Before the word "papa-katsu" spread around the world, I was doing papa-katsu.

So far, I have met a lot of dads and have had countless experiences.

No way, I never thought that daddy would be an unforgettable daddy.

Please let me know about your experience.
 

Opportunity to start working as a dad

I think that the purpose of all women who start dad activities is “money”.

Get an allowance and go on a date instead.Or even more related.

Nowadays, there are not a few women who are active as dads.

The purpose of starting dad activity was "replenishment of living expenses".

An era when “with allowance” is not understood

At that time, there were still few dating sites, and there were many men who did not understand that they would be given an allowance in exchange for going on a date.

There are many men who want to meet as an affair, and I have been refused many times saying, "I have no intention of dating even if I give you an allowance."

I think it has become easier to meet people when the number of "dating sites" has increased as the way of meeting people has changed greatly with the times.

Advanced dating site

Now that we often hear the word “papa-katsu”, there are many “papa-katsu sites”. The number of men who understand the relationship of "with allowance" has increased, and things have become smoother.

Not only young women, but also many women in their 30s and older use Papa-katsu.

There are many dads looking for women over 30, so it works.
 

The dad I met is 73 years old

Just as there is a wide range of age groups for women on papa-katsu sites, men are also getting older.

One day, I received a message from Mr. K, a 73-year-old man.


I arbitrarily decided that my 70s was not within the range I could associate with.

I was ignoring the message, but Mr. K's profile was very atmospheric, and it was a text that made me laugh.

That's what started the exchange.

Mr. K, who has already retired from work and lives freely with stocks and savings, is of course married.
 

5. Don't judge a partner by age

I remember being extremely nervous on the day of my appointment with Mr. K, even though I had met him many times.

Meeting people over 70 has a lot to do with it.

We met at a city hotel to have lunch together.

Mr. K, who appeared at the meeting place, did not look like he was in his 70s at all, and gave me a very good impression.

I will order one item after another, not the lunch menu.A man with money to spare looked nice.

On the way home, he gave me "5,000 yen" instead of "1 yen to 3 yen" for a lunch date.I was so full of gratitude that I immediately sent a thank you email to Mr. K on my way home.

If you decide that the elderly are impossible, you will lose the possibility there.

Not all older men who are working as dads are like Mr. K, but there are many who are worth trying to face before deciding that it is impossible.
 

Things you get from long-term relationships

Before I knew it, I had been dating K for three years.

We usually met at lunch, and in the months when we had birthdays and events, we would meet in the evening and drink together.

If you meet a few times, your true nature will come out, and when Mr. K gets drunk, his mouth will be foul.He usually calls me by my first name, but when I get drunk, he always calls me "you."

I am married and have a child, but Mr. K buys me a suit for my child's entrance ceremony and actively helps me with things related to "children".

The dad who has been dating so far is only investing in things related to "me", even if the relationship has been long and mutual trust has been established.

Mr. K often took care of my children, bought picture books, bought fruits, and never left empty-handed.

She said, ``You can buy your own things for your allowance, because when you become a mother, investing in yourself will be secondary.''

Because I know Mr. K's "kindness", I was able to endure and go out with Mr. K even if I saw his "bad side".

And before I knew it, I no longer had to put up with it, and even if I saw something I didn't like, I was able to smile and let it go.
 

person to person relationship

Of course, it's "papa katsu", so it's "divided".

There is no change in the purpose of "allowance".

However, I think that you can have a wonderful relationship if you don't forget to be grateful and face your dad properly, instead of just going out with your allowance.

Due to the coronavirus, it has become difficult to meet Mr. K.

I have many memories with my dad, but I don't think I'll be able to meet a dad who surpasses Mr. K anymore.The more I think, the more I am filled with gratitude.

Now, I miss the “you” that Mr. K said so much.

Every daddy girl wants an ideal “allowance” and an ideal “papa”.

If I had to say one thing that made me glad that I was dating Mr. K, it wouldn't be that I could go to restaurants that I wouldn't normally be able to go to, but that he bought me a lot of clothes and bags. is not.

I think I learned how to interact with people.