Thinking from the hustle and bustle of dating clubs

Type fraud (Huh? It stinks and disgusting. Did you choose it? Isn't it?

I don't want to have sex unless I'm raw all the time

Doing ○○ at ○○ is my tendency, so I think it's only natural that I should be respected... (Maybe you're just putting up with money for about half of it? Isn't your opponent's patience reaching its limit?)

I want to spend as little money as possible on a date and go out with you (After a few minutes of conversation, a disappointing aura is oozing out. I can see that you don't have a positive aura of wanting to enjoy each other as much as possible! You're a gentleman. You're lying, aren't you? Look at your whole body in the mirror and then tell me!)


It's an adult social gathering place, so the real purpose is each person.

To be honest, I didn't know his personality as soon as I met him.However, sincerity is transmitted to each other whether it is true or not, no matter how you direct it.


It's already a sexual crime because it hurt my heart (including things I didn't consent to) when I thought I was running away from a woman.

The type scam that men say in dating clubs doesn't exist in true principle.

I didn't accept it and complained that it was a type fraud, and I was reluctant to accept it, because I acted without my sincere consent."Hurtful Sex Crime" .

Dating clubs don't want men who aren't gentlemen like the above.

A woman who takes advantage of a gentleman's heart to commit exploitative fraud is also a dating business criminal.


The conclusion is "It is a social gathering place only when the heart goes through'
 

The cause of war (disputes) is to force black and white

I have consistently believed that "words and deeds" and "actions" named "justice" based on biased, one-sided thinking must be the factors that lead to "war".

In general, it can be said that "we need to look at things from as many different angles as possible", but in an advanced information society where it is possible to search and select only things that interest us, we need to be more careful until we reach the source of information. be judged.

Even if there is a degree of interest due to interest, rather than "I can live without knowing", I will greedily research and listen to various points at key points and carefully examine them so that I do not make wrong decisions based on principles. I want to conclude that it's not good to force black and white decisions right away.


As an example

Hate speech

hate speech

Hate expression...


From an ethical point of view, we cannot afford to close our eyes at all because it is a sensitive issue, but it may be that we need to remain gray rather than black and white.

"Adults know a lot of grays that children don't know'


There is a word that I heard directly from a person who was rumored to be devious and had successively held the top position of a large political organization.

"There are far more grays in the world than whites and blacks.You don't seem to knowRemember.'

I was in my twenties at the time, so I was just making up gray ways to move around in an adult-made society, right?I was listening with a feeling close to negative.


"I think I understand a little bit now'
 

The meaning of writing a private column

I hope that Japan will continue to be a country that does not engage in war, does not interfere, does not get involved, and can continue to spread peace to the world forever.

If God exists, I myselfhow are youI am sure you will say that.smile


"People turn their backs on what they don't like.That's why I have to remember it over and over again.'

We must not pretend to forget "precious life", so we need to be "prepared to accept" various things even if it is painful for a while.

If the world continues to be so peaceful that you can really forget about it, the day will come when you won't remember it.

Until such a day comes, if I can keep writing the column in some way...
 

hope for everyone

To the men and women reading this column, I hope that you will spend a few hours in a respectful way so that each person you meet will be treated with love and "respect for the individual" and that it will be an "important meeting place." I would like to make my own wish as "Prayer for peace in the first year of Reiwa."

It's only a short time in my life, but I'm going to write a column on my own while thinking about various things.

I decided to let go of my own stereotypes and study sex education and current family problems again.

And I think it would be nice if I could earn some knowledge and use it in my social life.
 

one of the people i respect

Mother Teresa

"Agnesa/Antigona Gonja Boyaj" (*Aromanian), "Agnes Gonja Boyaj" (Albanian).


People are irrational, unethical, and selfish.

Love people without worrying about them. (Full text omitted)

Guns and cannonballs shouldn't rule the world.

It is love that rules the world. (omitted)

The world is more hungry for love and gratitude than it is for food.

God doesn't want us to succeed.

I just want a challenge. (Quoted from Wikipedia, etc.)
 

The dating club is a place to think about sex education for adults

It's really nice to meet you.

I would appreciate it if adult men and women could meet immature young men and women politely and carefully.


As we all know, the young men and women of the "young generation" are still weak.

They are both men and women, and as I mentioned earlier, you may meet people who don't know manners because they weren't in an environment where they were educated.

It's also a social study for adults, and there's sure to be someone you can talk to when you're in trouble.

"I'm in trouble.""I'm in trouble.'


However, adults don't easily show their emotions even if something incomprehensible happens on a date.

Because of the knowledge gained through various experiences and the ability and wisdom to make careful judgments, there is no need to show emotions.

For that reason, eating and talking alone can be a little confusing, and we can't understand each other just a little softly.

From there, I want to know more about the deep side of the other person as soon as possible, so I wonder if adult men and women who are running out of time left in their lives need sex that is different from the reproductive purpose they had when they were young. .
 

Premonition of Farewell ~My Precious Love~

(For those who are going to be a dad from now on)

People in their teens and twenties may be allowed to do many things just because their bodies are "young".


In a dating club way, my dad understood everything.

"I'm no match for Daddy.'

I met a wonderful dad.

"Meeting you was the greatest gift of my life'


As I got older, I gradually became more discerning.

It became sentimental like the long autumn nights that are about to come, and my tear glands have completely weakened.

"Someday my dad will leave first... I'm kind of lonely.'


Young people, please take care of the elderly.

I believe that the day will surely come when you will also understand the "premonition of parting" in the near future.smile


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