Amateur feel is important

When you become a father, you get to know a lot of women, and there are always encounters and partings.

Meanwhile, recently, I have a friend who has been having fun with women under contract just like me, and we sometimes drink together, but the topic of conversation is always about daddy life.

What kind of women do you play with? Or where did you go? There are endless topics to talk about when the two of us talk together.

However, whenever I talk to my friends there, we always end up saying things to each other.

That's the part that says, "You always choose the same kind of women."

Admittedly, I didn't realize it, didn't think too deeply about it, and just naturally chose the women I met, and it seems like I ended up choosing women who were all similar to me.

On the other hand, when I listen to my friend talk, I think, ``Did he choose a girl with that personality again?'' or ``I can see the punch line,'' so I'm sure he feels the same way when he looks at me. Dew.

It's an honor to have someone else see, evaluate, and point out things you don't see, and it's also a great benefit to be able to notice things.

Well, a new year has already arrived.

Yes, 2024.

To be honest, as a father, I want to contract with women, play with women, and enjoy life as I always have, but if I don't have stimulation, I don't get bored, and if I don't learn, can I really enjoy life? You will start to have doubts about yourself.

Therefore, I thought I needed to learn a little from the woman who has signed a contract until 2023.

So-called, what kind of woman is suitable for you, what kind of woman do you want to contract with, and have fun with? It means self-analyzing and applying it to 2024.

Surprisingly, there are many men who haven't carefully analyzed themselves and chosen a woman in this area, and to be honest, I feel like the experience of becoming a father has a lot to do with this. (I myself have been a dad for a long time, so I feel like I can talk about it quite realistically.)

Therefore, I would like to introduce her with the title, ``In 2024, I want to sign a contract with this kind of woman.''

This is just a story from my own experience.

Honestly, are there any women like this when you become a father?A woman who talks too loudly.

To explain it a little more clearly, is there a manual somewhere for talking too much? Do you have a child who talks too much?

It's true that his language is beautiful and his responses are clear, so it's easy to have a conversation.

However, there are times when everything flows so beautifully that I feel like I've been to a restaurant somewhere and am being entertained.

Personally, I like women who can clearly answer "yes" or "no" because they're easier to date, and if anything, they're easier to understand. (You won't have to worry about anything later.)

However, if it's too clear, I guess you could say it looks strangely professional.

It gets a little cold.

In that case, wouldn't it be better to go to a restaurant at night and enjoy the service while drinking delicious alcohol? I personally think so.

Maybe it's just me, but isn't that the real thrill of being a dad? Certainly, when it comes to the best part, there is more than just one, and each man who becomes a father has different goals and desires.

However, I think all men who have become fathers can relate to the feeling of distance from women.

Don't you think this is very important? When someone speaks too loudly, it sounds like business, or it makes you feel a great distance from the woman, and you say, ``Oh, I'm in a relationship with this woman, so it's nothing more or less than that.'' Is it okay to say that I was brought back to the real world?

Of course, allowances are a given, and I feel like I'm asking the woman to go out with me in a casual relationship, so there's nothing wrong with the relationship.

However, I wonder if we can handle it better? That's what I think...

For example, if you show up and interact with someone in the same way you normally would, and they say something along the lines of, ``I'll give you an allowance as an extension of that,'' I would find it hard to get cold feet, and I can understand that...

Maybe some women just say certain words? Sometimes I feel that way. (Not all women)

When this happens at night, it gets even colder.

The worst example is something that really happened last year, but everything was very natural until I went to bed.

However, if you start having sex with some lights on, you'll inevitably be curious about the other person's face, and you'll end up looking at it, right? His face at that time was completely blank.

For the time being, the woman's body was sensitive, but her face was completely blank, and I thought, ``Oh, I wonder if I'm overdoing it?'', and my son also flinched, and at that moment he started playing. is over.

When I asked him later, he said, ``It's not that I don't like my dad or that I don't want him to hold me.''

It felt like I was forcing myself in a way, which was really disappointing.

There may be some men who get excited about it as a play, but I don't get excited about it, so I couldn't go beyond that.

After that day, things got a little awkward with that woman, and they just faded out.

Then, I informed them that the contract was cancelled.

Of course, I was fully aware that she meant no harm.

However, he didn't seem like an amateur, and the conversation up until that point was so clear-cut that I really felt like he was cutting things off.

Since I am in the father's position, I think there are various reasons for women as well.

However, as someone who wanted to sign a long-term contract, I couldn't see a long-term future with a woman who seemed too amateurish.

I could immediately see a future where I thought, ``I'll probably get bored of it within a month.''

After all, I think I prefer a woman who treats me as usual even if her conversation is slow.

So, in 2024, I wanted to choose a woman who said that.

This is also something I learned from my experience as a father.

By the way, children who are full of amateurishness can sometimes be seen working hard at everything, which I find endearing. (This is just my personal opinion)