[Interview] "I've come to enjoy myself, and I've come to be able to make women happy."

The 2nd special dialogue with male members of the Universe Club, Mr. T and Mr. A!
From Mr. T who was a blog reader of male member AA discussion is decided with an enthusiastic offer!
(If you want to see the previous interview article, please check the link at the end of the article)
While the topic of the dating club situation is very lively,
Concierges Teratsuji and Tsuzuki enjoy the juicy chicken. .

The story developed into human power through dating with women.

ーーI thought it would be a place where I could grow as a man and as a human being.

Mr. T
At first, the reason you joined the dating club was simply because you've always been so serious, right?Now I'm in my mid-40s, and when I'm 50 or 60, I'm sure I'll regret it, so I decided to meet a woman. So, after researching various things, I thought that a dating club would be a good fit for me, so I entered.So, when I first joined, I simply thought that it would be nice if I could have a fun date with a girl even if it was a pseudo-romance for the first time in a while. Let me say that my purpose has gradually changed, but rather that it has become a little clearer. For example, what should I do to improve my communication skills, or study things that I can immediately put into practice.
Mr. A
It's fun when you understand
Mr. T
Yeah, I don't think my communication skills are very low, but I don't think I'm that high either. Communication skills that make women feel comfortable talking to them are very important, so I think it would be nice if I could improve them by trying to be aware of them. Because of that, I've been improving my physical condition, and for the past two months I've been restricting my diet, doing light exercise, and of course getting plenty of rest. There were times when I didn't feel energetic even when I was in front of a cute girl, and I've had a lot of embarrassing feelings like I'm going to go away even if I'm fine. So I was always in a state of low self-confidence, but lately I've slowly regained my self-confidence, and since then I've become even healthier, more energetic, and I'm enjoying myself and making women happy. rice field.Communication skills, health, and money
Mr. A
I think I'll do my best at work
Mr. T
Yeah, it doesn't cost a lot of money after all It's a negotiation at first, so isn't it free?If you think about it from a male's point of view, women will first have to make an objective evaluation.In terms of the universe, if there were 2, 3, 5, 10 bases of standard, gold, platinum, and black. , and in the form of multiplication, the person's subjective sense of values, how valuable he is, and if he's a stranger, he has to get this much as a base. I don't know if it's 1.2 times or 0.8 times.And then there's the third element, and that's the other man. Is it okay if it's cheap because it's this type of person?Like.In the case of men, I think that element is very important. Also, I'm not really that popular, but I thought it wasn't that bad, so I wonder if I can get a lot lower than the market price?So I asked my first child (who I dated first), how much would you like?At first, I was only eating meals, so I asked them to write down their name, contact information, and the amount they wanted. ) I haven't seen that girl since then, she's a gold girl, a college student, and she's like XNUMX.
Mr. A
It's how you listen.If you ask me, I can't help but say so high
Teratsuji
can i sayI think I'll become like
Mr. T
So, since then, I haven't asked, but basically if that happens, I'll prepare an envelope from the beginning and put XNUMX yen in it. The basic uniformity of XNUMX has changed the way of thinking, and when I look at the bulletin board, there are places where XNUMX yen is too much for women and XNUMX yen for men is less, but I've come to think like this. , It wouldn't hurt at all if it was XNUMX each time with one child about twice a month, but if you meet multiple children many times a month, it's a lie that it's not a burden with your current income. But if that's the case, shouldn't it be better to increase my income more by thinking in that way, rather than bargaining to make it cheaper, I'll do my best and my income will increase by XNUMX%, XNUMX%, and if it doubles or triples, it's cheap. isn't it?Thinking in that way, and conversely, if you start to think about it as motivation, what a wonderful system it will be. Communication will increase, you will become healthier, and your income will increase, and then you will have such things with women. So, I bought various teaching materials to see how I could please a woman, and I could put it into practice right away.
Teratsuji
It's wonderful~ (clap clap) No, it's great to hear you say that.
Mr. T
I'm so glad I entered
Teratsuji
Oh, here's a cut (laughs)
Everyone
Ahaha
Mr. T
that? (smile)

Take note of the words of a young girl and use them as a lesson

Teratsuji
Sometimes I hear that girls are more ready to go on dates, aren't they?But recently I feel that this feeling is stronger for men.
Mr. T
That's what I failed at first too

Mr. A
Ho~ I'll do my best (laughs)
Mr. T
Well, it may be a pseudo, but isn't it a long time love?There were times when I jumped up a little too much, and there were times when I shortened the sense of distance too much at once, so the other side didn't avoid it, but it wasn't a good feeling at all.No, but is this person okay?Like.Wouldn't it be a big deal if I misunderstood you?Even though I thought it was like that, the good thing about her is that she says what she wants to say clearly, and she may have gotten angry with her lack of momentum, but I still have a memo. , It's not what she said because it's my own interpretation, but "Look at people's expressions carefully, listen carefully to what people say, read what they want, understand their feelings, don't make excuses, act immediately." You don't have to say you're doing your best, you can get results through your actions.'
Mr. A
Company motto? (smile)
Everyone
Ahaha
Mr. T
You're intrusive and don't listen to people, do you?Like, it's not an imperative form, but I take it that way and I don't think a normal man would be happy if a young girl 20 years younger said that to me, but what I'm saying is true.
Mr. A
Noticed?
Mr. T
When I look at people's expressions, I can't help but think so much, so it's amazing...
Mr. A
It's stimulating, isn't it?
Mr. T
It was inspiring!There aren't many kids who can say that much.
Teratsuji
Certainly
Mr. T
That's why she made me grow so much So from that day on, I changed my mind. (laughs) Since then, when I'm busy, I don't reply or even look at it. I was told that I fell in love again
Mr. A
I'm glad
Teratsuji
You met a great girl!
Mr. T
really good boy
Teratsuji
Girls don't say that much to people who are dozens of years older, right?
Mr. T
I haven't checked with her, but maybe I was just annoyed and said something, but I was able to take it in a good direction, so I think we're both going in a positive direction starting from that day.
Teratsuji
It's better to have a girl say what she thinks rather than a girl who keeps bad things
Mr. T
I think it depends on the man, but I think there are people who get cut off by what they say, and I try to be humble, regardless of age.
Teratsuji
I don't think I should be more humble...
Mr. T
Of course, I'm the type who can't say it easily, but I thought I should say what I should say properly, so I thought I'd send something to another girl because it's her birthday, what do you want most right now?When I asked, I was told that it was a branded wallet, how much would it cost?(laughs) But I'm thinking of cutting it off with this. I was told it was urgent
Mr. A
Eh...
Teratsuji
Did you borrow it?did you give it?
Mr. T
I gave it, even if I said I gave it, it's about 10, but I need XNUMX. Well, I gave it a little more. At that time, I spent money on the premise that we would meet next time, and I was told that I needed the money right away and wanted to transfer it, so this time it was Hatachi's birthday. What do you like as a present?When he came to see me (because he's from Osaka), I thought I'd just pay for his transportation, but I'm not a bad boy, but I can't do that... As a college student, I don't want branded items...
Mr. A
There are many gentle men, right?
Teratsuji
There are many
Mr. T
I spoil you (laughs)
Teratsuji
No, no, if you're thinking of a girl...
Tsuzuki
It's tough (laughs).
Mr. T
She first spent XNUMX hours at the Westin Nagoya Castle Hotel?After chatting for quite some time, give me this (XNUMX fingers)
Teratsuji
Is it just transportation and meals?
Mr. T
There was also a feeling that I wanted to cheer you on just by eating.There was a possibility that it would go in that direction, so I put it in, but it was a little out of time, so in the end it was just a meal, but I gave it to her as it was. , I came here to stay because it's only convenient on weekdays, but I only slept for about XNUMX hours the day before, so when I got to the hotel, I started sleeping.
Everyone
Ahaha
Mr. T
On top of that, I slept so badly that my futon was taken away, and after that I caught a cold for a week and was really unwell (laughs).
Everyone
Ahaha
Mr. T
I'll pay you, I'll lose my health (laughs)
Teratsuji
It's so funny
Mr. A
there are many things
Mr. T
Wait a minute, she...

Importance of self-improvement for both men and women

Mr. A
Universe and dating clubs are paid by men, so I think it's natural to think that men are the main service, but I said something on my blog just now.
There was talk of giving XNUMX, but of course I think meeting a cute girl will make me work harder, so I think it's really possible to give more than that.I used to spend money on girls in the past, but when I met a lot of girls, when I got along with them, I listened to their old stories, and many of them used to do things like compensated dating.So, dating clubs may also come in, but I think that when you are in trouble with money once, you can manage it at the dating club, and when you are in trouble again, you will rely on the dating club again.So, it's the same with compensated dating, but there are a lot of kids who can't get out of it once they do it.

Mr. T
I sympathize with that too
Mr. A
I don't want to do something that's not good for that child's life, so it's difficult.
Mr. T
That's why I don't have XNUMX or less, and I don't have XNUMX or more.
Teratsuji
I hear that a lot, a child who doesn't know anything comes in wanting to meet someone, wants to find a dad, and because he's got money there, he can't get out of that life, but eventually he has to graduate. I can't, so I'm going to start a relationship with a child who doesn't know anything, and eventually I have to get that child married, and I have to get out of this kind of life, so I don't give her pocket money too much, but if I don't give her too much, I won't go out with her. It doesn't seem like there's any point in doing it, so I don't let them be too extravagant, but there were people who didn't spoil me too much.
Mr. A
As a universe, I think we've come up with the know-how to make men happy, so I'd like you to think about services that will benefit women as well.
Teratsuji
Of course, there is
Mr. A
Oh, it's the one on the homepage, right?
Teratsuji
Yes, it doesn't cost money to register for it, and there are many courses that you can take for free...
Mr. A
Is it troublesome?
Mr. T
It's a waste~
Mr. A
That's why everyone is so unmotivated, they say it's to improve themselves in front of men, but then you're talking about getting in.
Mr. T
I also had something I wanted to say, I think there are three big secrets for women to fall in love, get married and be happy in the future.If you have external beauty, manners, demeanor, education, health, etc., such charms, inner and outer, both sides should be polished, not limited to dating clubs. I think, if you don't do that, you won't start a relationship or a relationship unless you first get a man to like you, so I think that's absolutely necessary. Seeing eyes?
Mr. A
Oh
Mr. T
I wonder if this person is really a good man or not, or if this is an opportunity for women to learn that through this club. , So-called "Ageman"?The ability to develop men, or rather, the image of Ageman somehow makes men feel good about it, and I keep saying that I don't like normal humans, and both men and women. It's not like I don't want to be scolded, so I'm doing it, but if it's for the sake of this child or this person, I think that's what Ageman is.
I still don't quite understand the definition of Ageman, but I think she had that element in a way.
Teratsuji
I think I'll do my best for this child.
Mr. T
Yeah, if you're going to join a club like this and go out with men, I think you should be aware of that ability. My favorite child and my second child both went to school, and once they became working adults, they were in their mid-twenties. Well, I don't have money, so I really want to support that.
Teratsuji
It's hard to meet a girl like that
Mr. T
Difficult lol
Mr. A
No child thinks like that.
Mr. T
But I don't know how to do that kind of guidance, but it's really difficult (laughs)
Mr. A
If you say too much, you won't be able to enter lol
Teratsuji
There are many girls who say that the reason why girls join is their current income plus alpha.
Mr. T
After all it is so
Teratsuji
I think I should tell you more about the benefits of joining a dating club.Earn money and increase your benefits
Mr. A
I don't know if I can say it, but there's a part-time job recruitment site, and there's a universe on it, and it says 1,000 yen or more per hour.You know how to get from Sapporo to Fukuoka, right?
Teratsuji
I know, are you okay?Most of the children find it in such places, become interested in it, and then do their own research and come to register.
Mr. A
You can't get the idea of ​​self-improvement from that ad.It's easy to earn money. It's not an advertisement.
Teratsuji
But even a girl who came in for that purpose can change her mind if she meets someone like that.
Mr. T
That's why men are so important.
Teratsuji
That's right, I think mutual awareness is important.
Mr. A
I have a little thought, but of course I only meet a limited number of girls when I meet them, but at least I want them to learn that kind of way of thinking.
Mr. T
The reason why I say this is because I think there are many people who don't know this way of thinking, and I think there are both men and women.It's going to be a bit of an error, but then, ah, there's this kind of way of thinking, and although not everyone may agree, I think it's pretty good to sympathize, and it would be nice if you could put it into practice. I think the world will become a good club.
Teratsuji
It's not just men who want to support girls and register.
Mr. T
of course
Teratsuji
play with different girls
Mr. T
Of course, what about percentages?Are there more?
Teratsuji
Well, how are you? .
Mr. A
The ratio, or rather the strength of each person's desire, varies greatly from person to person.
Teratsuji
But if you have a good encounter, I think even those who think that way will change their minds.
Mr. A
Hmmm, maybe?Maybe even if I talk about it seriously, it will be troublesome and it will end (lol)
Mr. T
Well lol.But I think it will resonate with those who resonate.I didn't think like this from the beginning
Teratsuji
I think that's why I met you so many times and that's how it turned out.
Mr. T
oh maybe
Teratsuji
I don't think all the girls I've met so far are doing well, but I met the girl there, and the feeling of wanting to support her grows, and that's part of the process.
Mr. A
Because at first I thought it was amazing, but on the bulletin board (*XNUMX the bulletin board is temporarily closed), people who are at odds with each other talk about how much the market price is.
Mr. T
for sure lol
Mr. A
You either like it or you don't.That's why we have to search for a win-win relationship
Teratsuji
It's important how you meet that kind of girl.We can only say that we don't know until we meet
Mr. A Mr. T
Ahh
Mr. A
That's right, even an interview has its limits, so what kind of child are you?
Teratsuji
That's about an hour, and I don't think the girl will show her rawness in the first interview.
Mr. A
Like a bad boy, right? (smile)
Teratsuji
I have a cat rash, and they say there will be a review at the interview, so I think it's okay to do well at that point.
Mr. A
It's true that when you start dating, even if you think she's a nice girl at first, your true nature will come out.
Teratsuji
After all, there are things you can't understand unless you meet a few times, even if it's not here.But as you said, I think it's important to make girls aware.
Mr. A
A child who is having trouble with money is coming, right?Basically.The woman I met the other day didn't seem to have any trouble with money. She works hard and seems to be traveling with the money she earns herself. I think I want to earn money for my trip.That's why I think there are basically a lot of children like that.
Teratsuji
Of course, there are girls who want to value dating as well as money, so I try to ask about that during interviews, and if I understand that, I try to tell them.It might be fun to have a look there.
Mr. A
That's why when I make an offer, I try to listen to what the interviewed staff have to say.You must be annoyed that I keep calling you (laughs)
Tsuzuki
No no no ~ (laughs)
Mr. T
Are you a phone person?
Mr. A
I didn't understand something at first, so I called you
Mr. T
I'm the type to meet people in person (laughs). I've been to Yokohama, I've been to Osaka, and I want to go to Tokyo.But after all local branch is good (laugh)

Thank you for taking time out of your busy schedules to speak with us today.
Thank you for your continued support of Universe Club.​

Male members Mr. A and Mr. T who participated in the discussion article.The male profile is T who is in his 40s and works in IT.Mr. A, an investor in his 30s.Thank you very much for your participation.The true feelings of the members are getting out, but I think it was good that they were able to convey their raw voices.We will also continue to plan dialogues and interviews.Stay tuned for the next update★

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[Conversation] "Ever since I learned about the dating club, I've put a lot of emphasis on safety and haven't done anything unreasonable."

 

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