Hello, I'm Bell ^ ^♪

I've written an article about dating clubs before.

This time, I'm going to write about dad activity in the matching app.

There are several matching apps that can be used by dads.

I've used three so far, but I think there are more.

Women are basically free, but men are paid and the system varies depending on the application.

Some places send messages for free, while others cost about 1 yen per message.

There are many men who immediately ask for LINE or private contact information in such apps.

To be honest, I'm reluctant to give out my private contact information to people I've never met because it could be abused.

However, I understand the feelings of men who don't want to be charged every time they message, so I prepared a smartphone for daddy use (laughs).

If you can only use LINE, there is no problem, so the cheapest plan of 980 yen per month with a cheap SIM is enough.

With this, there is no problem even if you can see LINE posts.

If you keep your smartphone separate for private and dad use, there is no problem that your boyfriend will find out.

Well, I don't have a boyfriend (laughs) For the future (laughs)

I have met more than 3 people in 2 years using 200 Papa Katsu apps.

Some have only met once, while others have met more than 1 times.

By the way, we are only eating and going out with everyone so far.

I'm sure there are people who have already disappeared from memory (laughs)

Some people bought what they wanted on the day we met for the first time, and others gave me three times the promised amount.

It's not all good things, but I feel lucky that I can eat delicious food and receive transportation expenses ♡

I always promise the price of the transportation fee before meeting, so I have never failed to receive it.

However, it seems that some women are crying and falling asleep when they hear stories from men again.

If you ask me why I always ``promise the price'' before meeting, there was one time when we met without making a promise.

We hadn't decided on the price before we met, but he said, "I'll give you the transportation expenses properly."

What was handed over was really "transportation expenses".

Papa Katsu's "transportation expenses" are not public transport expenses, but...(・∀・)

There are various interpretations and common senses, so I always decided the price and met.

Maybe some of them were willing to give me more than I offered.

However, I'm worried that I can't meet with peace of mind, and it's not fun, so I won't continue.

As a dad, my top priority is not to be patient and stressful.

Instead, it takes priority over other plans.

By the way, this kind of thing rarely happens in dating clubs.

This is because men will be explained about transportation expenses at the time of joining.

There are many people who don't know the unspoken rules because anyone can easily do dad activities on the app.

Some of them were seriously looking for her, and some didn't understand the point.

Recently, it seems that they tend to ignore the market price and present it as cheaply as possible.

Another big thing is the cancellation without contact.

It would be nice if they contacted me, but they didn't come even though I was in contact with them until just before, or even though I was in contact with them at the meeting time.

In my experience, the worst experience was 1 minutes late, then 30 minutes, and I had to wait for a total of about an hour, and there was a pleasant criminal who enjoyed being in trouble in real time.

I wasted my time, but it didn't mean that I was harmed, so I immediately changed my mind and worked hard on my father activities the next day (laughs).

It's not a normal world, so I experience a lot of things that don't make sense.

Compared to the dating club, I feel that the Papa Katsu app is particularly strong.

However, the good thing about the app is that you can meet as many people as you want than the dating club.

Dating clubs can't appeal from themselves, and if you don't choose the other person anyway, you can't meet or send a message.

That's the number one difference and advantage between apps and dating clubs.

The secretariat of the dating club will be in between, so they will arrange to meet you properly, so you won't come without contacting me.If you do that, both men and women will be forced to leave.

However, it seems that there are no restrictions on the application, so it's good to call attention to it.

Most of them are in the wild.

In that sense, the dating club is more secure.

Both the dating club and the dad activity app are based on usage fees from male members, so I honestly felt that male members were less regulated.

Both have advantages and disadvantages.

Dating clubs have high hurdles to start casually, such as interviews, admission screenings, and shooting (some clubs take a lot of time, or you go to the studio to get them at your own expense).

With the app, you can get started quickly.

I think it's a good idea to start with the easy one first, and then register for a dating club in parallel after you get a feel for what it's like.

Either way, please take on the challenge while properly managing the crisis.

There's been an incident recently, so I don't think it's someone else's problem, and I don't know when I'll be in danger!

I hope you can meet a wonderful dad♪