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[Which one are you? ] Women who know and don't know who are popular in dating clubs

A woman who knows, a woman who doesn't know...

It's sudden, but which type do you apply to when you're a daddy?

Can you give me a quick answer?


As a former staff member of a certain famous dating club, I was in charge of interviewing hundreds of women when I was active. It was either a woman who knew or a woman who didn't.


In other words, as long as you apply to either of these, you can do dad activities in an advantageous situation!


Let's tell you useful information for dating clubs and dad activities that you can never know from the thin SNS information on the street!


What is really important is whether it will lead to the second and subsequent dates

In a dating club, I think the hurdles for achieving the first date itself are not too high.

Even if you meet a rich man who you feel comfortable with, unless you have a continuous relationship after the second time (a so-called one-off date), you can't say that your dad activity is a success.

It is no exaggeration to say that XNUMX% of the first offers from men are your profile seen on the site.

However, whether or not you want to date for the second time or later depends on your overall attractiveness, which you feel when you meet and talk.

For the other man, you have to be a woman who makes you feel "I want to see you again".


What is a woman you know

Then, what kind of person is the woman who knows what I told you at the beginning?

In this article, what I mean by "a woman who understands" is

① Women themselves clearly understand that they can appeal to men with confidence

② I have a proper understanding of how men want to date

It refers to a person who

First of all, regarding ①, as a point that I can sell,

・Looks (features, style, carefulness, beautiful skin)

・Career development (educational background, work history, qualifications, dreams and goals)

These two points are mentioned.


Men have different tastes.

Some people like the double-faced and modern look, and some people are more particular about their height than their faces.

(At dating clubs, there are many offers especially for women over XNUMX cm)

There are men who want to meet women who are studying at famous universities, and people who want to cheer on women who are currently unknown models but who are working hard to get on the runway of a big show.

So, instead of being greedy, it is very important that you are able to grasp the points that you can appeal to and that men will be pleased with.

If you know that, you can reflect it well in your profile picture.


As for (XNUMX), it refers to a woman who can show a sign that she understands by approaching the other man according to the frequency he wants to meet, the time when he can date, the time when he can contact, and the bed preference.

When it comes to ongoing relationships, it is very important that both parties agree on the frequency and timing.

I don't need the professionalism of the hospitality industry for men, such as luxury clubs and cabaret clubs.

However, it is essential for women to understand the wishes of men who are busy and have families, and to match them naturally.


In addition, in a mistress relationship, physical compatibility is unavoidable.

Whether you are not dissatisfied with each other even if it is a date only for food without physical relationship,

It's also important to have a relationship where you can frankly talk about each other's sexual desires and sexual preferences, such as likes to play in bed.


What is a woman who does not understand

What kind of person is the next woman you don't understand?

If you just look at the letters, you may have a somewhat negative impression.

First of all, as a premise, it is limited to those who are new to dad activities and who are new to registering for a dating club.

In other words, I don't know right or left.

In a sense, she is the most troublesome type of woman who can't compete head-on from a woman who knows.

It may be easier to understand if you can imagine a first-year university student who came to Tokyo from a rural area or a housewife with a family.

A woman who tries to register for a dating club out of curiosity, is not good, and has little experience with men.

It may also apply to adult women who haven't been on dates with men lately.

These women are the type that men naturally want to lead and take care of.

The women who don't know their own attractiveness, and who tend to get nervous and intimidated on dates with older men, men just want to be affectionate.

A woman who fits this type naturally, rather than acting out it, can get an amazing amount of support.

It's exactly the botamochi from the shelf.


XNUMX% of men prefer one or the other

Many men who enroll in dating clubs

(XNUMX) Find a woman who likes you and enjoys a simple adult relationship while maintaining a sense of distance and avoiding each other's private affairs.

(XNUMX) I want to persuade a fresh and amateur woman who is not professional

tend to apply to either

Therefore, if you have become accustomed to being a dad to some extent, it is necessary to shake off from ①, and if you have just started and have little experience, do not be swayed by the information of experienced people and rush to ② yourself. Never.

If you show yourself like (XNUMX) and are naive and insensitive to physical relationships, or if you appeal to (XNUMX) but only the conditions of your relationship are too strict, men will feel like you've been ripped off. That's what it is.

The gap that creates such negative emotions is the real truth that men don't wish for.

As I said at the beginning, if you want to have a continuous relationship, it's not just about your appearance, but in the end, it's important whether you fit in with the image of a woman that men are looking for. I feel that it is important to live.


halfway is the least popular

I'm writing this with a bit of a harsh tone, but as a former staff member of a dating club, I've encountered many women who seem to know what they're talking about.

When I first registered, I got the impression that many of the women who did not continue to date even though they received several offers were mainly themselves.

On the other hand, there are cases in which a naive and inconspicuous female college student receives an invitation from a wealthy man (real estate tycoon/investor) who ranks in the top few percent in the dating club, and receives an amazing amount of support. , have seen.

After all, in dating clubs, men choose and women are chosen.

I think it all boils down to whether you are addicted to the other man or not.

Even if you get a lot of offers, if it ends with a single date, it's no different from a so-called dating system.

By all means, I hope you want to meet a real rich man at the dating club.

Former staff of dating club! [If you don't see it, it's a loss] The number of people who have been nominated and consulted by male members is as many as the number of stars!I will teach you the real back side of daddy active girls, dating club circumstances, and mistress relationships.

Article by Kylie Nishino

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