Hello everyone.
These days, I hope that the peak of the summer heat will soon pass.
Will you have a memorable summer this year?
I spent so much time going out to the beach and playing golf that my skin became completely charred...
In winter, I want to spend my days working on whitening my skin (lol)
The other day, I received a question from a friend who is a member of the Universe Club.
It's been several years since I registered, but I can only count the offers on one hand...
She is about the same height as me, has a cute face, and has a very nice personality.
whyI don't get any offers (= I'm not chosen by men)I tried to think about it,
I would like to write my own thoughts.
Profile photo
What do you think of the profile picture you took when registering for the club?
・Has your impression changed because you have lost weight or gained weight?
Have you ever been surprised when you met someone?
・Will your costume be able to show off your physique?
Does it look clean and free of wrinkles?
・Is the hair and makeup appropriate and not overdone?
Do you know that what your dad likes and what's popular in the world don't necessarily match?
As I mentioned in my previous column (What kind of strength do daddy-active girls need?),
It was published by the famous psychologist Albert Mehrabian.
According to the psychology law "Mehrabian law", in communication between people,
Linguistic information has a weight of 7%, auditory information has a weight of 38%, and visual information has a weight of 55%.It is said.
Meeting someone at a club basically begins by looking at their online profile.
Of course, profile content (=language information) is also important, but
more than thatProfile photos (=visual information) give a good impression.!
Once every six months, the staff confirms their intention to continue their activities, and at the same time,
I think it would be a good idea to retake your profile photo.
Don't think, ``It's too troublesome to go to the office again...'' or ``I don't need another photo shoot...''
Unless there are unavoidable circumstances, we recommend that reshooting is almost a must!
In my opinion, profile photos that are accepted by dads at dating clubs have the following characteristics:
・Neat and clean clothes like a female announcer
・If you are confident in your legs, wear a mini length, if you are confident in your chest, emphasize your chest, etc. Keep in mind the appeal points.
・Hair is not too stiff; curl it loosely or straighten just the ends.
・When it comes to makeup, choose something that suits your mood rather than following trends.
・If there is no pose specification, be aware of "HKK's rules"
(HKK law = twist, stack, tilt)
I'm sure the club will lend you costumes, but I wanted to focus on the seasonality and size, so
I brought some personal clothes and consulted with the staff to decide on the costumes for the shoot.
Also, on the club's website, profile photos of various women are published as ``Introducing Female Members.''
How about using it as a reference?
Profile content
The next most important thing after your profile photo is your profile content.
Since women can see men's profiles, I think everyone will probably nod and say, "I understand."
If the content of your profile reveals your ulterior motives, or if you write about your hopes and dislikes,
You might end up shying away from him, thinking, ``This person seems difficult, so...''
The reverse is also true.
Therefore, I think it is important for both women and men to keep their profile contents concise.
The content I actually wrote in a certain app is as follows.
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Nice to meet you, my name is 〇〇 → Self-introduction
I am from 〇〇 prefecture and am currently doing 〇〇 → Introducing my birthplace and occupation
I am active in 〇〇 and want to meet 〇〇 people → Please describe the purpose of the activity and the type of person you want to meet.
If it is around 〇〇 and around 〇〇, it will be convenient for you → Please write down the convenience such as the place and day of the week to meet.
I would be happy if you could feel free to contact me.
~~~
If you'd like to keep this basic content and add a little more information,
I think it's okay to just add things you have in common with the other person, such as hobbies and special skills, that you think can be talked about.
Your profile is just a chance to receive an offer, so
I think it's a little too concise rather than just writing about it,
It is important that you think, ``Maybe I should meet this girl'' or ``I want to get to know her a bit more!''
There are also taboo contents that you should never write about.
・I would appreciate it if you could give me about 〇〇 support → It might be a cheap sale, and it would give the impression that you are used to it.
・My life is difficult due to debt → I can only feel the smell of being squeezed from the beginning.
・We will not accept 〇〇 men → If you look at us from above, we will give you the impression that you are bossy.
Again,Your profile is just an opportunity to receive an offer.
It might be a good idea to take another look at your profile.
What do you think?
There was a lot more I wanted to write than I expected, so it ended up being longer.
I would like to divide it into two parts and deliver it to you.
The content I wrote in the first part of this time is mainly about the profile,
The club staff handles many interviews and reshoots, so
If you have any trouble or are confused about something, we recommend that you don't be shy and ask for advice.
I'm sure you'll be kind enough to answer.
In the second part, I would like to write about actions and tips other than profile.
See you again in the second part.
Kazuha
