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How is dad life seen by those around you?

I'm worried about the eyes around me

From now on, I see that there are many women all over the country who want to start dad activities.

First of all, one of the reasons is that dad activities are often used, including surprises, mainly for online distribution.

A long time ago, Papa-katsu itself was questionable, and it was necessary to explain from the part of "What is Papa-katsu?"

However, if you hear "papa katsu" now, I think there are many people who say "ah, I know". (Individual reactions may vary.)

Meanwhile, women who are already doing papa katsu can digest normally even if they say "papa katsu", so if you don't have money, why don't you see it for the first time?I think I'll give you some advice.

However, from a woman who has never been a daddy, what do you think?will she work for me?I think there are many people who think about various things and feel confused about opening the “door of dad activities”.

Among them, the most worrisome among women is the eyes of others.

Basically, women are talkative animals.

So, if you can't keep quiet around you, can you talk to someone?Anyway, I can't help but worry about the eyes around me.

There must be many such women.

To be honest, I'm paralyzed because I'm currently active as a dad.

In the first place, I don't think I need to tell everyone around me, "I'm working as a daddy."

Why?The reason is that they are not doing anything that violates the law, and each of them thinks that they have their own missions.

Do I have to say it to each person?That's the idea.

This is my guess, but maybe it's because I have a "feeling that I'm doing something wrong" when it comes to dad activities?That's why I'm worried about the eyes around me, and I'm going to act like I want to talk to people.I thought.

First of all, I want to ask a woman who works in the daytime.

In your daily life, do you tell people about your work one by one?If it's a company colleague, it's fine, but I don't think I usually talk to my friends about the content.

Or rather, I don't think I can speak.

After all, companies have a duty of confidentiality.

Why do you change your thoughts when it comes to dad life?I would think.

Isn't it because there is a feeling that you are doing something different from other people?Or maybe it's because they make money in a way that's so different from the people around them that they tend to be more negative than others?I think there are reasons around here.

Do you have a bad image of being a dad?Maybe I should give it a try.

Once you do dad activities, you should feel, "I was attacked by a stupid prejudice."

I don't understand the feeling of being worried about the eyes around me.

Because I'm walking older than my parents.

But, if you were walking with your parents, would you think about that?If it were me, I wouldn't think of anything.

That's because there is an "absolute sense of security" to say that it is a parent, right?Even if people around me look at me with strange eyes, I don't think they care because I feel like I'm a parent.

Dad life is honestly the same, isn't it?

If you look at me with the eyes that say "Papa", I don't care about the eyes around me.

For example, honorifics for dads and tame words for parents.

That's why people around me don't think these two are parent and child.I don't like being misunderstood.

Speaking of myself, I use honorifics for my parents.

That's why it's not that different from using honorifics to Papa.

That's why I think it's natural to say honorifics to parents.

And let me be clear.

People don't listen to your conversation that much, and they don't care what kind of man you're walking with.

That's why you don't have to worry about the eyes around you.

Don't interpret Papa Katsu from the wrong perspective.

First of all, there are different types of dads.

Among them, there are men who are quite old, and there are men who feel that "What? You look young!"

I can't say anything about this, because it really depends on the preferences of individual women.

But there is one thing I can say.

All men smell good.

Do you know what is called a classy smell?Doesn't it feel cheap?

Well, since I'm about to become a dad, it's true that I'm rich and have a great family background.

It's not that kind of thing, but even if you don't give your name, there's something that can be conveyed here. (It's easier to understand if you call it an aura.)

So, in Tokyo, don't imagine an old man walking around Ueno or Shinbashi.

It feels completely different.

I think that old men often walk around Roppongi Hills and Azabu Juban.

It's obvious that this person has never eaten anything but a knife and fork like that.There are many uncles who have a personality like that. (I feel like I'm wearing a bow tie or loop tie from the neck.)

That's why I don't think it's so unnatural to see young women walking together normally.

Conversely, is this also an upper-class woman?I feel like there are more patterns that can be seen.

No matter what, it seems that dad life still has a bad image, and if you say, "I plan to do dad life," in everyday life, I think about 8% of my friends will be against it.By the way, I was opposed by everyone at the time.

However, when I opened it up myself and actually tried daddy activities myself, the scenery I saw there was completely different.

So, I thought, ignore the eyes around me, and if I can see this scenery, I won't mind.

Of course, there must be a lot of things to think about individually.

However, to give my personal opinion, it's sad that I can't see the wonderful scenery that I can still see in Papa-katsu because I'm worried about other people's eyes.

In other words, I don't think it's a good idea to be concerned about other people's eyes and not even have the chance to see it, or throw away the chance to see it yourself. (Just my personal opinion)

Besides, people's eyes can't see us after all, so if you're worried about doing daddy activities, you'll think, "Why can't you see anything?" I think it would be good to

I can't actually see anything.

The shock when I first learned about the dating club was amazing.Since then, I've been hooked.We will continue to transmit reality from a female perspective.

Articles by Kumiko Mine

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