This is difficult when the contract period is quite long.

When you contract and date a woman who is a father, some problems arise between the two of you.

Among these issues, the first one that comes up is the difference in ways of thinking.

When it comes to understanding things, the barrier of age inevitably stands in the way.

Of course, that's not all.

I'm just going to give you one example.

Therefore, if you have not signed a contract at the time of your first meeting, you can simply pay for the trip and say goodbye on the spot.

However, if you've been dating for more than six months to a year, it's not that easy.

Of course, according to the rules, the contract can be canceled.

All you have to do is simply tell him that you want to end the relationship by the end of this month.

But, as I'm sure all men who have become fathers understand, humans aren't all that simple.

Just as there is a rule in companies that you must give at least one month's notice if you are leaving, the more attached you are to a place, the more likely you are to regret it.

In the case of dad-hunting, unlike a company, it's just human beings.

That's also a relationship with the opposite sex.

In that case, it's not a relationship that you can easily break up with even if you tell her one month ago or two months ago.

First of all, the biggest reason is that most women who are active fathers have physical relationships with men.

In the case of men, there are many who are surprisingly cold-hearted and can easily shake off women.

However, when it comes to women who are attached to someone, there are many cases where it is difficult to sort out their feelings.

However, as far as I know, about 7-XNUMX% of men are able to shake off women. (This is just my feeling)

However, for women, the pattern is almost exactly the opposite of that for men.

In the case of women, when the physical relationship is involved, the general pattern also involves the mind. (I remembered that a researcher had previously said that the brain is built differently.)

This means that there is a lot of emotion involved.

Dear men, do you have any experience?When men say goodbye, women with whom they do not have a physical relationship can easily say goodbye, but women with whom they have a physical relationship tend to refuse to say goodbye.

Of course, there are cases where men are like this, but as far as I know, before and after having a physical relationship, I feel that women are overwhelmingly more reluctant.

That's true even in the so-called dad life.

When dads tearfully bid farewell to their children, it is surprisingly common for them to cry and ask, ``Why do I have to say goodbye?''

In that case, what do you do?Would you reconsider?If it were me, I would cancel the contract unless I really liked the child.

First of all, one of the reasons is that it's fine if it's a problem that can be resolved between you and the woman, but there are always problems that can't be resolved.

women's upbringing

There are many women who are fathers and have very good personalities.

However, unfortunately, there are also children who do not have very good personalities.

Among them, there are always children who have been brought up in a bad environment and can only judge men based on money, things, and status.

Since he is working as a father, it can't be helped that he sees this as a tool to make money.

I'm sure many men who have become fathers understand this as well.

However, when you make such an obvious attitude so obvious that I can see it, I get cold feet.

I'm sure many men have experienced such a situation.

By all means, all the men who become fathers are likely to have some assets and a certain status.

If this happens, there will be a considerable difference between women and men, including the environment in which they were raised.

However, depending on the woman, there are many children who did well even if they had a bad upbringing, perhaps because their parents raised them well.

That's why there are a few people who don't have very good personalities, and they really stand out in dad-hunting. (Just my personal opinion)

However, the reality is that you won't be able to see what's inside until you actually get closer and start dating.

It's impossible to make all judgments when you first meet someone, and I think it's rude to ask about a woman's upbringing when you first meet her.

Therefore, even if you think, "Huh? She's a bit lacking in class," when you first meet her, there are many cases where you'll ignore her inner self if she looks good on the outside.

And above all, when it comes to these kinds of issues, women have grown up with it, so fathers can't say anything negative about it.

For example, you can't say, ``Did you grow up thinking that way, 〇〇-chan? That's wrong.''

This leads to a ``complete denial'' of a woman's life up until now.

When it comes to daddy activities, the father's position is to tell women that they should be gentlemen.

So, you can't deny women's lives, right?

It is important to be in a position where you can acknowledge them.

However, no matter how generous Dad's heart is, there is a limit.

It's quite difficult to endure and continue to admit that, and since the contract is for dad-hunting, it won't work unless there is some benefit for the man as well.

For example, peace of mind.

And it's not a problem that can be solved by talking with women, and it's a problem that can't even be brought up as a topic.

That's why, no matter what the woman says, I always end the contract by giving reasons such as my physical condition not being good enough to prevent future relationships.

If you think that the woman no longer sees the man as a person, it is better to immediately cancel the contract.

No matter how hard you try, it's difficult to improve on this, and I've actually talked about it before.

If you do that, you'll naturally have a hard time having conversations during the date, and you'll end up not knowing why you're meeting this girl.

Maybe there are some men who are okay with that.

Regarding that, it will be an individual decision.