My membership registration was in XNUMX, so XNUMX years ago.However, there have been no new developments in the last few years.
Several years to transfer only the annual fee. . .

I don't care about the reason until it's "new".
As a feeling, "It's better to have new tatami mats."That's right, but the current
The past few years have passed with the motto of being thin and long.

I was in my XNUMX's or XNUMX's when we met.However, they are also in their XNUMXs, and some
To the XNUMX's.We are XNUMX years old now.However, they are more "lustrous" than when I first met them.
The frequency of meeting varies, but on average it is about once or twice every three months.

To be honest, there are some people I haven't heard from at the moment.
I'm sure you'll reach a new level.Or did you find a different daddy
There is no reason to know that.It's nothing to chase.

At first, every time I signed up for the club and met more people, I thought, too.
I wonder if the women who register for such a club are looking for a boom in a short period of time. . .

However, as time went by, I realized that this is not the case.
yes.They also need a "safe and stable daddy".

With the presence of a dad who solidifies the baseline, I think that ordinary people are also necessary
I came to think.
Actually, the person who felt that way also
I am very grateful for the balance of income and expenditure, work adjustment, and physical condition management.

For me, the most important thing is to continue to be thin, long, and extremely thin.
I would like to maintain the relationship without using extra effort.

On the other hand, from the other person's point of view, "ordinary dad", "papa who is harmless to humans and animals" may not be enough.

If I add one more
Isn't that just a modified form of "customs"? .

That's OK.For that reason, in that limited time, I thought it would be good if we could interact with each other comfortably in a virtual image.

Speaking of manners and customs, it may be so, but
Depth is different.It is not just an outlet, but I want to nurture it with care.

Continuing a long-term relationship while matching the atmosphere and mood of each other (playing each other)
It's up to you.The introduction has become longer.

Title: Case.01 I want to eat xiao long bao

She is a teacher who teaches a course at a beauty school and also belongs to a shop.
The age difference is almost double.She is petite but bonkyumbon.
When we meet in the summer, I really have trouble finding a place to look.
Is it not possible for the person himself to dress a little more quietly?I told you, but originally,
It's there, and it's individuality, so there's no point in hiding it. . .As you say.

As a result, I continued for five years and now go overseas.And now I'm out of touch.

Well, here is my first impression of her (appearance is as mentioned above).Confused by her figure
First of all, it is a subtly observation of the background and behavior of the meal.It's time to observe each other.

I want to take a closer look at my opponent here.
From the other person's point of view, there is no way to know whether he is a "good dad" or a one-shot.

Everyone's first appearance is first.It looks XNUMX%.

When I meet someone for the first time, I basically wear a suit and look as serious as I do when entertaining.
The necktie...The shirt is...What color are the suits?

Anyway, it is important to appear "sincere" in the first impression, and in order to continue the relationship in the long term
I think it's important to be a person who is normally neat, including clothes, rather than a hint of money.

Women tend to pay attention to details.Are eyebrows, nose hairs and ear hairs okay? ?

The same goes for beards.I shave in the morning and grow out in the evening.
I have a thick beard, so an electric shaver is a must.What about nails?Do your glasses fog up?　

By the way, when it comes to meeting and greeting, if you have an observant eye
If you are in a hotel lobby, you will know who you are looking for before calling TEL.
Originally, the videos and photos are provided by the club.

This is very important.You should have an advantage over your opponent.

Gestures, nervousness, standing posture, sitting posture on the sofa, etc.

What facial expressions and gestures do you use when answering the phone?
This is where you decide how long your relationship will last.

First talk, or rather, time for "nice to meet you".

As I mentioned earlier, our basic stance is to look long and thin toward the future and provide a sense of security.

I start by saying "nice to meet you" followed by "thank you for your time".
In any case, gratitude and sincerity are in the foreground and harmlessness to humans and animals is in the foreground.No need to rush.

It's okay to say your first impression, is this an old man okay?It's good to hear.
We usually meet in the hotel lobby.
There are many places to sit.First, let's sit down and talk.

Sitting position is very important.where to put your luggage
If you sit loosely, you're basically out.

As for belongings, bags, shoes, watches, hairstyles, make-up, and hairstyles are implicitly checked. (Mutual valuation time)

Now, let me invite you to dinner.
Requests and likes and dislikes are asked via the club, "I want you to come hungry."

Meals are mostly Japanese.This is because I want to see the so-called "nurtured" and "raw" of the other person.

How to use chopsticks, how to hold a bowl, how to place a bowl, where to put a bowl, how to use soy sauce, etc.
In the tension of having a meal together for the first time, how “genuine” is it?

It's not a restaurant that suddenly has a high threshold, so it's OK to be a casual restaurant to some extent.

I feel safe when I behave well when eating.

I assume that next time I will invite you to a shop where I have to be a little more careful about etiquette.
I also have a feeling that I want to see if it's okay next time.

However, asking only the other party is a bit too good.As a discerning power, I am always conscious of my manners and behavior.Well, good manners.And please praise her manners too.

picture!I'm looking at that.do you care?Do you think it's normal, or do you think it's tough?
Or a troublesome old man ... Anything is fine.

"I'm watching you. I'm relieved."

The rest is listening.
It's not a hearing, so I'm not going to dig up the roots and leaves.I don't listen to private.
Rather, please continue to ask questions, give your impressions, and backtrack in such a way that they feel comfortable talking to you.

Well, let's talk about the teacher.When her base of operations was in Japan, she visited once every three months.
Each other's status briefing.

I still think that the beginning is the most important thing.I think that all the encounters are in that moment.
It's before meals.

Again, in this club, as a male side, you can view photos and videos.
Moreover, it can be roughly summarized into the following three patterns.
Not so when you meet him in person. XNUMX%

On the contrary, it is much better than photos and videos. XNUMX%
No no.Exactly like the photos and videos. XNUMX%

Each evaluation is my personal opinion.

In her case, it was "completely within the XNUMX% range", but even though it is hidden by the clothes, it is a style that goes beyond that.There are no particular problems, including greetings and meal manners.

Concerns, thoughts, behavior, future dreams, etc.
Be a good listener.After finishing the meal, she invited me to the hotel bar.

This is also a very ordinary office worker, nothing special.
In addition, while sharing the convenience and content of work, and the only time you can feel relieved, you have a listening attitude.

Since alcohol is also included, anyway, have them talk comfortably.

Occasionally comment from an adult's point of view.Although she does not deny her statement,
Don't bring it into the discussion.Rather, like a homework, "Tell me next time" and carry it over to the next time.

Even in the company, including motivational boosts to young subordinates,
When thinking about human resource development and personnel evaluation, I realize that the knowledge, practice, and experience at that time are useful.

Make her think, "Well, this old man is good," and trust & consult, or "someone who is easy to talk to."
It's OK if you feel that way.If she can get a promise from her side that she wants to continue
Today's mission is complete.The next one is even better!

And then the third party.Invitation to your room.

In the refrigerator, even sparkling wine to cleanse the palate.
For this reason, early check-in is required.Please finish before we meet.
Anyway, smooth and a little surprise.

First of all, I'm going to toast tonight for no reason.Thank you.
All that's left is to wait for her to say "I'm going to the shower".

With that teacher, the place to eat has been fixed.
It is a shop of xiaolongbao.After eating xiao long bao somewhere in Tokyo, I quietly went to my room.

From some time ago, "If you want to eat xiao long bao, please contact me."and she hands her initiative.

For several years, the catchphrase in the title of my emails was "I want to eat xiao long bao."
Decide on a date, time and place and proceed as usual.

The usual password was sent from her.
After the password, "I can't eat for a while..." was added.
Originally oriented overseas.It seems that he is ready for overseas martial arts training.

and leave the country.From the jet on the approach line before taking off

"Please take me again. Xiaolongbao!"
The answer is "Anytime!"

The End!

I was going to erase it from my memory as the last, but about half a year later.
I got a message that you're back! ! .
There is an address and a keyword that I learned, "I want to eat xiaolongbao."

While receiving a recent update at the xiaolongbao shop, we spend a short time together like before.
Only once, the next room was next to a room that seemed to be a school trip girl student, and a loud, high-pitched voice.
The walls are thin even in a famous hotel in the city.
Let the students next to you hear her scream and ask them to be quiet.

I passed a group of students in the hallway, but the next room was a bit too stimulating. . . .sorry.

But this is the night in Tokyo.As usual, in private
Do not touch anything. . .It's a promise that was formed all too soon.

After that, while returning home/traveling several times, I forgot about it and got an email saying, "I want to eat xiao long bao."

However, so far, I have not heard from him for more than three years.I haven't heard from you either.
Are you enjoying the next stage, or have you created a different base for your life?

In any case, it is a fact that there was such a relationship.

It's about time it faded from memory.
You might get an email tomorrow saying, "I want to eat xiao long bao."

//D for right turn