Kazuha can't hide her surprise at the sudden change in the season, making me wonder where the season of "autumn" has gone.
It's been a while, but I would like to continue with the second part.
Use of “You look nice” and “Private photos”
Until an offer is received, women are basically in a "waiting" state.
Did you know that you can promote yourself by utilizing several functions?
This is a function that allows you to react to the profiles of men you are interested in.
You can attach comments, so it would be even better if you could add something to promote yourself.
I mentioned a few things about the man's profile, wrote about things we have in common,
Specifically, I attached a comment that appealed to me, such as ``XX-XX days are convenient for me.''
It's up to the man to get an offer right away, but at least create an opportunity to get noticed by men.
I think it's important for people to recognize you.
In addition to the profile photos taken by club staff,
This feature allows you to post multiple photos of your choice.
When I was shooting at a club, I was so nervous that I couldn't create a natural facial expression.
The problem is that I can't choose which photos to post myself.
I recommend this because you can post photos that you are satisfied with.
Also, since the “likes” from men are visualized, you can see what kind of photos will be popular.
It is also possible to understand and analyze it, so you can use it for your next profile photo shoot.
It's better than waiting for an offer all the time and getting nothing.
I think it's important to touch the eyes of men even just a little and create possibilities.
In fact, I have been using these two functions for a long time.
As for "It's wonderful," I feel like I'm probably the one who uses it the most in the club.
I was responding to various men with comments (lol)
There were several people who actually made the offer,
I also met a wonderful man who supported me for about 1 million yen in less than a year.
I also try to post about 5-6 profile photos at all times.
I was conscious of seasonal clothing (spring, summer, fall, winter), full-body photos, close-ups that show the face, and different hairstyles.
Particularly popular were full-body photos in swimsuits and bust-up photos in Japanese clothing.
Why not take advantage of it?
have an interest that appeals to men
All people tend to want to be friends with people who have the same interests as them.
The key is how much you can open up to a man at the first meeting or profile stage.
・Sports in general (mainly baseball, soccer, golf, etc.)
・Cars and motorcycles
・Mahjong, Go, and Shogi
・Gambling (*Be careful as you may lose what you bet on)
・Academic background and experience
In particular, I think sports, cars, and watches are compulsory subjects.
Fortunately, we had similar hobbies, so no matter what kind of man I met, I didn't have any trouble finding a topic to talk about.
However, there are some points you need to be careful about.
・Do not talk too passionately and in more detail than the other man.
・Be prepared to talk about how you became interested, such as "My father likes ____"
・Keep your knowledge to a level where you won't be tempted to gamble.
As long as you follow this, you won't have any trouble talking about it,
You'll be able to leave a good impression, saying, ``I think she's a good fit/she seems like a good fit.''
It doesn't matter if it's wide or shallow, keeping your antennae open to these kinds of things is also a way to become the girl of choice.
Don't forget to be considerate not only to the men but also to the club staff.
No matter how good your profile picture and content are,
I think most men don't want to meet a woman who has a bad reputation.
Comments written by past offer recipients are reflected in the star rating, so
Of course, each offer date (in other words, the first impression) is important,
Comments written by club staff also seem to be an important consideration for offers.
I've heard from men who have offered me offers in the past, and they seem to have some pretty harsh opinions.
Anyways``Tardiness and sudden cancellations for interviews and reshoots are strictly prohibited.''I think it's better to strictly adhere to that!
Also, if you take good care of your child on a daily basis, you will be able to gain trust and feel that you can entrust this child with peace of mind.
It will be easier for club staff to make recommendations to new male members.
In my personal experience, a certain man joined as a new member and was repeatedly rejected by two women to whom he had made offers.
When I was feeling despair, thinking, ``Even though I paid the membership fee, which is not cheap at all, I won't be able to meet anyone...''
It seems that he made the offer to me based on the recommendation from the staff.
There are windfall opportunities like this, so it is important to work hard and sincerely on a daily basis.
What did you think.
I think I wrote a lot of things that I thought were obvious,
Surprisingly, small, steady efforts often bear fruit when it comes to daddy activities.
Whether you have not received an offer since joining or would like to receive more offers,
I would appreciate it if you could use it as a reference.
Those who want a more detailed explanation or advice on what to do,
If you are here, please let us know in the comments and we will try our best to help you.
See you in the next column.