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This is Nonta, a male member.

I think it's difficult to conclude an encounter at a dating club.
I think that both the person who sends the farewell message and the person who receives it will pay attention to it.

In my case, I've never been suddenly blocked.

It's often the case that I've lost contact with them, and when I suddenly remember and contact them, I don't get a reply from the other party.

In the past, there was only one person who told me, "There are various circumstances, and it is difficult to meet for a while."
Thank you so much.I was a little relieved.

When you're ready to say goodbye, I hope you'll send a message, don't chase each other too much, and end by saying thank you to each other.

• Answer date: 2019/05/18 13:50

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This is Mr. Saito, a column writer.

Your feedback was very helpful.
I used to be the "thank you" type too.

Gradually, the atmosphere of men and women living as dads changes.
"why?"
"If that's the reason, I'll fix it."
"Nevertheless, please meet again."

I feel that the so-called "persistent opposite sex" has increased.
There's no aesthetics, no fluff.


I became very scared.


So I had no choice but to deal with the block/no contact.


If it's a humble interaction where you can respect each other, you can say anything,
I can break up with a nice relationship



Manners can only be established with people who have names.




Sorry for my personal affairs lately,
Two women who have been together for five years are now getting married to a non-celebrity man.smile
(If you want to continue, you can continue, but we parted beautifully as a break.)



"Let's meet again someday"

"Maybe we'll meet."



It was an exchange of smiles when parting.

Of course, I don't think we will meet.

• Answer date: 2019/05/19 07:40

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This is Mac, a column writer.

Aesthetics of parting?
It's aesthetics, so it's about how to part beautifully.
Hmm...
I'm sorry, through private and club activities, I have never experienced a beautiful breakup.
In terms of preparedness, it is better to have the feeling that you will never see this person again for today, and try to date with the feeling of farewell for this life and give allowances. Is not it?
It's a once-in-a-lifetime chance, and it's only natural that we'll never see each other again. If you keep going on dates while reminding yourself that, even if one day you don't hear from each other, it won't hurt much.
Don't take it for granted that we'll meet again next time.
It's like the Bushido rule of dying in the morning and dying in the evening (laughs).
Aesthetics, after all, is not a form, but something in the person's heart.I think that shapes and manners are nothing more than means to make it easier to create that mind.

• Answer date: 2020/02/17 10:59

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The aesthetics of parting... it's difficult.

The ideal is different for each person, but there is a farewell story, and then we go to the hotel at the end.
This is the last time, goodbye.
I think there is also

Even if it doesn't go that far, I think it's good to exchange words directly at the end and say goodbye.

However, usually, the person who decided to say goodbye often thinks that there is no point in meeting.
I think there are times when you say goodbye just by sending a message.

I think there is also the fact that we have lost contact.
It may be difficult to say goodbye properly as long as one of them has cooled down.


>Is the natural annihilation of no contact the best and most logical way to say goodbye?

I don't think so.
Also, I happen to hear a lot about people who have lost contact with women.
I think women are more likely to lose contact.

But isn't there some people who say goodbye properly?

• Answer date: 2019/05/17 22:34

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This is Date ◎ Yume, a male member.


I thought, "This is a good question!", so I told the registered branch that I wanted to answer, and they were able to answer.


I get the feeling that the woman who asked the question is someone who has a fulfilling relationship.


Actually, when I say goodbye, I am also a group of people who want to be like that.

In order to do so, I think it will be difficult if each other's thoughts are not the same.



While confirming the conditions for breaking up with each other, whether it is divisive or serious,
It is important to have a relationship while exchanging candid opinions with a feeling of gratitude of "thank you" to each other.



Wouldn't it be a relationship where you can say "thank you" without losing contact when you say goodbye?

I am dating you with that in mind. (I'm sorry that I just joined recently and haven't said goodbye yet.)

I believe that the way you say goodbye is the way you get to know each other.

Even if you can't say "thank you", keep in mind the "prohibition of chasing".

Can we finish with an email?I got blocked (laughs).

In any case, I think that it can be a detonator to change the "natural disappearance of no contact" by going from someone who thinks so.

• Answer date: 2019/05/21 01:03

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