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My dad often tells me that being young is unconditionally wonderful, but I think it's kind of subtle.

Papa often goes to cabarets and lounges, and says, "The bar business is tough due to Corona, but young women have not been decapitated even if their faces are so-so."

However, even if I say such a thing ... I feel like I'm going to be cloudy.By the way, I am in my early 30s and have no experience with water, so when I talk about water, I feel like "???".

Why is he talking to me about water?I don't have experience with water, and I'm not as young as he says, ``youth is the only advantage'', so I can't keep up with what he's saying and I don't know how to respond.I understand that youth is wonderful, but I also think positively about my current age and getting older, so every time my dad praises my youth, I smile wryly.

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Thank you very much for your question.

In modern Japan, an annual income of XNUMX million yen is by no means a wealthy number.

However, from the point of view of a contract employee with an annual income of XNUMX million yen, a full-time employee with an annual income of XNUMX million yen would be a dream.

However, there is no doubt that even such a contract employee with an annual income of XNUMX million yen is a dream for freeters who earn XNUMX million yen.

Things are always relative.

I don't know how old the dads are this time, but at least they are probably older than the questioner.In other words, from your father's point of view, the questioner is a full-time employee with an annual income of XNUMX million yen.

Of course, from the standpoint of a full-time employee with an annual income of XNUMX million yen, it is natural that he does not feel that his environment is rich.However, from the point of view of a contract employee with an annual income of XNUMX million yen, a regular employee with an annual income of XNUMX million yen is nothing but a bourgeoisie.

It seems that the person who asked the question thinks that he has never gained anything at his age, but I am sorry to say that it is nothing more than "because I am insensitive."

Of course, women in their early 30s probably don't get as much age advantage as women in their early 20s, but they definitely do at least more advantage than women in their 40s.

Therefore, from the perspective of dads who are probably over 40, it is only natural that the questioner seems to be benefiting from his age.Just as the questioner feels that young girls in their twenties are getting a benefit just by being young, the questioner who is in their 40s and in their 30s says, "Youth is a benefit. It's nothing more than a "little girl".

In the first place, I know it's quite rude, but the father who probably earns several times more than the person who asked the question is drinking together with the person who asked the question. It's probably because you're young (compared to Papa).

It is nothing other than the fact that "youth is profitable".

I smile bitterly at you who praises youth

There is a saying in Islam called Five Elements and Six Faiths.Simply put, this is a collection of "five duties" and "six things to believe in", and one of these five duties is pilgrimage.

A pilgrimage is a trip to Mecca, the holy city of Islam.This obligation is accompanied by a rather sweet condition that ``if you are financially unreasonable or physically demanding, you do not have to push yourself too hard'', but many Muslims still travel long distances to the Gaaba Temple in Mecca. We are continuing.

Well, this Gaaba temple has a stone called black stone in the center, and pilgrims are required to touch this stone.If you look it up on Wikipedia or something, you'll understand, but from our Japanese perspective, it's just a stone, nothing more or less.However, more than 200 million people travel every year to touch this stone.

Then, can the questioner look at a Muslim who admires the stone and smile wryly, "How can you worship a stone?"

A pilgrimage that costs 30 yen if you go from Japan.You pay that much to touch the stone.Seeing such Muslims, can the questioner smile wryly that they are stupid?

At least I can't.No matter how worthless it is to me, it is sacred to Muslims.Isn't it an adult thing to laugh wryly at someone else's devotion just because you don't see the value in it?

Well, I don't know what you think about age, but from your father's point of view, youth is something to be admired.I don't know if it's right or wrong, but at least from your father's point of view, it's a sacred truth, and it's very valuable.

Muslims may get angry, but it is structurally the same as Muslims who admire Kuroishi.No matter what you think about age, I'm not going to laugh at that idea, but in the same way, no matter what you think, dads will admire your youth. I don't think it's a good idea to smile bitterly.

different values ​​and abilities

I think it's good that the questioner is thinking positively about aging.

But let me apologize for that.

Young women are more valuable than those who are not.

I feel like I've probably touched the wrath of many women, but I'd appreciate it if you could get to know me a little longer before you stop reading.

Young women, at least as far as I know, will be worth more than those who are not.But that doesn't mean that young women are better.

When I talk about this, some people argue that "young women don't know anything" or "mature women are more intelligent", but they are all just "ability".

It is true that mature women are more intelligent, socially experienced, and probably earn more than younger women.

However, to put it the other way around, it is a story about what happened.

All of them are just "high ability" and not "high value".

If you have the best baseball skills in the world, you can earn 10 billion or 100 billion yen a year, but even if you have the best can-kicking skills, you probably won't be able to earn 1000 million yen.In the same way, having high ability is equal and cannot be said to have high value.

High value means that the supply is insufficient for the demand.

The presence or absence of ability is not completely irrelevant, but in essence, the value is determined only by supply and demand.

For example, gold is basically useless, but its supply is extremely small, so its value is enormous.Iron, on the other hand, is extremely useful, but its value is low due to its huge supply.Iron is undoubtedly the more convenient one, but gold still has a higher value.

For this reason, young women are overwhelmingly more valuable, especially in a space like Universe.

I don't know who is more attractive or more capable, a young woman or a mature woman.However, such a thing is a story that does not matter from the bottom of my heart in terms of value.

Is the demand-supply balance more disrupted for young women or mature women?

Value is determined by that.And in many cases, the collapse of supply and demand is for young women.Therefore, young women are more valuable.