingly.)


In that case, it's depressing to see you after a week.At least, you may feel like opening it for a month. (Because I can't refuse it as a promise on the spot)

  • Answer date: 2023/04/07 21:43
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Fuu

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it's not the club here
because there are no rules

the male side
Seeking unpaid dating
People who want to grow up without allowance
I think

the questioner
If you are good enough to be a sefre
I wish I could keep dating

  • Answer date: 2023/04/08 00:47

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