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What is a dating club ~ How to join ~

This time we will talk about dating clubs.

I think there are people who think "What is a "dating club"?!I was one of them.

~What is a dating club?~

I heard about the dating club from a friend.

A good friend of mine was registered in a dating club, and a man he met liked her and applied for an "adult relationship" for a considerable amount of money.If you say about the salary of an executive for about a month, will it be conveyed somehow?

When I heard that, I thought, "What is that world?!What kind of world?!"

I heard about the dating club from a friend roughly eight years ago, so I remember that the word "papa katsu" had not yet been used.

In the end, the girl had a boyfriend, so she turned down the application, but I was so shocked that I did a quick search and went to the dating club to register.smile


~ To join the dating club ~

The flow of joining the dating club is to have an interview and write a hearing sheet → there is an examination → (if the examination passes) take a promotional photo for men to see. (Some photos are taken on the same day as the interview, others on different days.)

In some cases, the staff will take pictures at the office, and in other cases, they will guide you to a photo studio that is affiliated with us.

This photo shoot takes quite a while, depending on the dating club.smile

I've signed up for several dating clubs, but there have been times where I've been posed as if I were a gravure idol.smile

It was like shooting a gravure idol.smile 

If you think about it, there is also a place where you can quickly take a bust-up and the whole body.smile

Registration is now complete.By the way, not all women who have been interviewed can register.It's enough to fail in the examination.


~ What to wear when going to an interview ~

The interview is often followed by a photo shoot, so wear photo attire for your first interview.Make sure that you are aware that your makeup will be photographed.

First of all, as for clothes, I think it's good to wear tight skirts or tight knit dresses that show off your feminine body.After all, I prefer a neat and clean style to a flashy one.

If you have beautiful legs, choose shorts.To the extent that it is not obnoxious.

I think some people are not confident in their bodies, but it is not good to show too much skin from head to toe.Imagining men is important to be chosen.

Because the dating club can't meet unless a man chooses it.If you don't choose, you don't have a chance.

How you choose is important!That's why clothes and make-up are so important.I don't know the other person except the photo and profile.

Occasionally, the staff will say, "Please come dressed like you're going on a date for the photo shoot."

“Outfit for going on a date” changes depending on the age, so if you supplement it, it generally means “feminine and neat outfit”.

There are some people who don't look good in "feminine and neat clothes" (me), so let's wear clothes that convey your charm!

Even if you say that you are attractive, even if you like Lolita or Goz Lolita clothes, that is what makes you attractive!Even if you think so, don't wear it.

Older people, unfortunately, probably don't understand fashion...


~ Flow after joining ~

After the photo shoot, the staff will register you, so all you have to do is wait for the man to call you.

This is where the most difficult hurdles begin!I will wait patiently.smile

It seems that depending on the dating club, male members may be notified that "a recommended new girl has been registered."

People who met me said that's how they got in touch.

When you have just registered, there are places where the management side will recommend you by chance.

If you get a voice from a male member, you will be contacted by the dating club.

I'll send you some possible dates, so I'll let you know if you'll be able to participate and when I can meet you.

The location will be sent to you.I don't know your face at this point.

Once the date, time and place are decided, the age and occupation of the other party will be informed. (The order varies depending on the dating club, but it's generally like this.)

On the day of the event, you will be notified of the other person's phone number and will join you.

We usually meet over tea or rice.Dating clubs don't get involved in things after joining, so there are cases where it ends with a meal, and there are people who go on to become adults.

Even if you get an invitation from an adult, if you don't like it, it's okay to decline!There is absolutely no need to go out of your way.

When refusing, use words that do not offend the other party. "I just met you for the first time today..." or "I'm not feeling well..."

Please allow at least two hours for the meeting.

Transportation expenses are often handed over at the end.Male members are told to give it as transportation expenses from the dating club, so if you can't get it, the man may have forgotten it.

Try saying, "I've been asked to get it directly from the club..."

I've never failed to get one.I have received many

Most of the men in the dating club are decent.You may be nervous at first, but don't forget to smile and make a good impression!

2nd year as a dad, late 30s. In my twenties, I was No. 20 hostess in Ginza. At the age of 1, he left Ginza and had a lot of things to do, such as breaking off his engagement, and since then he has been working as a dad only for rice.

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