I learned after joining the universe club, but it seems that the women in the dating club don't necessarily like older men.

Rather, it seems that there are many Menhera-chan who hate uncles and endure for money.

However, even if such a person can get a lot of money with a moment's momentum and youth, it will not last long.
People who have been with men for a long time in dating clubs still have the image of finding the charm of older men and loving it.

For those women, I would like to tell you about the attractiveness of older men and the advantages of being a couple with an age difference.

Attractiveness of older men XNUMX: Leading

Speaking of the attractiveness of older men, isn't it that they take the lead in conversations, dates, and everything else?

Recently, there has been an increase in the number of coquet herbivore men who can be indistinguishable from women.
In such a world (I dare to use this word), the charm of mature men who lead women in a manly way shines.

That's right, the word "a little bad old man" was popular a while ago, but now that I think about it, it's kind of cheap.
However, it can be said that the tendency to seek "calm sex appeal" and "classy feeling" for older men has not changed.

This is especially true for men who can join dating clubs, but many of them are in a position of great responsibility in terms of work, and if they are on the side of pulling people, they are able to lead women flawlessly in their private lives as well.

In these uncertain times when the future is uncertain, a reliable man who will lead you by the hand and say, "This is the way."

Attractiveness of older men XNUMX: They have plenty of money

I think there are quite a lot of Papa-katsu-joshi who cite this as the “attractiveness of older men”. “I have plenty of money” is another phrase that sounds very attractive in this recession.

When I was in junior high school or high school, when I thought about dates with the boys I was thinking about or the boyfriends I was dating, the date places were nearby shopping malls, game centers, Gusto, and going a little farther to the aquarium.
Maybe there are people who have been to USJ and Disney, but USJ and Disney are different from "luxury" if you think about it now.It was definitely luxurious back then.

Even for a couple in their early twenties, it's not possible to go to Robuchon for dinner every time they meet, even if it's a special day with some kind of event.

In that way, when dating a man of the same generation or younger, a so-called “luxury” date is not very suitable.

In that respect, an older working man, let alone a member of a dating club, earns a certain amount of money.
A woman like Papua, who has the temperament of an eldest daughter, is likely to refrain from such a man and say, "It's okay to go to a restaurant in a normal way." It's good to beg.
Older men are perfect for women who like rich dates.

Attractiveness of older men Part XNUMX: Being pampered

There are people like Sota Fujii and Aina Ashida. has an indescribable tolerability that young men can never exude.

For a woman who wants to spoil herself with a man she likes, an older man is an ideal romantic target.

Papua is also a person who wants to be spoiled by men.
I'm attracted to men who are somewhat stout-looking, and who seem to match the word "aniki" well.Specifically, I like Daisuke Shima, who is 170cm and weighs about 70-80kg.

Attractiveness of older men: Less prone to arguments

One of the benefits of dating an older man is that you are less likely to get into fights.

In general, older people have more peace of mind, and they understand that each other has different values, so even if there is a slight misunderstanding, it will not lead to an unexpectedly large gap. .

However, just because someone is older doesn't mean you can impose your opinions on them.Men feel an indescribable masochism when they are preached from the standpoint of obedience.

A man told me, "This is the most addictive email exchange I've ever had with my mistress."
The man was a sexy person who must have been popular since he was young, so he probably won't be attracted to the bruises and cuteness around him anymore.
The innocence of a young girl, the generosity of a mother, and the voluptuous OPPAI.

Conversely, it is absolutely forbidden to put up with this claim just because the other person is older.It will be completely dominated and you will be in a Cassandra state and will not be able to escape.
Couples who cause strange incidents in the world are all couples with an age difference, such as a stupid younger girlfriend being entwined with a stupid older boyfriend, aren't they?Around Yashio in Saitama, they seem to be doing nothing but pachinko.

While being less prone to quarrels is the first step toward building peace, it can also be said that there is a hidden danger that the power balance will tilt without realizing it, depending on the relationship with the other party and the state of each other's brains. increase.

What is the fun of being a couple with an age gap?

So far, I've written about the attractiveness of older men themselves, but what should I do to go out with such an older man and become a "couple with an age gap"?

That's why I'd like to introduce the elements of "fun" for couples with an age gap.

Even if I make a mistake, it's not an introduction like "The fun of a couple with an age difference Part XNUMX: Outdoor scat exposure play", so it's not bad

Age difference couple fun part XNUMX: generation gap

Whether or not you can enjoy this generation gap is an important part of whether or not couples with age differences will continue to be active men and women.

We all grew up in completely different historical backgrounds, so it's inevitable that our ways of thinking and values ​​will differ greatly.

Instead of seeing it negatively as ``a gap between generations'' or ``you can't understand each other even if you talk anyway,'' you should ask, ``What was Mr. ○○ like when he was young?'' It's fun to talk to you." Take it positively.

There is no one who is not happy when someone younger than them asks about them.
(Even if it's a pose) it means that they are interested.
I would be happy if Papwa was asked various questions from junior high and high school students.

If you can enjoy the generation gap, unnecessary misunderstandings will not occur.

Of course, it's not worth talking to a man who makes outrageously anachronistic arguments such as ``women don't need to be educated'' or ``women work at home and men don't care about their homes.'' neither.Leave now and find a better man.

Fun for couples with age gap XNUMX: Free relationship without imposing ideas on each other

First of all, it is a major premise that such relationships can be properly built with people of the same generation.The older the age difference, the more possibilities there are.

In a sense, it is precisely because there is a gap between generations that we have a kind of resignation that we cannot understand each other beyond a certain level.That's why we don't expect too much from each other, and because of that, we can have some peace of mind, so we have a space where we can be "alone" freely.

If this is the same generation, the word "marriage" tends to flicker, and the world is full of same-generation couples.You're around, right?Especially if you're in your early twenties, isn't there a majority of couples around the same age who have been dating since college?
So it makes it easier to make comparisons.
○○-chan's boyfriend gave me a birthday date, but my boyfriend doesn't care at all... I'm envious of △△-chan and this couple who go to trendy cafes and stuff together, but My boyfriend is totally uninterested in that sort of thing and withers away... or something like that.
It would be ideal for couples who can handle such dissatisfactions in small amounts, but there are also men who find such minor dissatisfactions of girls to be troublesome.
A woman who wants to be the "ideal couple's girlfriend" and a man who doesn't understand that feeling.It's obvious that both of you will be cramped and reach your limits.

But if there is an age difference between two people, to a certain extent, they think, "Is there an age difference?"
"We have an age difference and it can't be helped," so it's easy for both of us to share our small dissatisfaction with each other.

However, this is also a story of brain misalignment, and when a stupid older man has a younger lover, he will give instructions as if he were a god, saying "Do it" and "Do it". I tend to throw words like orders.
Even if it's not about the age difference, have you ever seen someone at a supermarket complaining, "Hurry up" or "You're late" to a wife (or husband) who is slow to pack a bag after paying.
Since there is also the word "date DV", there are young couples like this, but it tends to be more middle-aged and older couples.
Young couples can break up as many times as they want, but couples who have been married for years, even decades, go to the supermarket together and have a hard time... Those two are living under the same roof for the rest of their lives. When I think about whether I will continue to live downstairs, I am a complete stranger, and I am worried about myself.

In a sense, it is precisely because there is a "gap" that the relationship is independent and separate.Don't you think it would be great fun to build such a relationship?

The fun of couples with age gaps: the relationship of mutual respect

This is also a major premise that even a same-generation couple can build a relationship.
Respect for each other is also the key to long-lasting, fulfilling relationships in age-gap couples.

A female entertainer once said, "Even if your romantic feelings fade, if you think that this person has something you can respect (ex. social status, title), it will last for a long time, and you can still be with this person." That makes sense.

Conversely, it is not easy for older people to evaluate a younger lover's "youthfulness", "innocentness", and "the very feeling that the older self follows" as a kind of respect point. Uka

Even if one day the romantic feeling fades, you can purely interact with "person" to "person", and in a sense, it can be said that this is the fun of couples with an age difference.

Summary

No matter how attractive a woman is, there is no one who joins a dating club and never feels bad about it.
Some people don't like talking to older men...

Is it the result of these women's stress explosions that the current turmoil of the question box is?
(I'd like to say it's pathetic, but 9% of those questions are so self-inflicted that I don't feel like answering them anymore.)

However, no matter how much the age difference is between the two, no matter what others think, the most important thing is the feelings of the parties involved.what do you think of each other
It's an important mindset to think that you are a different person while you are seeing your dad, and that you don't care.

If you value each other's feelings of caring for each other, you will be able to build a more stable relationship (in many ways 💓) than a couple of the same generation.