This article is for women who are thinking about becoming a father with an adult in the long term.

Please note that this is completely biased and does not serve as a reference for women who are considering short-term relationships with various men.

Having relationships with an unspecified number of men increases the risk of contracting a sexually transmitted disease or being involved in a crime, and is mentally tiring, so I don't recommend it, but each person has their own way of being a father. Please find.

In my case, it's a mistress style where I have a long-term relationship with a dad I get along with.

Having a relationship with a father who you feel the same way with can be fun and stress-free.

Additionally, I receive monthly allowances from my three existing parents, so my income is stable.

If you are looking for a father and would like to have a long-term relationship with him,Please cherish your dates before entering into an adult relationship.

Even if you want some extra money, don't go to a hotel the same day you meet.

If you start a physical relationship right away, everyone will think you're a woman who will follow you right away, and they won't treat you as important.

So, at what date should you start a relationship as an adult?

The answer is written at the end of the column.

First of all, please take a look at the progress from the meeting with the clown dad, which is currently in progress, to the fifth date.

I hope this will be helpful for dating your dad before you start an adult relationship.

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Clown Papa met director Papa (who appeared in the story about a 50,000 yen Christmas present turned into socks) around the same time.

I'm a clown dad because I ride a clown.

Age unknown (around 70 years old?)
Occupation: Unknown (not working but receiving salary)
married

Compared to the unique director dad, he is quiet, serious, and has a quiet side.

The meeting was at an okonomiyaki restaurant in a shopping mall.

She complimented me on my hair and said, ``You have really beautiful black hair.''
This is the first time I've received compliments on my naturally permed hair.
Of course I have dyed my gray hair (^_^;)

“I never thought I would meet such a beautiful woman.”

This is a common social etiquette.

“You must have been very popular when you were young.”

"When I was young" is redundant (-_-;)

"I'm not popular at all now or ever (^^)"

Men value a woman's looks anyway.

When meeting face-to-face, be careful about your makeup, hairstyle, and clothes.

Then smile!

A smile is the makeup that makes a woman look the cutest.

The second time I went for a drive, I went to eat some seafood. I was impressed by the way they bought me souvenirs on the way home.

A man who shops without worrying about the price is likely to make a good father.

A stingy man is stingy no matter how you look at it.

The third and fourth time was at an izakaya.

At the counter of the izakaya for the fourth time, he shook my hand and said, ``You have beautiful hands.''

``The women on the site were all semi-professional women who wanted to go to a hotel for 20,000 yen, so I was fed up with it.''

“By the way, have you thought about the conditions for dating me?”

"2 yen per time..."

"picture?"

“No, it’s 3 yen.”

Hmm...

I didn't give a clear answer.

On our fifth date, we went to a sushi restaurant.

The sushi was seasoned with salt and sauce from the beginning and eaten as is, but I think I prefer sushi with soy sauce.

The main course was sushi, but I was very satisfied with the addition of sea urchin at the end.

When I left the sushi restaurant, he suddenly grabbed my hand and started walking, saying, "Let's go to the hotel now!"

"Please wait a moment. I'm not ready mentally if you suddenly ask me. (I haven't decided on the conditions yet) I can't do it today."

"This is the first time I've felt like this. I really want to have Sayuri-san. Please."

"I really can't do it today. Please try again later."

“When is the next day?”

"I'll check my schedule and line up again."

"If you want to go out with me, decide now. What about the day after tomorrow, Sunday?"

"Oh, I understand."

"Really? I'm really happy. Thank you."

I agreed to a date on Sunday to calm the situation down, but Clown Papa doesn't have particularly good conditions and lacks the decisive factor to go out with him.

However, there are some men who grow up (and can grow) from ordinary dads to chubby dads, so it's hard to say.

After the date, we lined up.

"Thank you for the delicious sushi feast today. I was surprised by the sudden invitation today. I've thought about it a lot, but I still haven't made up my mind to start dating as an adult. I'm very sorry, but I haven't decided on the next date yet. Is it okay if we just have a meal? I would be happy if we could get to know each other slowly.”

``I was worried that Sayuri might leave for another man if I were to relax.I'm sorry for surprising her.I'll wait until Sayuri feels like it, so I'll go out to dinner with her.'' Please. Thank you.”

Men have a hunting instinct and prefer to chase rather than be chased.

No matter how many types of men you meet, or even if you meet a generous rich man, don't chase him relentlessly.

If you chase him, he will run away, if you run away he will chase you. This is male psychology.

When you chase after something and almost reach it, but you can't, your desire to catch it becomes more intense.

Men find value in women who are hard to come by and women who don't look back at them.

Women who are readily available feel ``boring,'' ``seeming to follow everyone,'' and ``worthless.''

There is meaning in making a woman your own, a woman who does not easily fall in love with you, a woman who does not easily fall in love with you even if you approach her.

You definitely want to get it because it's not easy to get.

And I will cherish the woman I worked hard to acquire for a long time.

I believe that if you understand the characteristics of men like this and wish to become a father, you will surely get good results.

However, if you worry too much, they may give up and leave.So, when you meet a good father, take the best time to form an adult relationship.

You don't have to go on seven or eight dates with your child like I did.If you want a long-term relationship,We recommend that you start dating after the third date.

Thank you for reading for me until the end.

Sayuri