Hello everyone.

The rainy season is here and the humid weather continues, but how are you doing?

It's already mid-June, and I'm thinking, 'I'll be back in 6.'
It's these days that I can't hide my surprise at how quickly time passes (=how quickly I get old) (laughs)

During the rainy season, I tend to be lazy and not feel well.
Even though I'm a shut-in, I'm trying to use my time as effectively as possible, so I'm working hard to write a column article.

Also, there are many books that I bought and haven't read,
As well as writing the column, I've been working hard on reading, and I've been able to digest it little by little.
This time, I would like to arrange a little bit of what I read in such a book and convey it to everyone.

Do you have such a situation when you are working as a dad?

"Where do you live?"
"Let's do 〇〇 next time!"
"Thank you for the fun date today♡"

That's right, troublesome to be asked and troublesome to be told!

I think it's a problem that doesn't run out even after a long relationship, not to mention the first date.

If you answer without thinking carefully,
Personal information is known to the other party, and the serious love daddy turns into a stalker,
There are many risks, such as hurting your daddy's mood and getting into a fight, and the worst parting.

So that's what I think.

“A good talker controls dad life” When.

The fact that daddy girls are in trouble because they ask the same questions every time on their first date,
The other party's dad is asking the same question to many girls.

In other words, with that one reply, the comparison with other Papa-katsu-joshi has already started.

So this time, a certain story for each situation,
I will show you how to reply and make a good impression!

Answer questions you don't want to answer!

"Where do you live?"
×BAD answer　　"I don't want to say it."　
◎Good answer　"I can't tell you the details, but it's the area of ​​〇〇." "Where is 〇〇-san?"

≪Explanation≫　
Like a bad answer, if you don't want to say anything and don't say anything, it's a bad impression,
On the other hand, it is a risky and scary reply to tell you specifically without thinking about anything.

In such a case, while expressing an apologetic atmosphere, saying, "I can't tell you the details,"
I think there will be no problem if you just tell us the general feeling of the area.

Also, it is important to ask about the living area of ​​the other party at that time!
At the same time as expressing the attitude "I'm interested in you",
You can also talk about restaurants in the area,
Be cautious and not go in private other than dad activities, etc.
It can be very useful for future relationships.

If you don't want to go, you should answer like this!

"Let's go to XX next time" "Let's go on a hotel date on XX"
×BAD answer　　"I'm not interested, so I don't want to go."
◎Good answer　"Thank you for inviting me! But I'm not good at 〇〇..."

≪Explanation≫
If you say something like a bad answer, it gives a strong impression of "I refuse" and gives a cold impression.

In such a case, before telling the reason or intention of refusal,
First of all, it is very important to put a cushion of gratitude and gratitude for inviting me.

It's okay, I'm not really happy with the invitation, so I can decline it.
Anyway, as long as you have the technique (= paraphrasing) to firmly refuse without making a corner,
No matter how many times I'm invited, I should be able to change it every time (laughs)

If you say, "I've been refusing every time and I'm running out of excuses,"
Conversely, it is also effective to make suggestions from here.

"You said that you've been tired lately, so would you like to go on a date with 〇〇?"
"I'm curious about the 〇〇 shop I saw on TV the other day, and I'd like to go with 〇〇. How about that?"

By making a proposal from here, you can show your willingness to associate and date,
You can casually convey your preferences, and it will also give you hints to reduce invitations that you are not reluctant to make.

When the line from dad is persistent, you should reply like this!

"I ate 〇〇 today (with photo)" "I want to flirt with 〇〇 as soon as possible♡ (Infinite rally)"
×BAD answer　　"That's right!" "(Send only stamps, right)"
◎Good answer　"Looks delicious! I'm hungry too."

≪Explanation≫
LINE that looks like a diary from my dad, and LINE that never ends...
Isn't it one of the troubles of dad active girls in a common situation?

Papa has goodwill and loneliness and is on LINE,
It would be a shame to give you a boring and curt reply!
It may be a little troublesome, but it is better to suppress the feeling of disgust and return it with the same tension.

"It looks delicious! Actually, I'm busy today and I haven't eaten yet..."
You can also show your affection by saying, "Mr. XX likes XX, remember!"

Also, if you feel that it is time to get back to you after receiving endless messages, or if you want to go back to your studies,
Why don't you create a reason to stop using LINE by saying things like "I'm going to drive" or "It's dangerous to use my smartphone while walking"?

Or, "It's already XNUMX o'clock! Talking to Mr. 〇〇 goes by so quickly. I'm sorry I'm late."
It's also good to stop by saying, "It's my fault for not noticing."

Furthermore, the next time we met, he said, "It's just a continuation of what happened last time."
If you can make the appeal you remembered, there is nothing more to say!

What do you think?

There are still many situations that I couldn't introduce, so I would like to write a sequel someday.

If you have any questions such as "I'm having trouble with this situation or question", please let me know in the comments.
If it's okay with me, please let me help you solve it!

Let's all become good talkers and have a fun and stress-free life as a dad♪

See you in the next column.

Kazuha