Conversation with young women is really hard

Tokyo completely forgot about winter.

It's been very warm and comfortable, isn't it?

Now, I would like to tell you something that I have been struggling with for a long time.

Perhaps, if you are a man who has become a father, you may have thought about it several times.

In the first place, don't you have a hard time if you can't interact with young women?If you've been a dad for a few years, "how do you deal with that?" might be ingrained in her.

No, I think there are more than a few men who have been working as dads for a few years and are still interacting with women, even though they are a little hesitant.

In my case, it depends on the woman.

Women who don't talk much have a hard time creating topics for the occasion.

So we can't just say "I'm silent" either.

It's a waste of time to be silent with each other.

In other words, there is a high possibility that it will end there before the strange air flows and the distance between you and the woman shrinks.

Why did you bring up this topic?

It's because there's something I thought about the conversation content of the man's side.

In the first place, when you are with a woman, is it necessary for a man to lead, especially in dad activities?That being said, I was very skeptical.

Of course, accounting should be done by men.

However, in my case, there are many cases in which, even if the man raises the topic during the conversation, "some women can't follow me."

For example, talking about politics and social situations.

Of course, it may not be something you talk about when you're with a woman.

However, when something happens in Japan at that time, I have a habit of bringing it up as a newspaper reader. (No, I think that everyone in my age has a similar feeling.)

Then, 8% of the women who work as dads that I know end the conversation with "Huh? Is that so? I didn't know.", and it becomes difficult to continue the conversation from there.

Certainly, it might be immature to talk about difficult politics to a young woman.

However, isn't there a minimum of news at that time?Some men may say that a young woman who says she doesn't know anything is cute, but I don't think so.

After all, if you sign a contract with a woman, you may end up with a long-term relationship for several years.

In the meantime, I think there are few men who can only have fun stories every time.

That's why I think there are many men who change the subject and talk about politics, and say, "I want to hear the opinions of young women once in a while." (I'm interested in what kind of thoughts do I have about society, since I'm from a completely different generation.)

However, if you step into it, there are an overwhelming number of responses such as "I don't know" or "I'm not interested".

Do men who are dads all over the country never talk about such things to women?I wonder if bringing up the topic itself leads to a violation of manners in Papa Katsujo?I think about various things in my own way.

If this is just about politics, that's fine.

For example, a divorced man or a man who lost his wife early.

In such a case, I feel that if you make a contract with a woman for a long time, there will be a lot of topics.

"My ex-wife was really nice and the family was doing well."

If you talk to a woman who says she doesn't know politics about these topics, isn't it likely that you'll get a similar reaction? "I've never been married, so I don't know." or "I've never lost her partner, so I don't know."

Then, I think that if you just reply like this, you won't be able to have a conversation with me as an exchange.

I think there are a lot of patterns in people who talk about topics like this, like, "I want you to use your imagination and talk about it."

Even in my case, I don't talk on the premise that the other woman knows everything.

When I think about it, I feel like there are quite a few restrictions on what topics I can talk to women about.

People say I think too much, but I don't think so.

The reason is that I believe that men also have an obligation to escort women to some extent.

It's not because I'm a dad, but because I'm a man. (There is also a reason for age.)

That's why how far do you talk to women?How open are you?was quite a neck in me.

So, as a solution in my mind, I thought of a way to get on the subject of the other party without bringing up the topic as much as possible.

However, this is also not a silver bullet that applies to everyone.

That's because, as I said earlier, there are women who don't bring up topics at all, and there are many women who can't fit into the atmosphere of the place unless they talk about it.

To be honest, if a man who can take care of me so perfectly becomes a father, I think he's "invincible".

This may be a matter of long-term intuition.

So, I came up with a way to dare to ask at the "first meeting" at the time of contract.

As for the content, while having a conversation with a woman on the spot, a method of saying, "I'm pretty bad at talking, but are you okay?"

Originally, I'm not a bad talker or anything.

However, by giving a light jab there, I can see the reaction of the woman, and on top of that, it's the first time we've met, so it's a fair situation for both of us.

Therefore, it also becomes a place where the other woman can talk without worrying about it.

In other words, you can hear your true intentions.

Then, although this is just an example that I experienced, the woman responded like this.

"Ah, I'm not exactly a man either, so I'd be happy if we could get along at my own pace." is.

If you sign a contract with a woman who reacts like this, you will have plenty of topics to talk about, so you won't have any troubles after signing.

However, it is better to quit the contract with women who say, "I'm taciturn, too."

After the contract, there is a high possibility that you will be annoyed by various topics.

By all means, please try my method once, including those who are not familiar with women.

Then, try to decide the percentage that you will reveal for the first time.

I'm sure it will go well.