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~ For women who are new to dad activities ~ Basics and things to be aware of in dad activities ~


Hello, I'm Mikazuki.

I have been working as a dad for XNUMX years, and I am still working as a dad while doing my main job.

I've met a lot of dads, and now I'm earning XNUMX to XNUMX yen a month.

You can earn a lot, but dad life is not all about good things.

I will share the basics and advice of what women should be aware of, the basics of dad activities, and women who are planning to start dad activities.


⑴What is Papa-katsu?

The meaning is the same, but in the past it was also called "enjo-koko".Currently, the mainstream is called “papa-katsu”, but papa-katsu is a relationship where a man gets a woman to go out with him in exchange for financial assistance.

There are various types of dating, such as going on dates, eating together, and having physical relationships.

The allowance (amount) varies depending on the content of the relationship.


(XNUMX) How to find a dad

There are many ways to find a dad these days, but I've been introduced to dads through "dating clubs" and "papa-katsu apps."

Dating clubs are located in large cities, mainly in Tokyo.It's like an intermediary company between dads and women. (The dating club is only involved in introducing women to daddy)

Men who join a dating club pay an admission fee, have an interview, and the club checks their status, company, and annual income, so most of them are good dads.Women also have interviews, there is no admission fee and personal information is protected.

The Papa-katsu app was easy to register, and I used the "Paters" app.Since it is a dedicated app for dad activities, men and women with the same purpose are registered.

It is recommended for those who want to easily become a dad because there are many matchings and you can get information about dads.

By the way, both women and men are registered in their XNUMXs to XNUMXs with a wide range of age groups.


(XNUMX) When dating, be careful with women's clothes and appearance

Papas have various tastes, but the one that was consistently the most popular was “beautiful and neat.”

In my experience, there weren't many men who liked gals or women with unique clothes in dad activities.

First impressions are very important, and if you pay attention to your clothes, hairstyle, and makeup, I think you'll meet a wonderful dad.


⑷Where is the meeting/date place?

Daddy often decides where to meet when we meet for the first time.He listens to women's opinions, so if you tell them where to go, they will match it properly.

The place where I often meet my dad for the first time is the lobby of a luxury hotel, or the restaurant gathering.

And the most popular date places were high-end restaurants, shopping dates, meals, and home.

Dating places vary depending on the dad and the woman.I think women can request it.


(XNUMX) Negotiations and market rates for allowances (amounts)

*The market price for non-physical relationships (dates and rice dates) is about XNUMX to XNUMX yen.

Dating without a physical relationship is difficult for women who want to earn a lot because the allowance is low.But there are also women who have a lot of dads and earn money on rice dates every time.

When I've been dating my dad for a long time, he's bought me a high-end bag and my allowance has increased even without a physical relationship, but it's up to my dad, so it's important to be a good woman without being selfish.

* The market price for dating with a physical relationship is about XNUMX yen per meeting

When it comes to physical relationships, we often eat together and then go to the hotel or my dad's house.Some dads only want a physical relationship.

The thing to keep in mind here is that you should definitely stop negotiating the amount after the act is over.It is more harmonious for both men and women to go to the hotel after matching the desired amount.When I just started working as a dad, there was a lot of talk and I went to the hotel after dinner without negotiating the amount.Both women and men can feel more at ease when negotiating the price when they meet or when they are eating.

In my example, when I started dating with a physical relationship, it was about XNUMX yen.After I got used to it, I negotiated and raised the desired amount to XNUMX to XNUMX yen.But when the price was around XNUMX yen, I got the most offers (introductions) from dads.

At first, you can negotiate with a lot of dads after meeting a lot of dads, or you can increase the amount even though there are few offers from dads.Please do it by trial and error.

Although there are not many, there are also dads on monthly contracts.

There are dads who sign monthly contracts from the beginning, and there are dads who sign monthly contracts after getting along, so if you win, you are lucky.

The amount of monthly contract varies depending on the dad, but I met a dad XNUMX or XNUMX times a month and paid XNUMX to XNUMX yen.

Some children receive XNUMX million yen a month, so I think it really depends on the father and the woman.

On rare occasions, there are women who are paid by the hour.Therefore, it is best to decide how to decide and negotiate the amount of the allowance in a way that both the father and the woman can agree on.


(XNUMX) How often do you meet with your dad and how do you contact him?

I meet with my father once a month, once a week, once every three months, etc., depending on the father.

Even if you want to see a lot of dads because you want to earn money, dads also have plans, so it's better for such women to find several dads instead of fixing them to one dad.

In my experience, LINE is the standard for exchanging contact information.However, there are some dads who cannot exchange LINE due to family circumstances.

At times like that, I understood my dad's situation and exchanged short messages (phone number) and emails.

Talk to your dad about it and exchange contact information.

As a point to note about contact information, even if you have become friends with your father, you may not be able to contact him because your contact information disappears due to model changes, etc.I have experienced it twice.

Even if you build a relationship over time, you will not be able to contact them due to mistakes, so you should be careful about changing models and managing data.


⑺Finally, when doing dad activity

Daddy activities can earn more money than working part-time, and you can have unrealistic experiences and live a good life.

Daddy activities are a win-win relationship, so there is a sparkling image, but there are good and bad dads, so be careful and meet a lot of dads and have fun.


It's been 6 years since I started working as a dad, and I'm still doing my main job.His work history is night work, dad activity, office worker.I experienced a lot of good things and bad things.I will write advice and experience stories regardless of gender.The Eternal Question “Which is more important, love or money?”

Article by mikazuki

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